I'm 29yrs old, in love with an 18-yr old girl. I really want to marry her because I know she loves me more dearly, but her mother is really on her neck, she doesn't want our union, but whenever she sees me, she pretends to like me. But my baby is always complaining about her. Please what should I do?

. .Ok.Over to the lov Doctors.

"your baby"

thats exactly what she is.Her mother likes u but I m sure what she doesnt like is ur distracting her daugther at a tender age of 18.if you love her,help her get into school,advce her to study her books,make good results and then , maybe marry u

Oh my god she is just a baby. If i was her mother (I have a 17 year old) I would call my brothers, my father, my uncles and they would impress upon you the need to stay away from her.

You have lived your life, you have loved many times over. Let this girl go to school and live her life. Trapping her in a marriage and kids at this age will just lead to her divorcing you in about 10 years.

I could not even imagine at my age, 33, dating someone 11 years my junior. We would not have much in common and be in totally different places.

the girl in question might be young,but it doesnt mean shes not matured

dre101:

I'm 29yrs old, in love with an 18-yr old girl. I really want to marry her because I know she loves me more dearly, but her mother is really on her neck, she doesn't want our union, but whenever she sees me, she pretends to like me. But my baby is always complaining about her. Please what should I do?

29 Dating 18 year-old??
Blimey. . . . . this is not right!!!!

~Xerxes~:

29 Dating 18 year-old??
Blimey. . . . . this is not right!!!!

Kanu married that pretty 18 years old girl so you never know

vicade u took dat right out of my mouth

@post
I tire for some naija mothers o. . .though I still love them. . .

I'd advice you to politely confront the mother. . .instead of her pretending to you, tell her to talk to you abt her issues na. becuz if a mother is truly not happy with her child's marriage, well. . .

anywaz, goodluck

vicade:

Kanu married that pretty 18 years old girl so you never know

Kanu is a pedophile and that marriage is also motivated by Kanu's finances.
Will that same gurl marry a 40-year-old carpentar around the corner?

~Xerxes~:

Kanu is a pedophile and that marriage is also motivated by Kanu's finances.
Will that same girl marry a 40-year-old carpentar around the corner?

lai lai . . am marry u!

40 yr old xerxes then i will support the girls mother but 29 is still young and good for d 18 yr old girl

jennykadry:

40 yr old xerxes then i will support the girls mother but 29 is still young and good for d 18 yr old girl

11 yeas difference between the couple?? ??
The geezer is old enough to be her dad. . . .
If i were the gurl's mother, i would shoot ur ass with a 12-guage shotgun.
18 year-old woman should date guys btw 20-23(max).

What's wrong with the women your age?

story xerxes ,who told u kanu's wife married d guy because of money huh?i borrow your words,innocent until proven guilty


anywayz that is by d way,d poster wants to marry her its not as if he just wants to suck d orange and throw away d peel,he wants to keep it forever and as for me i don't see anycrime in it,as long as the babe is matured enough to handel it,for christsake age has got nothing to do with maturity,i was once in this kind of situation so im talking out of experience 18 is not too young for a 29 yr old guy

jennykadry:

story xerxes ,who told u kanu's wife married d guy because of money huh?i borrow your words,innocent until proven guilty

Why would any 18 yr-old chic marry a man of 40 if not for money.
Besides, was it not an arranged marriage? kanu called his people in Owerri that he needed a decent virgin and they arranged it.
What else could be involved in that? Love?

anywayz that is by d way,d poster wants to marry her its not as if he just wants to suck d orange and throw away d peel,he wants to keep it forever and as for me i don't see anycrime in it,as long as the babe is matured enough to handel it,for christsake age has got nothing to do with maturity,i was once in this kind of situation so im talking out of experience 18 is not too young for a 29 yr old guy

And what makes u think the poster wants to marry her.
What if he wants to take an advantage of a young, naive woman?
Good parents will be wary of this kind of association. . . . . .Poster is a predator, he should find someone older than 21.

and what is the extra benefit of an eighteen years old dating or getting married to a 24 years old and not a 29 years old?
what ever happened to Love knows no bound afterall it is not illegal though it can be argued that it is immoral but that is only relative compared to our sisters in the north.

By the way,amarachi,,kanus wife is one hell of a fine babe and i think there is a thread about investment on ladies or something like that, that is one nice investment from kanu-financially or otherwise. when kanu is 40 years old, amarachi will just be warming up

Why would any 18 yr-old chic marry a man of 40 if not for money.
Besides, was it not an arranged marriage? kanu called his people in Owerri that he needed a decent virgin and they arranged it.
What else could be involved in that? Love?

where u there when he called?nope ,so(amara) kanus wife is innocent until proven guilty

And what makes u think the poster wants to marry her.
What if he wants to take an advantage of a young, naive woman?
Good parents will be wary of this kind of association. . . . . .Poster is a predator, he should find someone older than 21.

back to square 1,i still borrow your language,innocent until proven guilty,that is what u say isnt it?so let us believe d guys story until he opens up and tell us if he really wants to use and dump her,but until then innocent until proven guilty

vicade:

and what is the extra benefit of an eighteen years old dating or getting married to a 24 years old and not a 29 years old?
what ever happened to Love knows no bound afterall it is not illegal though it can be argued that it is immoral but that is only relative compared to our sisters in the north.

24 is a tad closer to 18 than 29 is. . . . .
Blimey. . . . what kind of peops are y'all? Would u let your daughter at 18 date a man of 29?
The probability of him seeking her knickers is 95%

By the way,amarachi,,kanus wife is one hell of a fine babe and i think there is a thread about investment on ladies or something like that, that is one nice investment from kanu-financially or otherwise. when kanu is 40 years old, amarachi will just be warming up

Interesting!!!!

You should even be happy that your baby's mother tries to like you when you're around. Some mothers would have poured hot oil on you.

jennykadry:

where u there when he called?nope ,so(amara) kanus wife is innocent until proven guilty

I don't have to be there to know how things work. I am a geezer from the concrete streets.

back to square 1,i still borrow your language,innocent until proven guilty,that is what u say isnt it?so let us believe d guys story until he opens up and tell us if he really wants to use and dump her,but until then innocent until proven guilty

Noted!!!!

catch them young and groom them.
Omotola Ekeinde and Amarachi Nnwankwo are classical examples.

if the apples in the barren are rotten ,you pluck them fresh from the tree and forget about the barrel as long as they are ripe enough.

;d

vicade, you nearly made me lose my lunch!

What!!!!!!!!
29 to 18. . . If i was her dad. . .
I'ma first of all warn you to step aside and if u try to prove stubborn. . .
I'ma be left with no option but to have u gunned down immediately!

vicade:

catch them young and groom them.
Omotola Ekeinde and Amarachi Nnwankwo are classical examples.

if the apples in the barren are rotten ,you pluck them fresh from the tree and forget about the barrel as long as they are ripe enough.

never really thought of that

vicade:

catch them young and groom them.
Omotola Ekeinde and Amarachi Nnwankwo are classical examples.

if the apples in the barren are rotten ,you pluck them fresh from the tree and forget about the barrel as long as they are ripe enough.

never really thought of that

You can't call Kanu a pedophile, wat about all those old men that marry 12 yrs old.

Thank you all for your contributions, I really appreciate all your comments. THANK YOU.

Sincerely, I want to marry the girl, I wish to marry her before the first quarter of Next year.  Her schooling is paramount to me and am sure God has given to me everything a man needs to take care of his wife.

I have several grown up working class ladies closer to me and will want me to marry them,  but I prefer the young girl.

I Think I know what to do now      

this 29yr old dude did not say anything about loving this young lady
"i want to mary her because she love me dearly"
i dont trust the guy
who of u can watch your 18 yr old younger sister in that kind of relationship
not me

Hey, I love her so much, why would I want to marry someone I dont love?

Bros, what's so special abt this young lady? Is it her freshness? Your other 'old cargoes' don tire u? I hope u mean well for the chick. My advice 4 u is not to rush her into making any nasty decisions, and pls allow her complete her education. Gud luck.