Read this online and decided to bring here.

Men Who Cant Find Love –
Who Are They
There follow some pointers to
what is happening in their
lives instead of love:

1. Men who are looking for their mother.
I don’t know whether the
mothers or the men are to
blame for this. The men are
looking to be fed, have their
cleaning done and be generally molly-coddled.

2. Men who are too absorbed
in themselves.
It’s their life, their hobbies,
their friends, their ambition,
their children, their… Somehow their women
doesn’t seem to come into the
equation. Men are used to
running the world and filling
their lives with activities and
occupations. Nowadays men have even taken the role of
father so seriously that they
can forget that their woman
is more than a mother.
3. Men who are too on
mission. This is slightly different from
the previous men who can’t
love because woman love
their men to be on mission.
The focus and dedication of a
man on mission is an amazing sight. Sometimes it just goes
too far. Sometimes the
climber climbs one too many
mountains and kills the
relationship in the process,
Sometimes the businessman goes on one too many trips
abroad and loses sight of
home. Men need to find a
balance on this.

4. Men who see themselves as
alpha. These are the ones that cause
me so much pain. They are
men who have a misplaced
idea about men needing to be
the alpha-males. Yes, dogs do
it, but don’t have the intelligence we have. They
chase and conquer women to
show how great they are. In
the process they just show
how lacking they are in any
emotion, understanding or even humanity.
5. Men who just want a pal.
These are the sad ones who
spend their lives going to the
pub or the football game.
They remember the great times with their pals when
they were young and just
want it to continue.
Occasionally it works when
the woman becomes one of
the lads, but this never lasts, then the man is left
wondering what happened.
Sometimes men just need to
realise they need to grow up.

6. Men who are afraid of
intimacy. Men often have difficulty
dealing with intimacy,
particularly when a
relationship appears to be out
of their control. The
interesting part of this is that men also have difficulty
acknowledging that they
have difficulty dealing with
intimacy. They usually
sublimate the emotions into
actions that they can understand. This can show
itself as aggression or even
abuse, but generally just
results in sullenness and
withdrawal.
Men who have this difficulty need help to overcome their
fear and learn to become a
normal part of the world.
Source: http://www..com/talk/topic,162631.0.html

what is your take?

Dunno, maybe.

7. Fear of commitment

tpia@:
Dunno, maybe.

which is your man?

kliq: 7. Fear of commitment

Not ready yet?

I hate love threads

bad meat: I hate love threads

hmmhmm, but why?

have you considered that of a truth, the real one hasnt really come along?

brothers out there, no matter what, stick out only for the right one cos no matter how many years you got to search,

she is worth every sweat you may pass through

HARDDON: have you considered that of a truth, the real one hasnt really come along?

brothers out there, no matter what, stick out only for the right one cos no matter how many years you got to search,

she is worth every sweat you may pass through

true words. Sounds feminine. Are you a female?

sorry 2 go ov-topik buh re u in a relatnshp...*jst curioux luv*

chai, 1 and 6 got me, they have defined the man that I am. What do I do now?