10 BASIC RULES FOR NEW RELATIONSHIP...

The following ten points I'm going to state are extremely simple, yet people sometimes forget them:

1.) ASSIGN BOUNDARIES:
if you're a big fan of PDA (public display of affection), make sure you create a line and not cross it. Whether you hold hands, kiss, lie on her lap, just do one of these and don't make it go overboard.

2.) PERSONAL SPACE IS IMPORTANT:
Make sure both of you give each other appropriate personal space.You're in a relationship, it doesn't mean you start creeping each other out.

3.) LOYALTY IS KEY
Don't play hide and seek with their feelings. If you have done something wrong, come clean.

4.) A CLEAN PAST
Let's face it, everyone makes mistakes at some point in their lives. So when you start a new relationship, make sure it's new in every aspect. Clear your past in front of your partner, so if some day some of your past demons wake up, nothing would decrease the love between you two and it will also strengthen their trust in you.

5.) DON'T CHEAT
You're probably saying to yourself "What sort of slowpoke would cheat?". You'd be surprised.

6.) KEEP IT IN THE BEDROOM.
Every couple fights. Some fights end quickly. Some take time. Regardless of how long they go, you need to keep it between the two of you. Do NOT involve friends and family. It'll only make you two drift apart from each other in the long run.

7.) ONE SPECIAL DAY
Keep one day for the two of you. It could be thrice a month or four times a week, depends on you. But define a day for you two when cell phones are turned off, no work talk, no family talk, just the two of you spending some much-needed quality time together.

8.) BE FRIENDLY
Get to know each others' friends. It never hurts to get involved in their hangouts if they want you to.

9.) LITERAL DATES
You need to remember each others' birthdays. And the anniversary is important too. Celebrate each of these events with your full commitment and effort.

10.) KEEP IT SIMPLE
This one is especially for the ladies. Ladies, people love you, but you need to SAY what's on your mind rather than telling them "It's Okay" when it's really not. Keep it simple.

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Too many of these rules and u may end up not recognizing and appreciating mr/miss Right when u eventually see them. Follow ur heart but use ur brains, it's that simple!

This one seems fair and reasonable tho

Okie Dokie; NEXT...

11. Don't get over familiar with the family.

There are no rules in relationships of any kind other than be true to yourselves and respect each other!

noted nice write up

thank you

All this tins dont work in nigeria. I bet dis writer must have googled dis out instead of making his own reasearch in naija.smh

Abujafood: There are no rules in relationships of any kind other than be true to yourselves and respect each other!

dat could be rules too

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i really agree with ur last point.
It really make sense to me. majority of ladies will prefer to say OK, when all is nt well.

I'm tired of these tips,rules,dos and donts etc of relationships.

The golden rule is if you are a man try to be rich. If you are a lady try to be good looking and pretend to have good character if you dont have already. All other things would be added to you.

All these dos and donts in relationship are the real reasons relationship don't last these days. Instead of raw (free flow affection), people dish out cooked or artificial affection based on what they have read or taught about love. Our grandfathers didn't read all these yet they kept their relationships.

maar!a (f):
10 BASIC RULES FOR NEW RELATIONSHIP...


...This one is especially for the ladies. Ladies, we love you, but you need to SAY what's on your mind rather than telling us "It's Okay" when it's really not. Keep it simple....

DONT FORGET TO LIKE...

Are u male or female?

Why are you parading as a member of the opposite sex..?

De_ Law: i really agree with ur last point.
It really make sense to me. majority of ladies will prefer to say OK, when all is nt well.

"Ba komai" is how they say it in hausa. When I can see that there's "komai" you keep telling me "ba komai?" Ladies, I beg look into this point number 10.

*Brings out pen and paper*
Me sef go write 'The 65 basic steps to a successful divorce'.

And I hope it wud make front page or mods should prepare to meet me in court!!!

Na only GOD fit make relationship stand... And also money....

;Dnoted

Rubbish

Keep it simple... That's the key.

nice one! Buh am stil afraid to fall inlove again, i jst can't get anoda her nice one! Buh am stil afraid to fall inlove again, i jst can't get anoda her

maar!a:

4.) A CLEAN PAST
Let's face it, everyone makes mistakes at some point in their lives. So when you start a new relationship, make sure it's new in every aspect. Clear your past in front of your partner, so if some day some of your past demons wake up, nothing would decrease the love between you two and it will also strengthen their trust in you.

Now I am confused, I thinks say na when d relationship don enter 2 yrs (according to sm girls) b4 man fit ask them abt their past sexual life now I don see am for new relationship. Na wa o, which one man go follow na