……The ONE…..

“It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable COMPANION for him.”

“At last, here is ONE of my own kind – Bone taken from my bones and flesh taken from my flesh.”

“That is why a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife to become ONE flesh.”

“Find a WIFE and you find a good thing, it shows that the lord is good to you.”

I have heard and read these words or verses over and over again but I never really understood what it meant until I met you – the ONE.

The first time I saw you was at the beach, your hair was so beautiful upon your cheeks and falls along your neck. My heart skipped and I asked myself “Who is this black beauty?”

I have always agreed with the saying “Black is beautiful” but I sincerely have never come across the black beauty that paused my heart beat a while.

You wore a black short skirt and a lemon velvet top, tucked into the skirt. Your bare foot on the beach sand seemed perfect to me. And I just knew you would have been my father’s wife if you were born in the 60’s.

I could say all I did at the beach aside sipping Vodka was watch you all day. Don’t ask me how….. :*

Each time you smiled, I felt like I would have a seizure. Your laughter made me laugh. I am sure some people might have noticed me and laughed at me, but who cares? I was watching the most wonderful creature made by God.

I was so carried away, watching you that I almost would not have gotten your number. It dawned on me that I was about to lose the most beautiful thing I ever saw (asides my mother of cause) when you were about to enter the cab with your friend.

I ran to you like a mad man, you were shocked and the look on your face said it all. I said a little prayer within me, hoping to get your number.

“Hi, I know you don’t know me, but Pleeeeeaaaaassssse, please and please, can I have your number?”

Thank God for making me a good looking man, so I wasn’t totally looking insane.

God showed me how good he is to me when you called out your digits. I never knew the feelings and naughty attitude I was putting up by default was because you are the bone taken out of my bones.

We parted ways but that happened to be the beginning of the best part of my life.

We got talking and you showed a great level of understanding and calmness. I started thinking you must have had a revelation about me being your husband or you had been informed by your pastor you were destined to meet your husband at the beach. But I got to know that was just you.

You – Loving, caring, understanding, Supportive, patient, selfless….How beautiful you are my love, how your eyes shine with love.

You had a way of making me smile. You understood me more than me. I had a new reason to live, to breath, to see the next minute, to see you – your face.

A year later, I couldn’t help the insatiable need to have you always by my side, talk to you – I could tell you just everything and anything, I had this confidence even to tell you the stupid things I thought because I knew you would understand, I knew you would guide me in love, scold me in love, push me away and pull me back in love. I was, I am and will always be your baby.

The bond you had with my mum was a miracle, it never happened with any woman. Then I knew you must be the ONE for me.

Then I asked you to be my wife…. Thank heaven you said YES!

It’s been 10years since we said “I DO” and you have not changed. We have had our differences, but these differences have always drawn us closer, our misunderstandings have led to more understanding.

Now I fully understand those verses, truly wisdom comes with age.

Here is to tell you how much I love you, I don’t ever want to lose you. Please stay with me forever. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, MY LOVE.

If there is one thing I am sure of, it is your laughter and sweetness after reading this piece and that is enough for me.

I LOVE YOU.

Yours eternally



Source: http://elsieisy./2013/08/22/the-one/

Twitter: @elsieisy

That's a letter from a friend's uncle to his wife today being their wedding anniversary!!

Guess some few of us Naija guys are still romantic !!!

Royal Roy: That's a letter from a friend's uncle to his wife today being their wedding anniversary!!

Guess some few of us Naija guys are still romantic !!!

Plenty of them are good in writing plenty love letters on Facebook, it's the normal thing...the koko,

Behind close door, na for beer parlor dem go siddon until 11- midnight. Hitting on those beer sellers and small small ashawo!


Hehehehe..".na today!

Chillisauce:

Plenty of them are good in writing plenty love letters on Facebook, it's the normal thing...the koko,

Behind close door, na for beer parlor dem go siddon until 11- midnight. Hitting on those beer sellers and small small ashawo!


Hehehehe..".na today!

At least you admit its "plenty" of us.....and not "all of us"......lmaooooo!!

I guess chivalry for most men end even before marriage!! They toast a lady, do all the romantic stuffs, she falls for them, & after 3-4 months, the whole show stops!!

If a lot of men take their time out to treat women like queens that they are, there will be less marriage break up as common these days!!

Few men like us still know how to write "love letters" & treat women to a nice time!!! But so sad [size=28pt]we [/size] are an endangered specie here in Nigeria!

May God help us all.

Chillisauce:
Behind close door, na for beer parlor dem go siddon until 11- midnight. Hitting on those beer sellers and small small ashawos

Chillisauce:

Plenty of them are good in writing plenty love letters on Facebook, it's the normal thing...the koko,

Behind close door, na for beer parlor dem go siddon until 11- midnight. Hitting on those beer sellers and small small ashawo!


Hehehehe..".na today!

gbam! thank God someone has decided to be real and stop acting as if we live in a perfect world with perfect people where everything is always right,perfect and turns out exactly the way we want it.virtually everyone seems to be a good actor and actress on social networks and the internet.radarada.







always forming the very first day i saw you,i knew you were the one for me,roses are red,velvet are blue but they will not say the reality that sun will beat the flower and the flower will wither one day.oshi nle pako.make una continue to dey form rose and jack for social networks when we know for reality na tom and jerry plenty homes be like.mshewww...next please

I almost thought the note was Royal Roy's until I saw the link.

Chilli pepper sees through it. The real thing goes beyond stringing words together on www to invite comments like "how sweet" ,"so touching" "awwww","cool" and all that yada.

slimyem:

I almost thought the note was Royal Roy's until I saw the link.

Not only you

negativity won't solve anything though. Play your own role well and guard ur own relationship rather than using ur energy to call everything false. There r happy couples as well as sad ones. Choose your path wisely and let pride go

The responses got me speechless. Things cannot be sooo bad.

I believe people who have it good are more than we think. But the tales of the bad are louder.