toofine765: Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

toofine765: Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

omigin: I don't think it is posible for any human bein to have sex everyday.

jidegirl12: OP does he have a J O B / duties as a husband & help around the house ??

I don't think Brad Pitt & Jolie , Jennifer & Affleck , Moi & babe do it every night after a long day at work and kids going crazy.

Solution; she should designate a kind of chore around the house for him

( pick up the kids since he's too free, help with laundry, fix things around the house and not use handyman, I'll come up with more ideas)

, he's too free and he's milking her meekness. What will be will be. Ko regberegbe lo.

toofine765: Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

coogar:

your sister should lie she's got a self-infected venereal disease. that should buy her some 2-3 weeks of needed rest.

Ocutegan: Lol @lead to her death one day
Chill OP, better people are coming to comment

byvan:


Not intrested in bashing anyone either.

andyanders:

The guy is not working.He sells Igbo " Marujuana" and that makes him high on drugs.So the lady has to deal with that.Even during her mestruation, no mercy from the guy. So he is not normal.
Let op ask her sister to come online and tell us her story by herself or, maybe the OP is the person involved here and she is presenting her sister as a a cover up..