I am married to the most wonderful woman in the world. We dated for four years before I married her three years ago. We are blessed with two kids and hoping to have more in the future. My wife is simply the best. She's caring, honest, giving, very respectful and responsible and on top of all that she's drop dead gorgeous. I wish I could show you her pictures to see but that would give me away. I couldn't have asked for a better woman. In fact my biggest prayer is when I return to this planet in another lifetime, I hope I marry the same woman. The only issue is that I am not faithful to her. I actually have never been faithful to any woman in my life but I feel this woman deserves that from me, I just don't know how to give her that. I've been with several women since we got together 7 years ago but lately I've been feeling she deserves more from me. I want to be faithful to her but I just don't know how to. I promised myself that 2013 was going to be different and I stayed faithful until last month. I've been with two other women since then, but God knows I want to stop. How do I break away from this behaviour? How do I stop myself from wanting and sleeping with other women? Serious advice only please.

sounds to me like you have an addictive behaviour / personality and in your case cheating is your addiction. The nice thing is that you have identified the problem and you seem to really want to work on it. You have tried but its still not working out. Brother i think its time for you to get outside help. Believe me seeing a Psychologist , life coach , pastor or any other person who might be in a position to assist would be good for you. Do not kill yourself over this, if you really want to stop you can.

Monicasque: Brother i think its time for you to get outside help. Believe me seeing a Psychologist , life coach , pastor or any other person who might be in a position to assist would be good for you. Do not kill yourself over this, if you really want to stop you can.

You got your answer bro...

No big deal here.. you identified it already.

Good luck!

fashion234: I am married to the most wonderful woman in the world. We dated for four years before I married her three years ago. We are blessed with two kids and hoping to have more in the future. My wife is simply the best. She's caring, honest, giving, very respectful and responsible and on top of all that she's drop dead gorgeous. I wish I could show you her pictures to see but that would give me away. I couldn't have asked for a better woman. In fact my biggest prayer is when I return to this planet in another lifetime, I hope I marry the same woman. The only issue is that I am not faithful to her. I actually have never been faithful to any woman in my life but I feel this woman deserves that from me, I just don't know how to give her that. I've been with several women since we got together 7 years ago but lately I've been feeling she deserves more from me. I want to be faithful to her but I just don't know how to. I promised myself that 2013 was going to be different and I stayed faithful until last month. I've been with two other women since then, but God knows I want to stop. How do I break away from this behaviour? How do I stop myself from wanting and sleeping with other women? Serious advice only please.

Brother in Christ, you need Jesus

Vikin:
Brother in Christ, you need Jesus

This is the reason why i striked the pastor option out.

Must everything be blamed on needing jesus.?

Pastors that has jesus already ..don't they fornicate? [s]And then later blame it on a vision of Dog walking into the church[/s] .

Sometimes its in the head.

Y'all religion fanatics needs to realize this.. You just cant always blame everything on JESUS!

Please give JESUS A BREAK!!

Oohrhii:

This is the reason why i striked the pastor option out.

Must everything be blamed on needing jesus.?

Pastors that has jesus already ..don't they fornicate? And then later blame it on a vision of Dog walking into the church[s][/s] .

Sometimes its in the head.

Y'all religion fanatics needs to realize this.. You just cant always blame everything on JESUS!

And you wrote all this because ?

What's ur own advise mr. Nothing to contribute?

Vikin:

And you wrote all this because ?

What's ur own advise mr. Nothing to contribute?

Brother Waheedi!!

Read the second comment, in the thread.

Olobe, you obviously need glasses oops jesus

Oohrhii:

Brother Waheedi!!

Read the second comment, in the thread.

Olobe, you obviously need glasses

That's someone idea, olodo ...

Copy and paste..
Write urs

Vikin:
Brother in Christ, you need Jesus

^^^And this is supposed to be an advise.

You are disillusioned anyway..you called him brother in christ and yet you still said he needs jesus..

Who is jesus ..who is christ..

Now who is the Olodo!! just answer sincerely.

Oohrhii:

^^^And this is supposed to be an advise.

You are disillusioned anyway..you called him brother in christ and yet you still said he needs jesus..

Who is jesus ..who is christ..

Now who is the Olodo!! just answer sincerely.

Mwtssss..... Waste of time and strength used in typing. No time abeg!

Vikin:

Mwtssss..... Waste of time and strength used in typing. No time abeg!

Lol..

So a brother that Supposedly has Jesus in his life can be angry over a little discussion? That is not Christ like, you know. I think you need to be Born Again .

SMH Fake Mofos..