.........all forgotten.

This is the problem i have with Nigerian girls,you like him and he likes you so why the"hard to get packaging"? do you think he has all the time in the world to chase after you? yes the distractions he has are other girls who are so involved with him and does not give him hard times like you do,if i were to be the guy i will just forget about you and why did you emphasize on "i visited him just once" what are you girls feeling like? he has not asked you out yet he calls you his wife and you are cool with it.

What i can deduce from this your episode is you are a confused girl(insult not intended),you really dont know what you need,if you like him as you claim then give him the green light and hold him to yourself otherwise if he tries this third time and he does not have you then its segobe and you never told us if you were seeing other guys because if you were single i mean boyfriendless you wont be giving a guy you like stress like this.

Unnecessary shakara.

go read your bible the solution to your problem is there

ifihearam: This is the problem i have with Nigerian girls,you like him and he likes you so why the"hard to get packaging"? do you think he has all the time in the world to chase after you? yes the distractions he has are other girls who are so involved with him and does not give him hard times like you do,if i were to be the guy i will just forget about you and why did you emphasize on "i visited him just once" what are you girls feeling like? he has not asked you out yet he calls you his wife and you are cool with it.

What i can deduce from this your episode is you are a confused girl(insult not intended),you really dont know what you need,if you like him as you claim then give him the green light and hold him to yourself otherwise if he tries this third time and he does not have you then its segobe and you never told us if you were seeing other guys because if you were single i mean boyfriendless you wont be giving a guy you like stress like this.

Unnecessary shakara.

All I wanted to say ^ . & Figure out what you really want.

ifihearam: This is the problem i have with Nigerian girls,you like him and he likes you so why the"hard to get packaging"? do you think he has all the time in the world to chase after you? yes the distractions he has are other girls who are so involved with him and does not give him hard times like you do,if i were to be the guy i will just forget about you and why did you emphasize on "i visited him just once" what are you girls feeling like? he has not asked you out yet he calls you his wife and you are cool with it.

What i can deduce from this your episode is you are a confused girl(insult not intended),you really dont know what you need,if you like him as you claim then give him the green light and hold him to yourself otherwise if he tries this third time and he does not have you then its segobe and you never told us if you were seeing other guys because if you were single i mean boyfriendless you wont be giving a guy you like stress like this.

Unnecessary shakara.

1) I was single and I am atm.
2) I wasn't playing hard to get and I don't. I liked him so why would I.
3) I laid emphasis on 'I visited him just once' to show that he did most of the visiting and why he should have doubts (and not to feel like anything as you said).
4) I'm actually confused. Like hello, why would I be asking for advice if I wasn't.
5) I don't need him. I want him. I could have dated other guys if I wanted to but it's him I want.
6) Thanks for the advice. You've of great help.

Niluv: Now, my problem is, what do I do? Should I wait for him till he's ready for a real relationship or what? Sometimes, I feel like I'm being used to while away time.

you deserve to be flogged...

Enegod: you deserve to be flogged...

Like seriously oo! I just can't help it.

Since he's a friend to your cousin, your cousin should know more about him. Ask your cousin if he's the type who keeps numerous girlfriends. Whatever your cousin tells you will determine how you'll build your relationship with him. You can still give him a try, who knows what the relationship has in stock for you. it might work out when you least expect.Good luck!

U and dis guy shud stop beating around d bush, make una talk una church-mind..

But it seems d guy is scared of askin u out

And u are also scared of givin him that heavy green light that will motivate him to believ in u.

My advice: give him that greenest light that shows u re trippin bt do it in a matured gal's way sha, dnt throw all of ursef on d floor for him,......he shud ask u out properly after that kind of green light, if he doesn't, then move ahead, Maybe he is just not for u....

Niluv: 1) I was single and I am atm.
2) I wasn't playing hard to get and I don't. I liked him so why would I.
3) I laid emphasis on 'I visited him just once' to show that he did most of the visiting and why he should have doubts (and not to feel like anything as you said).
4) I'm actually confused. Like hello, why would I be asking for advice if I wasn't.
5) I don't need him. I want him. I could have dated other guys if I wanted to but it's him I want.
6) Thanks for the advice. You've of great help.

Then you must really be a very young girl.

Ab025: U and dis guy shud stop beating around d bush, make una talk una church-mind..

But it seems d guy is scared of askin u out

And u are also scared of givin him that heavy green light that will motivate him to believ in u.

My advice: give him that greenest light that shows u re trippin bt do it in a matured gal's way sha, dnt throw all of ursef on d floor for him,......he shud ask u out properly after that kind of green light, if he doesn't, then move ahead, Maybe he is just not for u....

My guy,the guy has done his best,at least he calls her his wife before everyone and thats enough,perhaps he falls under the category of guys who is so ashamed or scared to use words boldly,but thats enough now,the girl should also encourage his ministry because the guy likes her to bits.

The guy is kinda dulling.

berem: Since he's a friend to your cousin, your cousin should know more about him. Ask your cousin if he's the type who keeps numerous girlfriends. Whatever your cousin tells you will determine how you'll build your relationship with him. You can still give him a try, who knows what the relationship has in stock for you. it might work out when you least expect.Good luck!

Thanks a lot. I would.

Ab025: U and dis guy shud stop beating around d bush, make una talk una church-mind..

But it seems d guy is scared of askin u out

And u are also scared of givin him that heavy green light that will motivate him to believ in u.

My advice: give him that greenest light that shows u re trippin bt do it in a matured gal's way sha, dnt throw all of ursef on d floor for him,......he shud ask u out properly after that kind of green light, if he doesn't, then move ahead, Maybe he is just not for u....

Thank you.

ifihearam:

Then you must really be a very young girl.

Lol....I'm young but not very young. In my early twenties and he is 4 years older.

The o.p is JUST NOT SERIOUS.
I honestly pray he finds someone else that'll sweep him away lemme laff.
'he hasnt asked u out offucially', how is he supposed t do that wen ur always acting normal wit him.
U dnt visit him, he stayed away yet u didnt reach out, u meet him n act normal, yet u say u r confused..He Is d Confused One wit all these ur mixed signals.
I pray tgat guy moves on..Seriously
U r just a time waster
Ps; dnt rily care if u fil insulted or not

The guy has no fault here, instead your the confused person here due to your mixed signals.....
The guy asked you out but you declined,
I guess you should make up your mind

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That guy likes you very much. Do not wait and expect him to speak romantic grammar cos the real ones don't talk much. Encourage him and be happy.

What's so hard in telling the guy that you need his joystick inside your pot? I guess u dey finga ursef

Dis is wat guys wana hear...go n meet d guy and ask im out,lol bt seriously i think u sud approach im,he might fink u don't av feelings 4 me or anyfin..prove im wrong

oge4real: That guy likes you very much. Do not wait and expect him to speak romantic grammar cos the real ones don't talk much. Encourage him and be happy.

baby, u hav just said my mind! Maka why baby?

It is good you took your time to be sure of what you feel,now that you are sure it would be fair to accept his next date offer.
Wish you the best.

You playing Hard to get walahi...By the way could you please emphasis on "More than a friend relationship without sex"

summary pls

nuff said. Now its time to act.

Just like lagbaja said, simple yes or no. But say yes.

Thanks guys. God bless you.

NEVER LET A MAN DESTROY YOUR LIFE!!! http://www./2013/08/never-let-man-destroy-your-life.html

Harbosede02: Dis is wat guys wana hear...go n meet d guy and ask im out,lol bt seriously i think u sud approach im,he might fink u don't av feelings 4 me or anyfin..prove im wrong

Please...wha chyu tryna say? Ask him out? Be the first to say those three words? Make the first move? Jex a question ooo...

Godson201333: You playing Hard to get walahi...By the way could you please emphasis on "More than a friend relationship without sex"

Honestly...em confused here too...

chidindufrank: What's so hard in telling the guy that you need his joystick inside your pot? I guess u dey finga ursef

Off point! How old are you please?

gistmelove: NEVER LET A MAN DESTROY YOUR LIFE!!! http://www./2013/08/never-let-man-destroy-your-life.html

What are yu tryna say too?