chymystique: Annie married D Guy cos of d money mayb she mit rili love him as she claims buh a responsible lady wouldn't get herself into dis kinda meSs... Am jst wondering wah wil happen wen all dis kids grow up cos e go b lik Ojukwu's Will Wahala if 2face leaves dis earth.... Annie, shld beta shine her eyes ooo

tpia@:
What does ejeh mean and what language is it?

Why couldnt the kid have two yoruba names.

sandilo:

This one when e name d pickin when dey outside "Lion" is very symbolic o. Annie had beta hold her side well and settle herself neat while d guy is still around because d "father of all battles" is gathering storm at the speed of a category 5 super typhoon!

debby dominic: .
Annie married tuface with her eyes wide open so why should you feel sorry for her.she had a choice to reject his marriage proposal but she didn't.she saw all these coming so let her deal with it.

chucky234: Well Annie would have dumped 2face after two children from two different women had he ended up like Azadus or Father U-turn, therefore money played a huge part in Annie's decision to marry 2baba.

luvable sam: Maths hadn't been a very strong subject for me growing up buh from calculations 2face must have proposed to annie on feb 14th last year when pero was heavily pregnant with this Kid and am hundred percent sure annie wud av known dis fact Right?Now which sane principled naija lady would accept a man proposal for marriage when another lady is heavily pregnant for Him. Am not been judgemental here just wondering where some people's principles went!

pro01: That cannot even be debated. Money/success didn't play a huge part in this circus; it played the 'only' part. One can only get away with this kind of messy situation that 2baba put himself when one is rich/successful.

If he didn't turn out so successful, Annie would have since snapped out og her teenage, starry-eyed infatuation with the handsome plantashun boy, and 'seen' the 'clear' fact that he was too irresponsible to ever be deemed a potential husband. She would certainly have rejected his marriage proposal like every 'principled' girl would do. Unfortunately, principles, values, and morals often develop cold-feet when money/success throws its magical hat into the ring. All kinds of persuasive Justifications and rationalisations are then quickly conjured to explain the volte-face.

tpia@:
What does ejeh mean and what language is it?

Why couldnt the kid have two yoruba names.

ogugua88:

[size=13pt]I agree with this 100%. That's her problem though. The woman people are pitying is enjoying her newlywed life, even if that means her matrimonial home is forever open to her husband's other children and their mothers. As long as money is involved, I don't see an end to women selling theirselves short to be crowned Mrs. So and So. That's certainly something I won't be emulating, however.

By the way, happy birthday to the smalli. I forgot this is a birthday thread lol.[/size]

Ms_Steph: I feel so sad for annie. If this is his 6th child annie has a lot of baby mamas to deal with.

pro01:

That cannot even be debated. Money/success didn't play a huge part in this circus; it played the 'only' part. One can only get away with this kind of messy situation that 2baba put himself when one is rich/successful.

If he didn't turn out so successful, Annie would have since snapped out og her teenage, starry-eyed infatuation with the handsome plantashun boy, and 'seen' the 'clear' fact that he was too irresponsible to ever be deemed a potential husband. She would certainly have rejected his marriage proposal like every 'principled' girl would do. Unfortunately, principles, values, and morals often develop cold-feet when money/success throws its magical hat into the ring. All kinds of persuasive Justifications and rationalisations are then quickly conjured to explain the volte-face.

ekolina: who do u xpet ha 2 marry afta having 2 issues him.. I fink 2face did ha a gr8 favor by tking shame off ha head

tpia@:
since one should assume the mother will be the primary caregiver for this child [tuface proposed to another lady a few days before or after the mother delivered, or something like that], then she should have been the one primarily naming the baby.

In which case, its rather pointless choosing names from a language that's not her own. Of course everyone hopes tuface will be equally involved in raising all the children, therefore they'll somehow magically work it out as if nothing is unusual about the situation, but the fact remains tuface is neither a twin, triplet or quadruplet and neither can he clone himself to be in different places consecutively in order to be with the kids.

He also has his own career to manage, he cant spend all his time tracking children unless he hires someone to do so.


prime responsibility remains with the mothers.

the circumstances around the birth of this particular child definitely imply he wants the mother to be the primary carer?

women are sentimental creatures, true, but some things are too glaring to ignore, no matter how sentimental one might be.

give the baby yoruba names that will let him know you intended well for him, not ones that will make him wonder if you and the father just needed him for whatever game you were playing.

tpia@:
since one should assume the mother will be the primary caregiver for this child [tuface proposed to another lady a few days before or after the mother delivered, or something like that], then she should have been the one primarily naming the baby.

In which case, its rather pointless choosing names from a language that's not her own. Of course everyone hopes tuface will be equally involved in raising all the children, therefore they'll somehow magically work it out as if nothing is unusual about the situation, but the fact remains tuface is neither a twin, triplet or quadruplet and neither can he clone himself to be in different places consecutively in order to be with the kids.

He also has his own career to manage, he cant spend all his time tracking children unless he hires someone to do so.


prime responsibility remains with the mothers.

the circumstances around the birth of this particular child definitely imply he wants the mother to be the primary carer?

women are sentimental creatures, true, but some things are too glaring to ignore, no matter how sentimental one might be.

give the baby yoruba names that will let him know you intended well for him, not ones that will make him wonder if you and the father just needed him for whatever game you were playing.

HotNaijaBabe: Kindly let me quote u. Annie did not marry Tuface cos of his money. I can testify to the fact that when they started dating( so many years ago) and Tuface was just a local boy smoking weed with his pals( Faze and Black face)..Annie was his back bone( Financialy). Her dad is/was really loaded and she loved him for him and gave him her best.

#Now, I don't pity her cos she's made her choice. I only pity the other baby mama's.I wonder how it feels knowing one is good enough to be 'knacked' but not good enough to be wedded..Hmmmn! And Tuface really is 'The father of all nations' of our time..

tohirah: And why is tu face not there on his son's first year b'day even tho he isn't married to their mother

tpia@:
What does ejeh mean and what language is it?

Why couldnt the kid have two yoruba names.

bigfrancis21:

My friend, stop being senseless and unnecessarily tribalistic. Just because their mothers are yoruba, not their father, so they should bear all yoruba names? You're behaving partial because its your tribe involved. If you were Idoma you would probably be very angry right now at why the baby has a foreign (yoruba) name instead of all Idoma names.

Sam Omatseye is half-itsekiri with a yoruba mother, why doesn't he have a yoruba name? Kofi Annan had his two kids
by a yoruba woman, yet none of them bears a yoruba name, but all Akan names, why haven't you complained? Because it involves your tribe, you've decided to ignore the norm and act ignorant.

Or have you forgotten that the Nigerian society is patrilineal? Meaning that, no matter how long those children stay with their yoruba mothers all their lives, they are still NOT yoruba but Idoma and will always return to back their original native Idoma land. Sorry, those kids will never have all yoruba names, nor never will they be Yoruba. Deal with that.

In case you haven't noticed, Tuface of a guy is a very proud Idoma man, and doesn't ever forget his homeland, like some people do when they go international. He doesn't play with his tribe and language and never forgets to do the proper thing by giving his kids Idoma names to declare their Idoma ancestry. I wouldn't be shocked if all his half-yoruba kids sell you in idoma language.

tpia@:
@ the two ignoramuses [and their dumb sidekicks], who quoted me

i dont know how they do things where you people come from, but generally in nigeria its an insult to a woman's family when you keep putting her in the family way without any solid plans for her life by way of marriage. Possibly there are consequences for doing the same in annie's culture, which he decided he had better avoid.

of course you can all keep running mouth anyhow like slaves who have been sold many times over, the actual fault lies with the women who agreed to let themselves [not yorubas] be so insulted.

so, the floor is all yours, hope the women in question are satisfied the baby papa's friends are defending them on nl.


kofi annan was married to the mother of his nigerian kids. Not sure why you're mentioning his name. As per your other example, no idea who he is- are you saying his parents werent married?