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maureensylvia: please matured advices. Dnt know the most convincing word to tell him. Moreover he is an only son and first son in a family of five

If he wants it then why not. It is his life, his career. Let him join up and serve his country.

I had an ex that joined the marines and I broke up with him. Well. We weren't a couple but dated alot and I didn't want that issue so I cut him off.

He is a wounded veteran now and I dont regret my choice.

Leave him to pursue hs passion. If God has nt said he will die in the battle field,noting will kill him there. People die everyday even without being in the army.

Mrs.Chima:
I had an ex that joined the marines and I broke up with him. Well. We weren't a couple but dated alot and I didn't want that issue so I cut him off.

He is a wounded veteran now and I dont regret my choice.

Really.

Ouch.

That man is a hero. He risked his life to keep you protected. Why must all things with women be about comfort alone. So 80% of women want 10% of men. These women will also moan and blame men for not marrying them when they get to a certain age and marriage prospects look bleak.

A normal, fully fit, healthy banker with millions of dollars worth of bonuses annually can still get into a car accident on his way to work and end up being disabled too so no one can know what life has to offer.

Atheist:-D:


Really.

Ouch.

That man is a hero. He risked his life to keep you protected. Why must all things with women be about comfort alone. So 80% of women want 10% of men. These women will also moan and blame men for not marrying them when they get to a certain age and marriage prospects look bleak.

A normal, fully fit, healthy banker with millions of dollars worth of bonuses annually can still get into a car accident on his way to work and end up being disabled too so no one can know what life has to offer.

He wasn't my man and I didn't want to date a military guy. Yes...he is a wounded hero whose government threw on the side like discarded trash!

Spare me the tears.

Mrs.Chima:


He wasn't my man and I didn't want to date a military guy. Yes...he is a wounded hero whose government threw on the side like discarded trash!

Spare me the tears.

He may have been tossed to the side for the government but his sacrifice should always be appreciated. or if he was a billionaire banker using the government to get in policies to enrich his pocket, would you respect him then.

I dont know him but he will always be a hero to me

Atheist:-D:




He may have been tossed to the side for the government but his sacrifice should always be appreciated. or if he was a billionaire banker using the government to get in policies to enrich his pocket, would you respect him then.

I dont know him but he will always be a hero to me

I gave him respect when I told him good luck and blew a kiss.

If he was working for the government without a gun and war....sure.

Mrs.Chima:


I gave him respect when I told him good luck and blew a kiss.

If he was working for the government without a gun and war....sure.

It is the ones with the guns I respect the most. They risk their lives with no real benefit other than honour. It isnt easy. many of them have destroyed lives because of government greed and policies.

Dating/Marrying a soldier is a whole lot of work, you have to make up your mind if you can handle the emotional stress. I don't think you can make him change his mind but you can pray for him to 'grow up' (sorry I had to use d word). I dated a guy like that, only son & he was so passionate about joining d millitary,he applied 2 consecutive years,d mum cried & prayed till one day, on his own, he gave up that ambition & got a job. Now he is glad he took that decision, he actually laughs at d idea of him even thinking he would become a soldier.
But if he doesn't change his mind then you make a decision to stay or not.
Goodluck!

kuphid: Dating/Marrying a soldier is a whole lot of work, you have to make up your mind if you can handle the emotional stress. I don't think you can make him change his mind but you can pray for him to 'grow up' (sorry I had to use d word). I dated a guy like that, only son & he was so passionate about joining d millitary,he applied 2 consecutive years,d mum cried & prayed till one day, on his own, he gave up that ambition & got a job. Now he is glad he took that decision, he actually laughs at d idea of him even thinking he would become a soldier.
But if he doesn't change his mind then you make a decision to stay or not.
Goodluck!

Every guy is a lot of work. There is no easy street. It is either finances, time, non caring, family background, philandering or a host of other problems. That is what relationships are about.

Since dt's his passion, let him go for it. If you know you cannot handle the emotional stress, leave him in peace. I doubt he's gonna throw away his passion cos of you, even if he does, he'll always refer to you as the hinderance. Unless he gets to decide HIMSELF against it, there's almost little or nothing you can do.

Hmm
1.Mayb e attend military sch
2.Mayb military man don punish am b4
3.Mayb e love military wit passion
4.Mayb na him destiny"lol"
5.Mayb him bliv say if him b military him go fit bt nd end 2 boko boys

Just ma comment no #offence#

Hmm
1.Mayb e attend military sch
2.Mayb military man don punish am b4
3.Mayb e love military wit passion
4.Mayb na him destiny"lol"
5.Mayb him bliv say if him b military him go fit bt nd end 2 boko boys

Just ma comment no #offence

Mrs.Chima:
I had an ex that joined the marines and I broke up with him. Well. We weren't a couple but dated alot and I didn't want that issue so I cut him off.

He is a wounded veteran now and I dont regret my choice.

Women with scopes,This same way i sent my Brother ex lover away.My brother was in the military so we lied to her that my brother got wounded during his service in IRaq.Her feelings changed and she broke up with my bro.This same lady we met at the mall back home in 9ja and she wanted to come back....


Moral...Any career could be dangerous.

Godson201333:




Women with scopes,This same way i sent my Brother ex lover away.My brother was in the military so we lied to her that my brother got wounded during his service in IRaq.Her feelings changed and she broke up with my bro.This same lady we met at the mall back home in 9ja and she wanted to come back....


Moral...Any career could be dangerous.

I like the way you guys roll. I might try something like that if I suspect I have a gold digger who wont leave me

Please let him join the military, that is the way to go....Nigerian Military, The best of men, Victory is from God alone

Atheist:-D:


Every guy is a lot of work. There is no easy street. It is either finances, time, non caring, family background, philandering or a host of other problems. That is what relationships are about.

Relationship is hard work on its own, I know,then imagine adding worrying about your spouse when he's gone off to one country for war.


Op try & see 'army wives' it may help you make your decision.

Godson201333:




Women with scopes,This same way i sent my Brother ex lover away.My brother was in the military so we lied to her that my brother got wounded during his service in IRaq.Her feelings changed and she broke up with my bro.This same lady we met at the mall back home in 9ja and she wanted to come back....


Moral...Any career could be dangerous.

If I stayed with the guy I wouldn't be Mrs Chima and I don't regret my Decision.

Atheist:-D:


If he wants it then why not. It is his life, his career. Let him join up and serve his country.

^^ This

I wanna enrol with d Nig. Military (medical corps), I hve made my decisions, I'll stand n fight for my country, serve it d best way I know I can, it is my only country, I love n respect my country, n I don't think any emotions or entanglements of mine could create any diversion 4rm wat I intend.
@ OP some of us were born to be brave, I believe ur BF is one of us, now u can choose to join d brave crew or U can blend with d coward crowd, our fatherland is meant to be protected n its intergrity maintained, If we all keep on running 4rm military, den who will build it 4 us?
U read in d news daily where people re assasinated rampantly, accidents here n there (U should knw ,d number of civilian deaths on daily basis, far outweighs number of soldiers death on d battlefield here in Nig.)

As julius caeser will say:
" Of all d wonders I'v seen in d world d most strange 2 me, is men will die when dey will buh yet men re afraid of death".

@least is better than police force... he has a flare for it allow him do it

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Leave the relationship. An only son could die doing any job.

SniperInADiaper: Leave the relationship. An only son could die doing any job.

Really? And any husband(Human) can die anytime remember?

Being in d military does nt mean anything. There are retired soldiers living till date. Dont be scared, be positive n pray for whosoever u love to have a longlife irrespective of his profession.
Man Proposes, God Disposes!

Handsomeemmy: Really? And any husband(Human) can die anytime remember?

Thats my point.

Exponental: Being in d military does nt mean anything. There are retired soldiers living till date. Dont be scared, be positive n pray for whosoever u love to have a longlife irrespective of his profession.
Man Proposes, God Disposes!

by the grace of God, My Dad is retired and still alive till date and i'm still trusting God to continue to keep him safe

more advices please

maureensylvia: more advices please

lol,or more support

Use the advc u have in the few comment.

I still don't get it why girls in northern Nigeria fancy military men that who them and they seem enthralled by it, some love flirting with military boys more yet detest the army if the ones they wanna marry wanna be a soldier....it still puzzles me...