And u know we dare not say no whether u r in d mood or not.

Trust me he isnt cheating so dats out of it

jidegirl12:

Speak for yourself madam I say no when I'm not in the mood , what's good for goose is also good for.....



A n mole ole n moloko why should we trust you when you can't figure out what's going on yet? Anyways communication is the key code, sit him down and have heart to heart 411 talk with him how you feel and see what happens. You also sound too passive, not that there's anything wrong with it, but moderation is the key, speak up!

Get a sitter and spend time together, you're helping him waay too much, if he's not comfortable with sitters with his kids, he will work with you adjust to your schedule.

Babz temmy: I av bin married for one year now and i av a 5months old baby, i seem to av a little problem with myself and my hubby sex life, and i feel some matured minds are ere to contribute. My hubby has d kind of job dat doesnt av public holidays or off days or weekend off. He works all day and all nights. Cos of my baby i demand for sex at her sleep hours, nd then to my hubby its d wrong time, many times i go to bed b4 him nd he comes to bed when am fast asleep latest is 3am. And if he manages to take a break he will only watch naruto. However he has his way of demanding for sex when he needs it. And u know we dare not say no whether u r in d mood or not. Am i unecesarilly worried. And if not what can i do. Trust me he isnt cheating so dats out of it

Babz temmy:
Trust me on that, he isnt cheating, if he is i will know. Thanks for d comment would try dat also

Babz temmy: I like picking my hubby's phone cos each time i do i find him doing something wrong. Picking his phone is my weakness though nd he knows, i cant just help it am an addicted phone picker nd he is aware of this. Everytime i pick up his phone or say something about what i found on his phone he always calls a female friend and d next thing i find him doing is he is planning on cheating, on 2 ocassions dis has happened, nd its always 1 hr or less away from d time we had issues over me picking his phone. The first time he sent a msg to an ex that he misses her pussy" Nd wants to see her dat evening. The second time he is booking an appointment with a girl in a hotel room nd denies his family is over seas. Is all dis my fault, i know i shouldnt pick his phone but is it enough for him to go dis far? Note dat i dont nag him, nd i also Ask him to give me time to work on my weakness of picking his phone.

Babz temmy: Dear nairalanders, Please is it wise for a married man to still receive calls from his ex, chat on bb regularly and so on. Dont u feel what they once shared might spark up again after few conversations.

Babz temmy: I always find myself digging into my wife's past, on facebook, nairaland, her phones, she has a really deep and not pleasant past, but yet i still dig and want to know mORE, nd now its affecting my marriage, i always pick her phones now, reAd through them thoroughly, everytime i see her chats with a man or i ex i get worried that she might still be d same old person. So she passworded her phones to keep me from bothering myself unecessarilly cos indeed i bother myself at every instance. NL i want to save my marriage, my fears is about to mess everything up. I love hee very much and dont wanna loose her. One advice from u might save my marriage.

baby.me:
Busted! I can't stop laughing.

Babz temmy:
My advice, if u r ere nd u r married please learn from this . What dis woman is going tru is very serious. My opinion to u madam u should be a good example to ur children, leave dat useless man of urs to keep swimming in sin. Let karma nd judgement catch up with him. This shall not be the portion of anyone of us with good marriages, may God repair what has broken in this home. Amen

TiiTee:




https://www.nairaland.com/1267846/dis-fault-hubby-just-loves


https://www.nairaland.com/1259618/relationship-ex-after-marriage


https://www.nairaland.com/1263472/fears-ruining-everything

Yes i get ur point but i am d same prsn telling u now that he isnt cheating. We discussed dat and trashed it out


Do you still maintain you know your hubby very well?

TiiTee:

No laugh o! I detest braggarts with passion.

She repeated same here https://www.nairaland.com/1274895/cheated-husband-plan-continue/3#15512415

TiiTee: Since you claim to know him so well, why bring your marital issues to NL?

Babz temmy: I av bin married for one year now and i av a 5months old baby, i seem to av a little problem with myself and my hubby sex life, and i feel some matured minds are ere to contribute. My hubby has d kind of job dat doesnt av public holidays or off days or weekend off. He works all day and all nights. Cos of my baby i demand for sex at her sleep hours, nd then to my hubby its d wrong time, many times i go to bed b4 him nd he comes to bed when am fast asleep latest is 3am. And if he manages to take a break he will only watch naruto. However he has his way of demanding for sex when he needs it. And u know we dare not say no whether u r in d mood or not. Am i unecesarilly worried. And if not what can i do. Trust me he isnt cheating so dats out of it

TiiTee:

Hehehe... I laugh in kwara.
He dictates when you're to have sexx...deal with it and stop whining!

TiiTee:

Hehehe... I laugh in kwara.
He dictates when you're to have sexx...deal with it and stop whining
!

biolabee: why r u on this chics case

op please ignore

Babz temmy:
@ biolabee tnx 4 having my back jare

Amelian:


Cause they want her to admit and accept her husband is a cheat..

Babz temmy: I av bin married for one year now and i av a 5months old baby, i seem to av a little problem with myself and my hubby sex life, and i feel some matured minds are ere to contribute. My hubby has d kind of job dat doesnt av public holidays or off days or weekend off. He works all day and all nights. Cos of my baby i demand for sex at her sleep hours, nd then to my hubby its d wrong time, many times i go to bed b4 him nd he comes to bed when am fast asleep latest is 3am. And if he manages to take a break he will only watch naruto. However he has his way of demanding for sex when he needs it. And u know we dare not say no whether u r in d mood or not. Am i unecesarilly worried. And if not what can i do. Trust me he isnt cheating so dats out of it

biolabee:

worst case even if he cheated on her say due to temptation of preggies, she wants to work on her marriage
leave the lady alone... she is real unlike our whitewashed marriage image we see here on NL
if u look inside the structure

Amelian:


True words... But op, recall back wat made u and yur hussy fall inlove in d first place... Remember things that made him laugh and shakes his head in wonder towards you... Repeat such gestures again.... Then talk to him passionately about how u miss the former Him'........I bet, he will feel remorse and talk his mind...then u guys take it from there...
Best of luck.

taryour: @op this whole story is so confusing to me with all this one tiitee diged up,but I will simply ignore it and believe u both have changed from you picking his call always and him planning to cheat on you or cheating on you.

Firstly what kind of job does your hubby do that he dosnt have free time to himself? How do you demand for sex that he refuses? For me I don't demand for sex from my hubby,I simply initiate it,seduce him and of course we are in the game and it has to b when he is in a good mood.

I wouldn't say you are selfish,I would rather say you should be more understanding and tolerating. You already know his kinda work that there is hardly a free time, do you study his mood before you demand for sex He could be exhusted after countless hours at work and all just needs is to rest and cool of his head n that last thing on his mind and all he wants at that moment is care and encouragement from his wife. If you realy play your games well you sure can still get him to bed if you go about it the right way.

All you need is study your man properly,understand his work,be more encouraging, initiate sex and not demand but do it at d right time wen he is in a good mood and not tired from work load.
Above all put your hubby in serious prayers for a better and more comfortable job with better pay and also time to spend with his family.


I still wonder the kind of job with no free days at all.. May God help you dear. All the best.

Babz temmy:
Thanks so much. As for tiitee isnt it good news dat i can now boldly say my hubby isnt cheating. I think dats how its meant to be. Good news in marriages

taryour:

Am happy for you dearie,thank God for your home too,may God continually bless your home

yellowpawpaw: @op,I don't get u at all.from what I saw up there,r u a man or a woman cos u represent both.how can pple help u when u r hermo?today,a she and tomoro,a he? Any explanation?

yellowpawpaw: @op,I don't get u at all.from what I saw up there,r u a man or a woman cos u represent both.how can pple help u when u r hermo?today,a she and tomoro,a he? Any explanation?