@Vic.,
i have mailed you. check your box.

Dis guy self. You don't know how the girl look like and u are sending her mail. Maybe, u have mistaken the pix in her profile as her real self. Even the pix in the profile is a bit ugly to trip for.

cooldude62:

please don't digress from the original post,
i wont reply you.

Please, u better don't

and what did u do? contribute to the original post?

all this pickins sef

nezerst:

Hey guys? I'm 27, a newly wed, in love with my husband but i'm simply bored with this marriage thing.
i'm simply tired of repeating one thing everday.is this what forever is going to be like.
Sometimes i think I made a mistake getting married.
is it like this with other married women??
Its even more frustrating coupled with fact that I don't have a job yet.
Please I need your advice before I do something crazy.

when smtin is stereotype,it tends to be boring.
to avoid boredom,y not try doin sm new tins like
you try getting a job,u two create time to go places together.
@ few tyms,do sm tins u both did while dating.
your marriage is what u make it  nd however it is,
its meant to be forever.

And no,its nt like that wit oda married women.
i'm married nd loving every bit of it.

something similar here:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-50601.0.html


I think its up to you to spice things up. You should probably go out more as well.

variety dey say is the spice of life.so try engaging urself in something different

Imagine that your husband would be thinking "Gee, how outrageously boring this woman i married is". Oh well.

@victorian,
i havent seen any reply,
looking forward to.
you can hint themon the content if its a dating mail
i got enough on my hands already!

@buzydiva,
you dont know me guurl,
i really advice you dont talk that way,
pls respect yourself.
i think there's a better way you could have joked with what i said instead of your manner of approach.
check ma posts, i dont look for trouble, so pleeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaassssssssseeee, be a good girl.

@topic,
i think most pple are getting the poster wrong,
she's bored in her marriage!
to me, thats serious.
its too early for that.
you obviously didnt marry the right guy as i put in my first post,
satisfaction you derive from work is quite different from satisfaction at home.
the home should give you joy, peace and whatever good you may think of.
going to do this job or whatever is not the solution.
you and your hubby should make the home sweet for each other,
thats the way out.
you really need to sit down and look at what aspect is boring in your home.
my 2 cents

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cooldude62:

@buzydiva,
you don't know me guurl,
i really advice you don't talk that way,
please respect yourself.
i think there's a better way you could have joked with what i said instead of your manner of approach.
check ma posts, i don't look for trouble, so pleeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaassssssssseeee, be a good girl.

Hey he-goat, u don't want to mess with me as well.
carry your business out here and get a life.
who are u to tell me to be a good girl? Ode, the only question I asked was . . since u knew she was married, watchu trynna contact her 4? F**k date? . . Good thing she confirmed she's not hooked.

buzydiva,
i havent said anything bad about you and i wont.
i am more matured.
this is where i rest my case with you.

@cooldude62

me sef rest my case with u.

@poster

Getting a job can go a long way to ease your boredom dear but try to be more creative while waiting for that job.Goodluck

ema ja o

@nezrest

i think the main prob is that
1. ure not working
2. U need to have a life outside that of ur husband.

i assume u had one before u got married. friends, social life, career etc.
am sure once u start working u wont even have enough time to spend with ur husband.
what i can i can advise is even if u havent got the job u would like yet, find something productive u can do in the meanwhile.
Try ur hand as starting a small business or studying a language or something
i think its a bit unfair for u to expect ur husband to entertain u 24-7 , he sef has his life . ( when u were younger and living with ur parents did they entertain u ?)

havin a job is either goin to make u miss home or ''help'' u meet some random guy in the office who'll make u get d ''excitment'' u so desire; in the same vein havin a child at yr current state of mind, will only get things more complicated for u as that may b a reason 2 put up wit a borin marriage.
Thing is, i aint takin sides wit ur feelins nor wit ur marriage, only been real; i'm also married with a son, and there r times when i wish i wasnt but cannot walkout as i have my son to think off, but there r also times when my son gives me reasons to be glad that i am married.
the choice is urs. watever u want 2 do, think with ur head n heart not wit ur eyes, remember wat made u agree to the marriage - remember how u felt at times when u quarelled and felt heart broken ( if u neva had such feelings then u neva was in love), go back to basics, decide wat ur priorities in life are and make a choice u wont regret tomorrow.
good luck

You might want to think about getting a job. Perhaps, that will kill the boredom.

Its not marriage that is boring, its your life that is boring. ,

u don't work and u hav no kids thats why you're bored. . . .

Get something to do, because you're married doesnt mean u have to loose your individuality.

If u don't want to work, get pregnant or get a hobby. . . It seems u're just looking for an excuse to do something u otherwise wont do.

stop blaming marriage for your alleged boredom!

this is sooo

the best advice here

@cooldude

your intentions with victoria please

another quest for your diary

she is a friend ooo

IT IS OVER-HYPED AND THAT PUTS A LOT OF PRESSURE ON PEOPLE

IT COULD BE BORING INDEED ESPECIALLY IF DECISIONS HAS BEEN MADE IN A HASTE

nezerst:
Hey guys? I'm 27, a newly wed, in love with my husband but i'm simply bored with this marriage thing.
I'm simply tired of doing the same thing everyday. Is this what forever is go be like?
Sometimes i think I made a mistake getting married.
Is it like this with other married women?
Its even more frustrating coupled with fact that I dont have a job yet.
Please I need ur advice b4 I do something crazy.

some have food...