I can't wait for the time to come coz am deeply sure am gonna marry sumone from my church.

DailyNews: The fear of getting a NO from someone they will be seeing so often. Imagine if he builds up courage and walks up to a sister he had been admiring in the church, and unfortunately, the sister says: NO! I am taken, occupied, not ready now, etc.

The guy will never be able to cope with the shame, especially when he will be seeing the sister in church always.

You know, after many stories and experiences shared by different guys of how they got turned down or snubbed by some rude and manner-less ladies they cherished and wished to love and marry, guys of nowadays have learnt to keep quiet even when they cherish a lady, most responsible guys always keep that admiration to themselves, most times forever.

Not all guys can handle rejection from a lady they cherish and have fantasize a good future with, hence, many responsible guys in general have withdrew from wooing and and toasting women.

That's the sad situation right now. I know plenty guys in this shoe.

The problem lies with such guys....too much fantasy....little reality...no strategy. Church girl or no church girl...9 out of 10 times they would be rejected...mildly if lucky and bluntly as they deserve. If a guy sees a girl he is interested in shouldn't the first thing to do is try to get a conversation going and if she responds well to find out if she is single? Ashawo approach to ladies wanting long term relationships just don't work. Guys need to up their game...in fact too many have no game.@topic...I think you should marry someone from your church since you both have the same belief. After all...somewhere in the Bible warned not to be unequally yoked.

Bolt2011: This is a question many brothers give unconvincing answers to. Many go with the saying "better the devil you know than the devil you don't ." This means they see the pious, dedicated and pretty sisters in their local assembly as hypocrites; wolves in sheep's clothings. They see them as people with "multiple" personalities; different persons on campus, at work, home, in company of friends and in the church. Some are of the opinion that these 'innocent' sisters must have expended their worldly lusts and passions before they turned into the church to catch naïve, unsuspecting brothers.
I worship in a local church with a robust population of single and charming ladies. For reasons I'm yet to decipher, I seem not attracted to any of them to the level of dating or proposing marriage. As much as I admire and love God-fearing ladies, I find it difficult to relate with them beyond a particular intimacy level.
You may have a contrary reason or opinion. Let's hear from you, why wouldn't you marry a sister from your local church?

I married one, and we are over 2 DECADES in Marriage together. BEST DECISION I MADE!!!

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Tell me about it!

I went there to buy some crates of hypo, but they were sold out.

[quote author=DailyNews]The fear of getting a NO from someone they will be seeing so often. Imagine if he builds up courage and walks up to a sister he had been admiring in the church, and unfortunately, the sister says: NO! I am taken, occupied, not ready now, etc.

The guy will never be able to cope with the shame, especially when he will be seeing the sister in church always.

You know, after many stories and experiences shared by different guys of how they got turned down or snubbed by some rude and manner-less ladies they cherished and wished to love and marry, guys of nowadays have learnt to keep quiet even when they cherish a lady, most responsible guys always keep that admiration to themselves, most times forever.

Not all guys can handle rejection from a lady they cherish and have fantasize a good future with, hence, many responsible guys in general have withdrew from wooing and and toasting women.

That's the sad situation right now. I know plenty guys in this shoe.[/quote
in life,its either a YES or a NO,u dnt expect it to always go ur way!

marrrrrrrry ur choic in d chrch body nt in ur asmbly

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I married one, and we are over 2 DECADES in Marriage together. BEST DECISION I MADE!!!

Good for you, but as u said, dat was 2 decades ago. Most of the 'SISTERS' in the church today are a bunch of CODED LEG-SPREADING, WAIST-WINDING HYPOCRITES desperate to 'HOOK' unsuspecting brothers! CAVEAT EMPTOR!!!!

SELFWORTH: ...its partly familiarity breeds contempt and partly awkwardness. Sometimes the opportunity is not there to chat with others after church. Everyone is trying to be aloof without being too cold. .

My brother is courting someone he used to work with. When they were working together for 4 years they didn't mix in the same company at work. They didn't start dating until they bumped into each other on the bus back from a singles meeting in church. If they were still working together they will not be courting now.

hw does dat ans d questn.? Nigerians!

To me, they're sacred

To me, na lie joorrr......no girl in the church can turn u as a man with two balls Down unto say u ask to date ha nd probable marriage. Do u knw d rate at which these girls want to get married kwa no u dont, ur jyst a church goer. open ur eyes.


My only problem is that most of them are evil.....after misusing themselves in the past they tend to go to the church nd dump themselves on a vud unsuspecting guy.


Get hooked up to one and u will see the other side soon enough....av had my own experience and i sware nt to find any girl in a church....i rather go pick a lady anywhere...but not the sisters in any church.....so full of pretence.

because most guys tink dat church gals are local & that they are not civilised

Larryupsy: The very moment i saw this thread,couldn't just stop laughing because that was exactly what was going through my mind,but the case was too serious to take it serious.my own case is all about this girl that i love so much but her only sin was that she's my church member and a neighbour,bt she was very homely and a wife material so to say but can't just imaging myself dating a church member and even a neighbour due to my own personal policy or should i called it fantansy,but i like dis girl and i'm sure she also have the same feelings for me,bt na dis issue of church naa ni o infact the matter don tire me jare.

Bro b wise, date her n exit church 4 anoda.

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4 real! U r sick

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Reason is we see church members as families. Same way you can't marry your sister.

I've even decided not to marry from my state cause almost everybody in my hometown is somehow related to me, i detest incest.

. u mean u r related to every indigin of ur state? is ur father Isaac Or Jacob?

DailyNews: The fear of getting a NO from someone they will be seeing so often. Imagine if he builds up courage and walks up to a sister he had been admiring in the church, and unfortunately, the sister says: NO! I am taken, occupied, not ready now, etc.

The guy will never be able to cope with the shame, especially when he will be seeing the sister in church always.

You know, after many stories and experiences shared by different guys of how they got turned down or snubbed by some rude and manner-less ladies they cherished and wished to love and marry, guys of nowadays have learnt to keep quiet even when they cherish a lady, most responsible guys always keep that admiration to themselves, most times forever.

Not all guys can handle rejection from a lady they cherish and have fantasize a good future with, hence, many responsible guys in general have withdrew from wooing and and toasting women.

That's the sad situation right now. I know plenty guys in this shoe.

Just like you were talking about me

laoludavid: Thats what i even want to dotoday, dnt know how it'll turn out to be

Leap of faith my broda, leap of faith