JUSTLANDED AGAIN ADD: 21EF48B0 How to React when You Find Your
Girlfriend Naked in Bed With Another
Guy.


Have you ever wondered what to do when
you catch your girlfriend in bed with
someone else? Here's how you handle it.


Steps
Tips and Warnings
React Appropriately When You Catch
Her in the Act

•1
Remain calm. Your initial reaction may be
sheer anger, but it's important not to do
anything in the heat of the moment that
you may regret. Avoid the temptation to
scream or be violent; this is a situation
that needs to be sorted out when you've
fully processed what has happened, and
screaming, crying, or violence now is only
going to jeopardize your ability to do well
in the future.
Leave if you feel nothing else but a
desire to behave violently. This needs
to be sorted out when you're calmer;
get out of the room, house or wherever
you may be.

•2
Tell them immediately that you are
retreating to allow them to get
dressed . Wait somewhere else while they
get themselves dressed. Find a place to sit
down and take deep breaths. If you need
to find a way to let out your anger, hit a
pillow or a cushion.

•3
Prepare yourself to face the other
man . If you are in your own home or a
shared home, ask him to leave. If he
refuses, do not turn to violence, but rather
explain that you need time to sort things
out with your girlfriend.
Be prepared for him to act violently,
since you caught him in an offensive
art. You should not be the one to start
the violence but it is always clever to
have a backup plan.
You may want to place yourself near an
exit or near the kitchen or an item that
could be used as a weapon for self
protection.

•4
Think about what to do next. If you're
too upset to think straight, that's okay.
Wait for your girlfriend to come out, and
calmly tell her that you need to take some
time alone, and that you'll let her know
when you're ready to talk. Then, walk out,
call a supportive friend, and take the time
you need to calm down.
Have a Conversation With Your
Girlfriend

•1
Know what you want before you start
the conversation . Whether you want to
stay together and work it out or break up,
make sure you know what you want before
you start the conversation. Going in with a
clear goal will help you stay focused while
talking to her.

•2
Meet with your girlfriend one-on-one.
Don't allow the other man to come. Doing
so will put your girlfriend in the power
position. In addition, this is a situation that
is between you and your girlfriend. The
other man may not have even known that
she was in a relationship—don't bring in
another unnecessary foe.

•3
Explain your desire to have an honest
but calm discussion . Telling your
girlfriend at the beginning of the
conversation that you wish to stay rational
will also help you remind yourself not to
get overly worked up. If your girlfriend
wishes to apologize or talk first, let her.

•4
Be the bigger person. Understand that
your girlfriend will be on the defensive,
and therefore will likely try to upset you.
She may blame the cheating on you,
scream at you, or otherwise attempt to
make you angry. Hear her out, but do not
fall prey to her attempts to upset you. Stay
calm, and be firm about your decision.

•5
Be honest but rational. Explain why you
are hurt and what you want to do about it.
If you want to break up, explain to your
girlfriend that you are too hurt to continue
the relationship. If you are willing to
rebuild, let her know, and see what she
thinks.
Avoid saying anything strictly out of
anger or hurt—you may end up saying
something you regret.

•6
Stick to your word. If you decide to try
and work it out, don't hold a grudge for the
next year and a half. While it's okay to be
wary, punishing your girlfriend over and
over is not healthy, and it will ultimately
end up further hurting your relationship. If
you decide to break up, don't take her
back two weeks later. Doing so will show
her that you aren't serious about your
word, and it will open up the door for her
to cheat again.


•Tips
If you do want to salvage the relationship,
you may want to have a talk about why
she did what she did; most of the time
cheaters have certain reasons and one of
them is that they find something lacking in
the relationship. Be open about things.


•It's okay to be mad, and you need to
express that to her so she knows exactly
how you feel


•You may want to make her feel guilty for
cheating on you, but do note that there
are cases where the girl just doesn't care
anymore.



•Thoughts of revenge on the guy she was in
bed with may cross your mind but
remember not to do anything illegal; why
would you want to waste your time on a
person like that anyway?


•You may not want to just break up with her
right away because that could cause
something really dramatic. If you do do so
however, be prepared to stop her from
harming herself and you as well. A talk
should be done comfortably, sitting down
and delivered calmly.

You may not want to just break up with her
right away because that could cause
something really dramatic. If you do do so
however, be prepared to stop her from
harming herself and you as well. A talk
should be done comfortably, sitting down
and delivered calmly.

Bitch is getting nooky in bed with another guy and this list is worried about the girl harming herself? Eff that!

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190-the-clown:


My fav part but God 4bid

Its not my portion to catch any of my girlfriends cheatin on me

I cant stand the heart ache

Infact **knees down** please lord do not let any of my girlfriends cheat on me

So u can get heartbroken .
Op dis ur tips na story, when a guy won't be thinking straight, u expect him. 2 remember all dese. D funniest part is to allow dem get dressed and go take deep breaths, u must b joking