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Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by muse4blue(m): 12:59pm On Aug 11, 2013
i masturbate since the age of 13 and i am 19. i am addicted to this bad habbit. i learnt it from a friend during high school days.i have tried many times to stop it but all to no avail. am fed up. am afraid of infertility and have read many articles of its side effect but i cant just stop it. av kept it a secret for long tym before i thougt if i tell people, it will help. i need advice how to stop it please.
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 1:04pm On Aug 11, 2013
good luck stopping, it's normal

you aren't really supposed to 'tell people' by the way lol

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Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 11, 2013
Jesus is the answer to your problem.

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Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by sse7en(m): 2:45pm On Aug 11, 2013
Dude you really wanna get over this addiction then first thing you would av to is delete all d porn on ur laptop if u av one and ur fone cos if u don't u are deceiving ursef, den try and spend ur time being occupied with somtin, play games,read novels, hang out wit friends as in try not to be alone most time or the thought of watching porn will come back and the most important thing get ursef a gal not 'necessarily for yanshing 'oh so as to get back ur already lost self esteem and as to self servicing causing infertility Its not possible unless u harm ur private somehow in d process though I stand to be corrected on that last part...just ma two kobo

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Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by orgasticdance: 3:18pm On Aug 11, 2013
First thing you need to get off your mind is that mastu-rbation is bad! That's absolute nonsense. It is normal and healthy. And if done moderately may even be good for you and help you steer clear of STDs and other vices--unwanted prenancy, emotional issues with women etc-- till you're ready to be sexually active with someone.

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Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by deshclones(m): 8:35pm On Aug 11, 2013
Quit being too hard on urself man...what is happening to u is nt abnormal..all sexually active young men mastubated at some point in life..esp btwn 15-20yrs when to get punaniii na real hardwork...you will get over it wit time nd some measure of success...when u don't hv to labour so hard to convince a lady to drop punaniii for u...tk a chill pill nd relax...u will be fine...
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 8:57pm On Aug 11, 2013
Self-servicing is not bad, I heard that it helps prevent some kind of cancers.... Google it wink
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 11, 2013
Sanboy25: Self-servicing is not bad, I heard that it helps prevent some kind of cancers.... Google it wink
are you sure? Thought i read contrary-wise...
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:02pm On Aug 11, 2013
idnoble135:
are you sure? Thought i read contrary-wise...
Yes. cheesy I'll google it.... smiley
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Aug 11, 2013
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:06pm On Aug 11, 2013

Benefits

It is held in many mental health circles that m-a-sturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self-esteem. [46] Masturbation can also be particularly useful in relationships where one partner wants more sex than the other – in which case masturbation provides a balancing effect and thus a more harmonious relationship.[47]

Mutual masturbation, the act by which two or more partners stimulate themselves in the presence of each other, allows a couple to reveal the "map to [their] pleasure centers". By watching a partner masturbate, one finds out the methods they use to please him- or herself, allowing each partner to learn exactly how the other enjoys being touched. Intercourse, by itself, is often inconvenient or impractical at times to provide sufficient sexual release for many people. Mutual masturbation allows couples to enjoy each other and obtain sexual release as often as they need but without the inconveniences and risks associated with sex.[47]

In 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council Australia[48] found that males masturbating frequently had a lower probability to develop prostate cancer. Men who averaged five or more ejaculations weekly in their 20s had significantly lower risk. However they could not show a direct causation. The study also indicated that increased ejaculation through masturbation rather than intercourse would be more helpful as intercourse is associated with diseases (STDs) that may increase the risk of cancer instead. However, this benefit may be age related. A 2008 study concluded that frequent ejaculation between the ages of 20 and 40 may be correlated with higher risk of developing prostate cancer. On the other hand, frequent ejaculation in one's 50s was found to be correlated with a lower such risk in this same study.[49]

A study published in 1997 found an inverse association between death from coronary heart disease and frequency of orgasm even given the risk that myocardial ischaemia and myocardial infarction can be triggered by sexual activity.
“ The association between frequency of orgasm and all cause mortality was also examined using the midpoint of each response category recorded as number of orgasms per year. The age adjusted odds ratio for an increase of 100 orgasms per year was 0.64 (0.44 to 0.95). ”

That is, a difference in mortality appeared between any two subjects when one subject ejaculated at around two times per week more than the other. Assuming a broad range average of between 3 to 5 ejaculations per week for healthy males, this would mean 5 to 7 ejaculations per week. This is consistent with a 2003 Australia article on the benefits against prostate cancer. The strength of these correlations increased with increasing frequency of ejaculation.[50]

A 2008 study at Tabriz Medical University found e-j-aculation reduces swollen nasal blood vessels, freeing the airway for normal breathing. The mechanism is through stimulation of the sympathetic nervous system and is long lasting. The study author suggests "It can be done [from] time-to-time to alleviate the congestion and the patient can adjust the number of intercourses or masturbations depending on the severity of the symptoms."[51]

Masturbation is also seen as a sexual technique that protects individuals from the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Support for such a view, and for making it part of the American sex education curriculum, led to the dismissal of US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders during the Clinton administration. EU Nations include masturbation in their sex education and promote the practice. (see above)

Sexual climax, from m-a-sturbation or otherwise, leaves one in a relaxed and contented state . This is frequently followed closely by drowsiness and sleep – particularly when one masturbates in bed.[52][53][54]

Some professionals consider m-a-sturbation to function as a cardiovascular workout. [55] Though research is still as yet scant, those suffering from cardiovascular disorders (particularly those recovering from myocardial infarction, or heart attacks) should resume physical activity (including sexual intercourse and masturbation) gradually and with the frequency and rigor which their physical status will allow. This limitation can serve as encouragement to follow through with physical therapy sessions to help improve endurance. In general, real sex slightly increases energy consumption, according a study published in the New England Journal of Medicine.[56][57]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Benefits

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Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 11, 2013
Might be wrong though....
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 11, 2013
@Sanboy, okk... Good research then. But the Op says he aint interested in it, could you also help him google out possible solutions? wink
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:12pm On Aug 11, 2013
He should ask God to help him, He is the remedy to every problem. smiley
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 11, 2013
Okk... He sure needs it. That thing called masturbation is a good servant but a wicked master. At the beginning it is pleasure but at the end, its a bondage that lot of folks cant break free from.
OP, ask God and trust Him for help. And you must also decide to quit it.
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by Sanboy25: 9:21pm On Aug 11, 2013
^^^^ Yeah you're right, he must have more resolution and also be more firm with himself if he wants to overcome this... smiley
Re: Am Digging My Grave. Help!!!!! by kay9(m): 8:41pm On Aug 19, 2013
ibkaye: good luck stopping, it's normal

you aren't really supposed to 'tell people' by the way lol
^^ grin grin grin

OP relax, u'll grow out of it soon enough. Back in school i used to stroke Junior before going for an exam; the results were amazing!! grin grin

But too much p0rn is actually very bad for u, messes up your mind big time. Try filling up your idle time with more healthy activities.

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