i have always wondered why our parents are always hard and harsh when it comes to a relationship. even when u are old enough they still say u are a kid especially the girls and thereby making every relationship a secret. cos this doesnt stop anyone from entry any relationshop. imagine we date like the whites where everyone in the house knows about our date. fear no go let the guy/girl break your heart for no reason cos they will have to face your family but when everything is hidden like in the case of nigeria then nothing happens. so also with pregnancy. it so happens that the over protected nigerian girls get pregnant more and engage in abortions cos everything is done in secret.