It seems that dating Nigerian men has quickly become a trend in East Africa. The 'show me your Oga I show you mine' syndrome has rapidly spread and these men have even replaced the white man preference. But what many women don't know is that they will wine, dine and Bleep you but never marry you.

I spent a few weeks in Nigeria early this year and the picture I got from them- people behave differently when in their original environment- was rather different. Nigerians tend to avoid contact with foreigners, especially their women. It's only ashawos that date white men or men from other cultures- did I say date? Sorry, sell is more like it. Your average girl next door Nigerian woman will not even look at foreigner so this creates an unfair advantage for the Nigerian man. However this is not why they will not marry you. The reasons are:

 

Their Mother

Nigerians are a very cultural lot. Despite travelling, exposure to other cultures, copious naira they still maintain their culture- look how they dress. So a mother would not want a foreigner for a daughter-in-law to bring 'conflict' into their culture. Especially from a culture that is so influenced by the West that they cannot kneel down in front of their husband's mother or cook traditional foods.

 

Nigerian Women Traits

Nigerian women love their men and put up with so much shit from them. A man will meet you, move you to America then leave you there to give birth as he stays in Nigeria having fun with other women. And the women are okay with this. Which East African woman can agree to be left in a foreign country to just produce children so they can get foreign passports? The rationale of the women is that "Well, as long as he is providing for my needs I don't care what he does!" Even if he runs around with other women she has her car, her house and is living abroad.

 

Aggressive East African Women

Nigerian women are very aggressive and loud but they can never raise their voice or fists to a Nigerian man. The East African women are the opposite- they abuse and can sometimes turn violent (Kenyan women especially because Ugandan women are ladies.) So the Nigerian men fear them and can't even contemplate marrying such a person. Nigerian women release their aggression on other women not their men...so they guy knows he can Bleep around but it's his girlfriend who shall get slapped.

 

EQL

East African women are Easy Quick Lays. All a Nigerian has to do is drive them in his big car...knickers drop. Take them to a fancy restaurant...knickers drop. Buy them champagne...knickers drop. Buy them an iPhone...knickers drop. Nigerian women are tougher to bed thus a greater challenge and greater respect. To bed a Naija woman you buy her a car...buy her a house or even buy her a jet. Some men take a chick to Europe for a week and still sleep in separate rooms and even when they return back to Nigeria the guy gets nothing until he proposes. An East African would drop her knickers at the idea even before the purchase of air tickets or visa application even.

 

So, as he takes you out...and you drop your knickers. As he buys you champagne...and you drop your knickers...as he buys you phones...and you drop your knickers- just know he shall never marry. He will leave your ass and go marry a Nigerian woman. The only ring you'll ever get from a Naija man is a call saying he never wants to see you again.

Source... http://www.vibeweekly.com/features/1030-that-nigerian-man-will-never-marry-you-a-warning-to-east-african-women.html?fb_comment_id=fbc_348056408628244_1685527_348076571959561



Guys wetin una think?

U wan spoil market for naija guys abi

Looking for my shovel to decipher bullshit.

i think its true. but i am in south africa and have noticed that most of my home boys only marry these easy ashawos because of paper or to just help a nigga get through the process of bordom, finance etc but most of us always return home for a good wife

sexkillz: 80% rubbish. This must have been written by a Nigerian in diaspora, who hasn't been back to Nigeria in a hell of a long time.

eze moses: i think its true. but i am in south africa and have noticed that most of my home boys only marry these easy ashawos because of paper or to just help a nigga get through the process of bordom, finance etc but most of us always return home for a good wife

I mean no offense to Nigeria,South Africa,nor East Africa.

[size=22pt]But why would anyone marry for papers to these above countries?[/size]

Mrs.Chima:


I mean no offense to Nigeria,South Africa,nor East Africa.

[size=22pt]But why would anyone marry for papers to these above countries?[/size]

simple, to help boost their economy.some of them can't do without our aids.no offense, just and observation.

badmrkt: simple, to help boost their economy.some of them can't do without our aids.no offense, just and observation.

Uhmmm...Nigeria has about 150 million plus human beings...why would they nsed more humans to boost anything?

sexkillz: 80% rubbish. This must have been written by a Nigerian in diaspora, who hasn't been back to Nigeria in a hell of a long time.

My cousin married a east African. Stop the bullshitting.

I doubt if dis piece was written by a nigerian... U knw most east african guys ar jealous of d average naija man. Dey luk up to us, just lyk we do d yanks

Actually the op is 90% right.

Most Nigerian women will not be caught dead dating foreigners. The ones you see with foreigners most of the times are runs girls who have Nigerian boyfriends already.

Most of the men will not marry out especially the IGBO men: East African ladies be wary of Igbo men, they often times go back to pick a bride from their region.

LMAO@Nigerian women won't marry foreigners and Igbo men do not marry out.

I am threw.

Mrs.Chima:


I mean no offense to Nigeria,South Africa,nor East Africa.

[size=22pt]But why would anyone marry for papers to these above countries?[/size]

Madam have you eva been to SA?have you seen how most our brothers are living down here?please pay a visit then ask me that question

gbaky_floor: Actually the op is 90% right.

Most Nigerian women will not be caught dead dating foreigners. The ones you see with foreigners most of the times are runs girls who have Nigerian boyfriends already.

Most of the men will not marry out especially the IGBO men: East African ladies be wary of Igbo men, they often times go back to pick a bride from their region.

I didn't write d piece... Came across it and postd ere fo views

brixton:
Nigerian women are tougher to bed thus a greater challenge and greater respect.

Bwahahahahahaha! Where in Nigeria are you? Sorry to bust your bubble. Race, country or geography has nothing to do with being 'easy lays'. Race, country or geography doesn't determine character.

Mrs.Chima:
LMAO@Nigerian women won't marry foreigners and Igbo men do not marry out.

I am threw.

This one be witch? Or what?

nenergy:
Bwahahahahahaha! Where in Nigeria are you? Sorry to bust your bubble. Race, country or geography has nothing to do with being 'easy lays'. Race, country or geography doesn't determine character.

you may be right, but in the other hand..culture sure affects CHARACTER and probability of being an 'easy lay'....seriously...
Nigeria is blessed with diverse cultures you know...come to think of it..it prevents them from marrying an outsider,tho few do.

NessaFresh: U wan spoil market for naija guys abi

he no go succeed.....

Seriously, this piece probably not from a Nigerian but then, it seems that Nigerian men are the most coveted in Africa hence the hateration (apologies to ItsModella).

NessaFresh: U wan spoil market for naija guys abi

No be me write, I just de share ni

True!!
I dated a kenyan. D easiest catch though but she had some attitude dat kept me glued. They ar go-getters even in d face of failure, confident n independent!!!!
They ar violent, the Nyeris, luckily she was Kikuyu.
Easiest lays but serious in relationshps.
2bad we've broken up. Long distance is poo.

nenergy:
Bwahahahahahaha! Where in Nigeria are you? Sorry to bust your bubble. Race, country or geography has nothing to do with being 'easy lays'. Race, country or geography doesn't determine character.

It does not even take more than popcorn to bed many naija babes.

generalisations are for simple-minded people who lack the brain capacity to capture the complexity of life

eze moses:













Madam have you eva been to SA?have you seen how most our brothers are living down here?please pay a visit then ask me that question

Huh Nigga? Why would a Nigerian marry South African for [size=44pt]PAPERS[/size]??!!!!!!

ckkris:

This one be witch? Or what?

Ask your mammy.

oh god please don't let my girlfriend see this

one truth is that kenya girls are violent.

[size=30pt]wat?[/size]

you mean these east africans?

https://www.nairaland.com/949631/east-african-girls-not-overrated