Hi NLanders,

The subject of this thread is direct.

Opinions are welcomed!

Atitude is a personall thing.

^^i concur!

It depends on individuals and how they're able to handle such issues, and also the importance they attach to issues such as marriage.

A lady who's career focused will care less if she's ageing and not married. Same cannot be said of a lady who's inclined to marriage and feels spinster hood should not exceed a certain age but unfortunately she isn't married despite having attained that age.

With these two scenarios, you would expect them to have have different attitudes to people and situations

It does lead to atitude problem for some ladies, yes i have seen some, people that does not means we should generalize it, but it surely does.

ogugua88:

[size=13pt]*chokes on garri* Easy ohh!

@OP, anyone can have a negative attitude. It doesn't have anything to do with age in my opinion. That's more of maturity, or lack of. Age and maturity are two different things.

"'Age' is the acceptance of a term of years. But maturity is the glory of years." -Martha Graham.[/size]

mrs woman, u see dt quote or martha graham doesn't work for me! Infact, her PERSONAL subjective opinion is not a general standard of fact like, 'water is colourless'! We all knw dt!

Mynd is right, he only need to say attitude is psychological. It is so subjected to

1. People around u

2. Your age

3. The environment

4. Your gene

No matter how we try to popularise d saying, 'she is too matured for her age', when some kids act in a more matured way, it will alwys make room for, 'she is still a child' when her childish actions takes a peep at us!

Age is a grt factor, u can't skip it wen it comes to attitudes!

*dnt worry av been 'attackin' u of late, i'm attracted to intelligence!* but only in d fun for logical arguments
Thank u

I have seen some really bad attitudes in older women. I have seen the same in some younger ladies too... and even youths. I dont think age is a relevant factor. Perhaps upbringing and experience are related.