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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Meringe(m): 6:08pm On Jun 01, 2013
jidegirl12:

See the hypocrisy , you know you're not better than them before God

and YET

You Know It's Sin Against nature? Who do you think you are ? God?



Hohoho I laugh in Santa ...... You don't tell me to what to do shimissy .... nobody died and made you the Kingqueen? tongue

why don't mind your own business for starters instead ? Huh?!


You are entitled to ur opinion anyway, thanks.

Will not join issues with u dear.

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by SisiKill1: 6:53pm On Jun 01, 2013
Finally, what is truly worrisome about this post is being addressed - Who the HELL died and made OP the identifier of orientations.

I do hope the father of the boy is truly reading this because I have one word for him - RUN!!!

Run as far your can from the OP because he is going to lead you astray. Yes, there is a problem with what is going on with your son and it needs to be addressed ASAP but please, please, please keep him away from this man, he is not concerned about your son, he is more concerned about the accurateness of his gaydar. He has nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to offer you.

You and your wife need to sit with your son....talk to him (without reproach), find what he knows and how he came about that knowledge. Please, please, Please don't let anyone label your son what he is not and don't use whatever warped ideas have been planted in your head by Dr. Phil wannabe affect how you treat him. The last thing...the very last thing you want to do is alienate your young son. Something weird is going on somewhere and he needs to know he has a safe refuge in his parents arms.

Good Luck.

On a side note, It's one of these times I wish Nigerian schools are equipped with well trained counselors.

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by critique101(f): 6:57pm On Jun 01, 2013
Does the man have a housrhelp or adult male who is/was usually alone with the child when the parents r away? That child didn't learn that on his own. Let d dad intimidate him and ask him who taught him how to handle joystick. Then you will know the cause of the problem
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jun 01, 2013
OMG!!!! *sighs* Jezzzzz smh
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jun 01, 2013
Sisi_Kill: Finally, what is truly worrisome about this post is being addressed - Who the HELL died and made OP the identifier of orientations.

I do hope the father of the boy is truly reading this because I have one word for him - RUN!!!

Run as far your can from the OP because he is going to lead you astray. Yes, there is a problem with what is going on with your son and it needs to be addressed ASAP but please, please, please keep him away from this man, he is not concerned about your son, he is more concerned about the accurateness of his gaydar. He has nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to offer you.

You and your wife need to sit with your son....talk to him (without reproach), find what he knows and how he came about that knowledge. Please, please, Please don't let anyone label your son what he is not and don't use whatever warped ideas have been planted in your head by Dr. Phil wannabe affect how you treat him. The last thing...the very last thing you want to do is alienate your young son. Something weird is going on somewhere and he needs to know he has a safe refuge in his parents arms.

Good Luck.

On a side note, It's one of these times I wish Nigerian schools are equipped with well trained counselors.

naija, where a parent told me with full conviction that all the ben ten aliens are demons - he knew this because his pastor had a dream in which he went to hell and saw all the ben ten aliens there

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by slimyem: 7:26pm On Jun 01, 2013
oyb:

naija, where a parent told me with full conviction that all the ben ten aliens are demons - he knew this because his pastor had a dream in which he went to hell and saw all the ben ten aliens there

shockedshockedshocked
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jun 01, 2013
Ben ten grin grin spongebob underwater nko? Jeez grin that eased me up.
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by obicentlis: 9:46pm On Jun 01, 2013
Nairalanders, na wa ooooo

Person carry problem come make una help am solve, some of u turn back to accuse the person.
From what I can deduce from the post, he didn't call the boy in question a homosexual. He said 'a trait'.
Come to think of it, what will come to ur mind if you are the one the caught the boy in the act?

If na our Naija police now, everybody will start to shout. Typical Naija police man go turn a complaint to the criminal. You go report u saw a car, then u are the 1st suspect.

Choi!!!!

Why not give advise and move on so that the concerned can learn from it.

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by obicentlis: 9:59pm On Jun 01, 2013
Sisi_Kill: Finally, what is truly worrisome about this post is being addressed - Who the HELL died and made OP the identifier of orientations.

I do hope the father of the boy is truly reading this because I have one word for him - RUN!!!

Run as far your can from the OP because he is going to lead you astray. Yes, there is a problem with what is going on with your son and it needs to be addressed ASAP but please, please, please keep him away from this man, he is not concerned about your son, he is more concerned about the accurateness of his gaydar. He has nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to offer you.

You and your wife need to sit with your son....talk to him (without reproach), find what he knows and how he came about that knowledge. Please, please, Please don't let anyone label your son what he is not and don't use whatever warped ideas have been planted in your head by Dr. Phil wannabe affect how you treat him. The last thing...the very last thing you want to do is alienate your young son. Something weird is going on somewhere and he needs to know he has a safe refuge in his parents arms.

Good Luck.

On a side note, It's one of these times I wish Nigerian schools are equipped with well trained counselors.

Why are you derailing?

From the OP post, he didn't label the boy a gay. He said he noticed a TRAIT.

You are commenting as if the OP concluded that the boy is a gay.

I believe for the father to call him means he has confidence in him to find a solution.

For the OP to seek out views on how to GUIDE the little boy to his senses, its not bad.

As for the parents, you guys should talk to the chap calmly. He will open up and then take it from there.
Good luck

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jun 01, 2013
^^^ see talk SMH! Trait? wha wha what now ?? undecided *tsk*

Once again , Who died and made shim a Gay slayer huh?

One thing I'm very sure of tho, NO MOFO dares walk into my household and spew trash about my kids unless shim is ready for a silent shot on shim ankle cool like for real.

*drives off to shooting range * Baby you coming or what cool

Weirdos calling themselves friends

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 11:59am On Jun 02, 2013
Why are we labeling the op a bad friend or neighbor?
It takes a village to raise a child and if he saw something that wasn't right, what's the harm in talking to the parents?
Should we also blame the teacher too for talking.
I am not saying the boy is gay, but I have heard a lot of stories in the US of boys as little as 6 already feeling that they are different but have no way of expressing it till their teenage years.
gays will tell you that they are born that way, and many realize it at a young age. It is not a way of life they chose for themselves.
The father should take this boy to his most happy place and try to talk to him. If abuse is happening in his house, he won't say a word there because his house is no longer safe and happy for him.

@op, no vex. When u make a topic on NL you open yourself to all sorts. There used to be a lot of interesting topics here years back, seems people r running away

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jun 02, 2013
Let the Op come back and say what makes him think the boy has some gay traits, I'm a 100% sure it will be something extremely stupid like asking for lipstick just because he women doing it. The parents are at fault too, what did they do when the first alarm was raised, but now its with a boy, they are running helter skelter, rubbish!!!. This child is being exposed to sexual activities and they should find out where this exposure is from. As for you the OP, don't you have better things to do that than checking people's children for gay traits

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jun 02, 2013
^^^thanks @steph, ask him oh.

Wonder what that pervert will say if shim observes a boy in ballet class among girls swinging his hips and all comfortable in a spandex pants ?

He probably has a Gay traits yes?

Pool of illiterates angry grin

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 02, 2013
jidegirl12: ^^^thanks @steph, ask him oh.

Wonder what that pervert will say if shim observes a boy in ballet class among girls swinging his hips and all comfortable in a spandex pants ?

He probably has a Gay traits yes?

Pool of illiterates angry grin
@ Jide, In as much as I'm mad at the poster, I'm stark raving mad at the parents for not taking serious action the first time he was caught with a girl. There is no way the teachers at the school wouldn't have discussed the incident with one or two parents, and you know how we Nigerians are now... before you know it parents will start telling their sons to avoid the child to prevent transmission of homosexuality cheesy. The OP too would have told one or too people too, and before we know the poor boy will be stigmatised for people's stu.pidity.

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jun 02, 2013
You ain't as mad as I was yesterday.

Those parents are the fucktards of the highest order for allowing people to give razz opinions about their son,all in name of stûpid 'takes a village to raise a child' nonsense saying ......

@ other kids avoiding him, the boy will either be bullied to D or be a bully himself ( if care is not taken ASAP) . And this is how monsters / suicide bombers are created.

Instead to address the main issue here, they're perambulating like bats in daytime for wetin wey no concern them , abi Gay community lodged a complain to them MOFOs say they need minors hence OP's Paranoia ?

Bullies!!! Yanga dey sleep angry grin

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by obicentlis: 3:20pm On Jun 02, 2013
jidegirl12: You ain't as mad as I was yesterday.

Those parents are the fucktards of the highest order for allowing people to give razz opinions about their son,all in name of stûpid 'takes a village to raise a child' nonsense saying ......

@ other kids avoiding him, the boy will either be bullied to D or be a bully himself ( if care is not taken ASAP) . And this is how monsters / suicide bombers are created.

Instead to address the main issue here, they're perambulating like bats in daytime for wetin wey no concern them , abi Gay community lodged a complain to them MOFOs say they need minors hence OP's Paranoia ?

Bullies!!! Yanga dey sleep angry grin
From ur comments, its obvious you are a lesbian!

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by ciphoenix: 8:28pm On Jun 02, 2013
if this is true, it's very probable the boy has been a victim of a gay pedophile. But,


if he's programmed to be gay, no amount of words will change him.



EDIT: craddle-robber? really?? That doesn't even make sense as a replacement word
this censoring is definitely getting ridunculous angry angry

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by captainnigeria(m): 12:31am On Jun 03, 2013
A 5 yr old boy has no sexual orientation.when i was little my house maid would make me hump our neighbour's daughter while she watched.thank God we were caught and i received the beating of my life.just question the little boy and small corporal punishment wouldn't hurt

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by obowunmi(m): 3:16am On Jun 03, 2013
captainnigeria: A 5 yr old boy has no sexual orientation.when i was little my house maid would make me hump our neighbour's daughter while she watched.thank God we were caught and i received the beating of my life.just question the little boy and small corporal punishment wouldn't hurt

Housemaids from the pits of hell
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 10:46am On Jun 03, 2013
captainnigeria: A 5 yr old boy has no sexual orientation.when i was little my house maid would make me hump our neighbour's daughter while she watched.thank God we were caught and i received the beating of my life.just question the little boy and small corporal punishment wouldn't hurt

shocked shocked shocked
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Gboliwe: 4:25pm On Jun 03, 2013
I have nothing to say again. It has been said already in different tones.

I have to really stick to replying posts before going through responses. It has a way of making me have a rethink about the my stand and initial post.
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jun 03, 2013
obicentlis:
From ur comments, its obvious you are a lesbian!

It's all good man, I've been called all sorts 20 lettered word inclusive so its not new .

we are all unique in our own way. Bullies should take the back seat with their hypocrisy ( they are evil or end time sign crap) and their low busy body judgemental lives. ( there wink)
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by lekeey: 4:57pm On Jul 01, 2013
For those that said this was a lie,I pity your parenthood,now or in the future. I was severely actively abused as a young boy very many years back. Then,it was almost impossible. The children,born now,are called digital natives by sociologists;this means they have an unprecented acceptance of anything presented to them.
I have had the opportunity of speaking with parents and teachers on the issues of child sexual abuse. Of course,I have heard of so many stories that were bitter to the ear.
The boy in question is a victim of both passive and active abuse. He will need a trained Child Counsellor. You can get one at any SOS villages. Equally,the parent need to understand age appropiate behaviours for kids.
The child he was having the act with could be another abused kid,therefore the rehabilitatory work should not be done in isolation,other kids in his cycle of friends should also be helped.
Prayer and total support by the teachers and parents is needed.
The boy is not at fault.

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Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 19, 2014
babyosisi:


There is an adult or teen sexuality molesting that child and exposing them to sex.ual materials and acts maybe in literature or movies,plus Internet when the parents are away
This is not a time to be opening dictionaries and encyclopedias
This little child 's future is at the verge of destruction and if this parent is reading,I implore them to act fast to save their child or they would end up with an angry monstrous adult with mental problems.
This is an emergency.
I hope that parent can read me
Do not delay!
Save that young man from destruction.

No 5 year old would know where to insert his fingers on a little girl if he hasn't been coached to do it or seen it being done same with giving a Mouth Action at 5.
I hve seen 2yr old children kisin romantically in a day care.was like na wa o.It happens..Kids at 5 no wat a PE**S&bombom is.dey no kissing is fun.Dey wana checkout wat beneath a girls pant,dats y dey go to urinate at d same time.it hapns n schs
Re: Please Advice! How To Guide A Child That Shows Early Sign Of Homosexuality. by emmariz1(m): 1:11pm On Nov 20, 2014
ileobatojo:
Unless people are watching porn in front of him (which is child abuse of it's own), the most likely reason the boy is having such hypersexualized behavior is that someone has done the same to him. I'm almost certain the boy has been sexually molested by someone. Someone may have made the boy touch their privates and either sucked his joystick or made him suck their. The boy is just most likely repeating what has been done to him. The first step is to find who has been assaulting him and deal with that, Next best step is to get him psychological help to deal with the trauma of being molested.


And I don't believe this means the child is homosexual, remember you said he grabbed a female student earlier. The poor guy is only repeating what he has seen not necessarily acting out a sexual orientation. They should calmly find out from the boy who showed him those things, where he learned to do that and if someone did that to him or made him do things to them. Everybody in the household is a suspect, or other caregivers. It could also be from school. Not in an angry manner, there is no benefit whatsoever to taking out any anger at the boy.

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