If you are a woman close to your
thirties, this is my list of 30 things
you should have:
1. An education – This is the best
investment you could ever make in
your life. Continue learning because as
long as you keep learning, you keep
growing.
2. A vocation: In addition to your
education, become a professional in
your career or area of specialisation.
Get trained and get the necessary
qualifications.
3. A savings account in your own
name (and enough money in it) – One
of the wisest investments you can make
is starting a savings account early.
Apportion at least 10% of your
earnings to this account and watch it
grow.
4. A sense of humor, style and
purpose – Humor is very attractive and
will get you through some tough
patches. A sense of style lets you stand
out from your peers and having
purpose ensures you pursue your goals
with focus.
5. The wisdom to fall in love with
your eyes open – Know what you want
out of your love relationships and avoid
being carried away with the ‘feeling’ of
love.
6. The perfect suit to wear for a job
interview – As you move higher in life,
there’s sure to be numerous job
interviews. You never get a second
chance to make a first impression, so
make sure your suit gives the very best
first impression.
7. A set of matching luggage – You
may need to go on vacation sometime.
Do it in style with your set of matching
luggage.
8. A matching set of lacy bikini –
Who knows? You may need to relax at
the beach when you go off on that
vacation or go for a swim anytime
soon. Make sure your bikini is just
perfect for the occasion.
9. A recipe for a meal you are almost
perfect at – Even if it’s something
basic, make sure you are almost
perfect at preparing one complete
meal.
10. A first love (and several other
loves) – The magic of first love is as
painful when it’s over, but the best part
of it is that after you cry your eyes out,
you let go and become wiser. And
when you love again, you will know how
to keep it. This time, longer.
11. A broken heart (and the
knowledge that you can survive it) –
A broken heart means that you tried…
at least. Only time (and girlfriends) can
heal your broken heart. You can survive
it….and love again.
12. One friend that makes you
laugh….and one you can always run
to– What can we do without close
friends? Make friends for life and be a
friend yourself.
13. A childhood you are grateful for
(though not perfect) – None of us
chose our childhood, but we can be
grateful for all it taught us (perfect or
not).
14 . A plan for the future you are
looking forward to – Without a plan for
your future, how do you know when
you get there? Sit down with yourself
and write where you see yourself in 3,
5, 10 years and make a plan to get
there.
15. A good skin care routine –
Glowing skin is the dream of every
woman. But it does not just happen.
Get a good skin care regimen that is
best for your skin type and watch your
skin glow.
16. A good hairdresser – A woman’s
hair is her crowning glory. Get a
hairdresser who understands your hair
and can help you maintain it in the
best possible way.
17. A tailor who can make drop dead
outfits – The way you dress is the way
you will be addressed. Get a tailor who
knows what style really is.
18. A spiritual foundation and faith in
God – Maintaining a relationship with
God is the best foundation for life. He
is your creator and redeemer, so get
closer to Him each passing day.
19. A drop dead gorgeous photo of
yourself - to remind you that you are
beautiful.
20. A best friend – If you fall down,
your best friend will pick you up. If you
need a hand or a shoulder to cry on,
your best friend will be there.
21. A dream - it all starts with a
dream. Dream! Let your imagination
run wild while you fill up a blank sheet
of paper with everything you want to
be, do or have. This will keep you
going even in the tough times.
22. The phone number of someone
who will drop everything and come
when you call.
23. A perfectly fitted bra - Wearing
the right sized bra is comfortable,
helps your posture and aids the lymph
flow inside your breasts. Also, since
your breasts will spend most of their
time in a bra, should they not be
comfortable?
24. A pair of jeans that fit just right -
Most ladies will wear a pair of jeans at
least once a week. Jeans can also be
worn for informal and semi-formal
events. Having one that fits just right
would make you stand out from the
crowd.
25. A handbag you can never get
tired of - Handbags are one of those
accessories a lady can’t do without. A
nice, reasonably sized leather handbag
will always do the trick.
26. An average proficiency in
Microsoft Word and Excel – No matter
who you are or what you do, you need
to be computer savvy. Start with basic
Microsoft Word and Excel, but don’t
stop there.
27. Confidence – You are a woman.
You are important. Carry yourself as
one.
28. Humility – Modesty and an
unassuming nature are not signs of
weakness. Only a very strong and
confident person can be humble.
Refuse to get puffed up but remain
humble.
29. The guts to say No without
feeling guilty – People will always need
you to do things for them. Do as much
as you can but never choke yourself
just to please people. Sometimes you
just need to say No.
30. A competitive streak: A desire to
be the best and to stand out from the
crowd. Make yourself more productive
so that you remain relevant.
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