Some say that things just “get to us” more than they get to men. That we over analyze things. That we let things affect our day (or
our lives) more than men do. But, don’t be fooled: men have their weak spots too. Their Achilles heel. And, if you say any of these
things they’ll be thinking about it for a while. Communication in a relationship is very important as I’m sure you already know, so be careful how you come at him
with the following:

Séx doesn’t really do it for me
For some women, this is true. They don’t get off during intercourse. But if you say that to
a man, he will be thinking, “Is she waiting for me to be done?” when you are having
séx. So much so that it will be hard for him to even enjoy himself. He will also feel that
doing other stuff to you is more of a task than a pleasure. If your relations in bed aren’t really spicing you up and you want to
do something about it, find a sensitive way of telling him what DOES work for you,
without giving him the idea that he’s just the worst lover ever, will probably be accepted a lot better than faking it so obviously.

You’re not meeting your potential
If in any way you insinuate that your boyfriend could have a better job, be a
better person, is slacking off, or that you’re
less than impressed by his career—that will
crush him. It will make him feel like less than
a man. It’s one thing to want him to be
happy and encourage him to pursue his
passions. It’s another to make snide
remarks about how he should be doing
better, especially if it’s more about making
you happy than him.

“He can’t do that because we’re going
to…”
If a friend asks your boyfriend to go to a
game with him, a bar with him, on a trip
with him—anything—and you jump in,
maybe put your hand protectively on your
boyfriend’s shoulder and say “He can’t,
we’re going to my parents’ home that
weekend,” or “we’re couch shopping that
weekend,” I’m pretty sure you’re going to
embarrass him. He isn’t necessarily
embarrassed to do those things with you,
but he is embarrassed that you answer for
him because that makes him look whipped
(whippity-whip whipped!). It makes it look
like you made him do those things, rather
than he chose to, and that you can and do
speak for him.
I’m just going to get ____to help me with
this
Car problems, kitchen sink problems, even
emotional problems—we usually turn too
our men about all that. But if your boyfriend
offers to help you and you say you’re just
going to get someone else to take care of it,
you make him feel like he is incapable of
taking care of you. Listen to his advice. Take
his help. Even if you know you’ll need
further assistance, don’t tell him that from
the start. Let him feel like you need him a
little from time to time.
So and so is SUCH a good guy
Maybe you really do admire your best
friend’s boyfriend. He does super sweet
things for her.Maybe he does a lot of
volunteer work or takes care of his sick
mother. Or maybe he just takes her out a lot
and buys her things often. Whatever it may
be, don’t go ga-ga about that in front of
your boyfriend. Maybe you don’t mean to
compare them, but your man will feel like
you’re trying to compare him to another
man.
Wearing gifts from an ex
This isn’t something you say, rather, you do
it of course. But it makes NO sense to a
current boyfriend why you would wear or
have gifts from an ex. Maybe you keep some
gifts from an ex who you’re still on good
terms with and were very meaningful to
you, but, don’t sport the designer bag or
bracelet an ex got you. That says to your
boyfriend that you felt the ex was better at
taking care of you—and making you feel
special—than he is. Same goes for any old
sweaters of his that you used to sleep in. Get
some real pajamas!
You’ve gained weight
Women think men don’t care about these
things. They think men don’t give a Shyte if
they’ve put on weight. Nuh-uh. Men want
you to find them attractive just like you want
them to find you attractive! They don’t think
it’s very manly to be openly upset about
weight gain, but if you bring it up, they will
be inwardly upset or worried about it. How
about encouraging him to work out with
you? Find fun ways to get fit together,
ladies! But don’t poke his belly one day,
giggle, mention that “You got big,” and
make the joke that, “Somebody’s eating for
two!” Don’t be that way.

Please come again.

@op shey u want make i read all those things finish

You should have numbered it cos no one will care to read all these....e.g Me.

i have realised that the most painful thing a woman can say to a man is insult his financial status Especially if he hasn't made it

big-t:
Some say that things just “get to us” more than they get to men. That we over analyze things. That we let things affect our day (or
our lives) more than men do. But, don’t be fooled: men have their weak spots too. Their Achilles heel. And, if you say any of these
things they’ll be thinking about it for a while. Communication in a relationship is very important as I’m sure you already know, so be careful how you come at him
with the following:

Séx doesn’t really do it for me
For some women, this is true. They don’t get off during intercourse. But if you say that to
a man, he will be thinking, “Is she waiting for me to be done?” when you are having
séx. So much so that it will be hard for him to even enjoy himself. He will also feel that
doing other stuff to you is more of a task than a pleasure. If your relations in bed aren’t really spicing you up and you want to
do something about it, find a sensitive way of telling him what DOES work for you,
without giving him the idea that he’s just the worst lover ever, will probably be accepted a lot better than faking it so obviously.

You’re not meeting your potential
If in any way you insinuate that your boyfriend could have a better job, be a
better person, is slacking off, or that you’re
less than impressed by his career—that will
crush him. It will make him feel like less than
a man. It’s one thing to want him to be
happy and encourage him to pursue his
passions. It’s another to make snide
remarks about how he should be doing
better, especially if it’s more about making
you happy than him.

“He can’t do that because we’re going
to…”
If a friend asks your boyfriend to go to a
game with him, a bar with him, on a trip
with him—anything—and you jump in,
maybe put your hand protectively on your
boyfriend’s shoulder and say “He can’t,
we’re going to my parents’ home that
weekend,” or “we’re couch shopping that
weekend,” I’m pretty sure you’re going to
embarrass him. He isn’t necessarily
embarrassed to do those things with you,
but he is embarrassed that you answer for
him because that makes him look whipped
(whippity-whip whipped!). It makes it look
like you made him do those things, rather
than he chose to, and that you can and do
speak for him.
I’m just going to get ____to help me with
this
Car problems, kitchen sink problems, even
emotional problems—we usually turn too
our men about all that. But if your boyfriend
offers to help you and you say you’re just
going to get someone else to take care of it,
you make him feel like he is incapable of
taking care of you. Listen to his advice. Take
his help. Even if you know you’ll need
further assistance, don’t tell him that from
the start. Let him feel like you need him a
little from time to time.
So and so is SUCH a good guy
Maybe you really do admire your best
friend’s boyfriend. He does super sweet
things for her.Maybe he does a lot of
volunteer work or takes care of his sick
mother. Or maybe he just takes her out a lot
and buys her things often. Whatever it may
be, don’t go ga-ga about that in front of
your boyfriend. Maybe you don’t mean to
compare them, but your man will feel like
you’re trying to compare him to another
man.
Wearing gifts from an ex
This isn’t something you say, rather, you do
it of course. But it makes NO sense to a
current boyfriend why you would wear or
have gifts from an ex. Maybe you keep some
gifts from an ex who you’re still on good
terms with and were very meaningful to
you, but, don’t sport the designer bag or
bracelet an ex got you. That says to your
boyfriend that you felt the ex was better at
taking care of you—and making you feel
special—than he is. Same goes for any old
sweaters of his that you used to sleep in. Get
some real pajamas!
You’ve gained weight
Women think men don’t care about these
things. They think men don’t give a Shyte if
they’ve put on weight. Nuh-uh. Men want
you to find them attractive just like you want
them to find you attractive! They don’t think
it’s very manly to be openly upset about
weight gain, but if you bring it up, they will
be inwardly upset or worried about it. How
about encouraging him to work out with
you? Find fun ways to get fit together,
ladies! But don’t poke his belly one day,
giggle, mention that “You got big,” and
make the joke that, “Somebody’s eating for
two!” Don’t be that way.

..bro u juss wrote 700 things instead of 7 thngs

-Mr Cork-:





..bro u juss wrote 700 things instead of 7 thngs

My thoughts exactly

Op outline the 7stuffs like an English student by numbering them pls.....I aint gonna read this Sh|t if you don't do such!!!