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Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by muse4blue(m): 12:59pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
i masturbate since the age of 13 and i am 19. i am addicted to this bad habbit. i learnt it from a friend during high school days.i have tried many times to stop it but all to no avail. am fed up. am afraid of infertility and have read many articles of its side effect but i cant just stop it. av kept it a secret for long tym before i thougt if i tell people, it will help. i need advice how to stop it please. |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 1:04pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
good luck stopping, it's normal you aren't really supposed to 'tell people' by the way lol 1 Like |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Jesus is the answer to your problem. 1 Like |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by sse7en(m): 2:45pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Dude you really wanna get over this addiction then first thing you would av to is delete all d porn on ur laptop if u av one and ur fone cos if u don't u are deceiving ursef, den try and spend ur time being occupied with somtin, play games,read novels, hang out wit friends as in try not to be alone most time or the thought of watching porn will come back and the most important thing get ursef a gal not 'necessarily for yanshing 'oh so as to get back ur already lost self esteem and as to self servicing causing infertility Its not possible unless u harm ur private somehow in d process though I stand to be corrected on that last part...just ma two kobo 1 Like |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by orgasticdance: 3:18pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
First thing you need to get off your mind is that mastu-rbation is bad! That's absolute nonsense. It is normal and healthy. And if done moderately may even be good for you and help you steer clear of STDs and other vices--unwanted prenancy, emotional issues with women etc-- till you're ready to be sexually active with someone. 1 Like |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by deshclones(m): 8:35pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Quit being too hard on urself man...what is happening to u is nt abnormal..all sexually active young men mastubated at some point in life..esp btwn 15-20yrs when to get punaniii na real hardwork...you will get over it wit time nd some measure of success...when u don't hv to labour so hard to convince a lady to drop punaniii for u...tk a chill pill nd relax...u will be fine... |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 8:57pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Self-servicing is not bad, I heard that it helps prevent some kind of cancers.... Google it |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Sanboy25: Self-servicing is not bad, I heard that it helps prevent some kind of cancers.... Google itare you sure? Thought i read contrary-wise... |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:02pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
idnoble135:Yes. I'll google it.... |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Saw something like this http://www.livescience.com/7658-masturbation-increase-risk-prostate-cancer.html |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:06pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Benefits 1 Like |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Might be wrong though.... |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
@Sanboy, okk... Good research then. But the Op says he aint interested in it, could you also help him google out possible solutions? |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:12pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
He should ask God to help him, He is the remedy to every problem. |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
Okk... He sure needs it. That thing called masturbation is a good servant but a wicked master. At the beginning it is pleasure but at the end, its a bondage that lot of folks cant break free from. OP, ask God and trust Him for help. And you must also decide to quit it. |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:21pm On Aug 11, 2013 |
^^^^ Yeah you're right, he must have more resolution and also be more firm with himself if he wants to overcome this... |
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by kay9(m): 8:41pm On Aug 19, 2013 |
ibkaye: good luck stopping, it's normal^^ OP relax, u'll grow out of it soon enough. Back in school i used to stroke Junior before going for an exam; the results were amazing!! But too much p0rn is actually very bad for u, messes up your mind big time. Try filling up your idle time with more healthy activities. |
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