Some of you may know me, some of you may not. I'm ready to settle down this year. Not out of desperation but I'm just ready. I asked a girl that I'd been eyeing out

Any advice for an old friend?

Obowumi...relationship drama as usual.

Its a good excuse she wants her own business and is trying to find some kind of footing before marriage. If you think she worth waiting for,then do but that's if you are also sure certain she'd come to terms with you travelling all the time or you plan to reduce it anytime soon.
Then there are limited chances that the other girl you'd find would be a marriageable one.
..and to your question of God saying you go ahead and/or wait for her,that should depend on your relationship with HIM.
All the best!!

Can I marry you? I'm ready if you are.

obowunmi: Can I marry you? I'm ready if you are.

Awww..
I'm already taken sweet..

Try meeting someone else and still keep your friendship with her ''thats the girl you like''. You don't want to rush things, you have to take it gentle

Give her some time bit remember to keep all other options open

Obowumi and his obotic tales.

Did you propose to her via email or phone?why she come reply via email?

What do u plan to do bout your constant traveling? Is it going to end soon or twud only get worse? I think you need to ask yourself that and address it.

What are her biz plans? Have u guys sat down to talk about each others plans, dreams( ur constant traveling, her biz) and find ways to meet each other half way, compromise, support each other?

1 year is not too long to wait for the right person. Question is: are u both right for yourselves?

Can someone pls answer the questions? This is real, not tales.

How will I wait for a year when I'm ready now.

I'm so sad.

I will try to wait for her and pray while I'm waiting...

A year will go by before u know it, Just wait and even start planning your futures together now, while waiting for the year to be over

obowunmi: Some of you may know me, some of you may not. I'm ready to settle down this year. Not out of desperation but I'm just ready. I asked a girl that I'd been eyeing out but she revealed to me in an email that she's not ready but will be in a year or so. I like her a lot but the question is this:

1. Do I wait for her or do I move on and find someone else.

2. If I prayed, does God still rule the affairs of men? Will he ask me to wait for her if she's the one or will he ask me to move on with my life?

She says not now because she wants to develop her own business and does not like my travel schedule I tend to travel a lot but I like her a lot.

Any advice for an old friend?

I understand you are a troll from out of town?!

Get a life dude!

Set up the business for her.
Simple matter.

She's indirectly letting u know dat she can't b wit someone dat travels alot, either u limit ur travelling habit or u move on wit ur life, she needs someone dat will always b there for her, is not all about money but caring and attention. Success in ur decision.

Connoisseur: Give her some time bit remember to keep all other options open

Hmmmmmmmmmmm I see, so na like dat ur own take happen abi? Lol!! Nofin do u guy

Table Leg :


I understand you are a troll from out of town?!

Get a life dude!

Troll? This one pass me oo

obowunmi: Some of you may know me, some of you may not. I'm ready to settle down this year. Not out of desperation but I'm just ready. I asked a girl that I'd been eyeing out but she revealed to me in an email that she's not ready but will be in a year or so. I like her a lot but the question is this:

1. Do I wait for her or do I move on and find someone else.

2. If I prayed, does God still rule the affairs of men? Will he ask me to wait for her if she's the one or will he ask me to move on with my life?

She says not now because she wants to develop her own business and does not like my travel schedule I tend to travel a lot but I like her a lot.

Any advice for an old friend?

Wait if she's worth it.shikena

That being said

What you're looking for in sokoto state is right in your sokoto( pants) ....... ***wunmi have you asked our one and only Kulyie out? , that lady is endowed no be small thing oh. since Kishbeke is off the platter now abi?

Just helping an old acquaintance out *hope I don't get shît for this*

jidegirl12:

Wait if she's worth it.shikena

That being said

What you're looking for in sokoto state is right in your sokoto( pants) ....... ***wunmi have you asked our one and only Kulyie out? , that lady is endowed no be small thing oh. since Kishbeke is off the platter now abi?

Just helping an old acquaintance out *hope I don't get shît for this*

How do you know she is endowed ehn?

Pataki:

How do you know she is endowed ehn?

Jidegirl joined us in a th,re,e-some.

Pataki:

How do you know she is endowed ehn?

Ummmm cos She said so , and you testified to it too .... what's with your mama bear moves on Kulyie anyways?

obowunmi:
Jidegirl joined us in a th,re,e-some.

This guy wan kill me... never finish two some sef talk less of that ^^ .... call 911

@ Pataki

what are you doing here instead of marinating and setting the charcoal grill? Your oremis oremis are coming
Where is the keg and funnel? I asked you to help pour the p-juice into empty bottles.
where are the buns?
no ewedu and amala today but hotdog, hamburger and some good beer.

Pataki:

How do you know she is endowed ehn?

Obowummi, are you the same guy that used to post some funky stuff on that Yoruba thread?
There used to be a poster posting an erec.ted kini in a casket, or one in a gourd
Being washed in the blood of the Lamb is good

I'v alaays felt the reasons why people get married is sometimes the reason said marriages don't last. You want to get married to this girl because you are "ready"? Granted you like the girl alot right now. But being "ready" and then a girl you "like a lot" is around and you want to get married? Like that? I don't think it's good enough.

I believe the only reason to get married is you meet someone who fits in your calculations for life (or has given you cogent reasons to change said calculations) and you find you really can't do without having that person around and you see yourselves growing old together without being freaked out. Now that is THE REASON!

However, overiding all these is the point you raised about praying about it. That is the BEST possible method of chosing a lifemate. Believe me, God answers. He answered me at least. Nuff said.

^^ thank you kindly. I do believe that prayers work.