jay bee:






Same guy ?

what do you mean by that?.
did you read this>>>>

Amelian: I bumped into one of my ex, one lovely morning i
was about to head to the bank ,
but this time i decided to take
Okada instead of driving down,
just want to feel the cool
natural breeze touching my face, as the okada man drives
off... in the process of waiting
for bike, someone called my
name , i looked at the direction,
i saw a white massive jeep with
tinted glass, the glass slides down , and wow, my ex is the
one driving ,

Congrats, OP! Best of luck and happy married life.

Royal Roy: Sounds good.

But aint you rushing things up a bit?

Being apart for 5 years, a lot would have changed.

You might be walking into a marriage with a "familiar stranger"!

Hopefully if he is a sincere man, all will be well.

Co-sign.

Deiok: what do you mean by that?.
did you read this>>>>

He read it, yea. And it so happens that she has one or two previous posts that kinda dont add up. I would have thought that was so easy to figure out.

Aguy she met who wooed her for 3 weeks? A guy who cruised back into her life after 5 years?

its like arithmetic, not math or rocket science

you told us of his jeep, his business, the fact u are shopping for a new house but noting about his person.........I see red flags.....congrats tho...

Congrats dearie

Congrats dearie,may God bless your union and grant your heart desires. I sent you a mail please check it,thanks.

what do I want to say that has not been said?


I wish you the best.

deols: what do I want to say that has not been said?


I wish you the best.

Dearie deoly,how far? Waiting for ur own o! I must learn how to tie gele by force.I will wear lace and asoke. I've already planned how it will be in my head. Anywhere I am, I must be there!

@op, congratulobia!!!

yellowpawpaw:
Dearie deoly,how far? Waiting for ur own o! I must learn how to tie gele by force.I will wear lace and asoke. I've already planned how it will be in my head. Anywhere I am, I must be there!

@op, congratulobia!!!

No froblem. u shall hear am!!

deols:

No froblem. u shall hear am!!

Cleaning my fork & knife!!

jay bee:






Same guy ?

Nah, not same guy.... ......how can I marry someone that wants my car keys after just 3weeks of dating?....hell No!

Congrats gurl, I suspect this is the real deal as you are both now more mature and have tested different waters enough to spot the clean water you are about to drink. Just make sure you guys move on completely from the past. All the best

Congrats dearie! I love good news. Those of una wey dey do maths with this good news na una sabi. PM me for aso ebi. I must be there

You women are so quick to say congratulations without cautioning your own, Amelian I think you are moving too fast so you dated this fellow before that's not enough reason to jump into marriage after one month of reconnecting with him.

You women are too desperate for this thing called marriage.

Go for it. If it doesn't work out, apply the same velocity you had when you replied yes.

Good to have a regular person servicing the engine always.

If the OP was a guy and told the story like this:

I bumped into one of my ex, one lovely morning i was about to head to the bank , but this time i decided to take Okada instead of driving down, just want to feel the cool natural breeze touching my face, as the okada man drives off... in the process of waiting for bike, someone called my name , i looked at the direction, i saw a white massive jeep with tinted glass, the glass slides down , and wow, my ex is the one driving.....


I doubt we would have the same number of "congratulations" from the ladies

aniffy4eva: If the OP was a guy and told the story like this:

I bumped into one of my ex, one lovely morning i was about to head to the bank , but this time i decided to take Okada instead of driving down, just want to feel the cool natural breeze touching my face, as the okada man drives off... in the process of waiting for bike, someone called my name , i looked at the direction, i saw a white massive jeep with tinted glass, the glass slides down , and wow, my ex is the one driving.....


I doubt we would have the same number of "congratulations" from the ladies

What are you saying ,

Time you used to write this, you would have given your own advise or opinion and move on!

Joy killer

Chillisauce:
What are you saying ,
Time you used to write this, you would have given your own advise or opinion and move on!
Joy killer

Truth hurts...

For me, there are no alarm bells.
This is because I've noticed a trend of people retracing their steps back to their exes and schoolmates after almost drowning in the murky waters of the dating pool.
Guys generally feel more secure with a girl they've known way back, especially if she was a good girl.

Amelian, wish you the very best.

@ Lola.luv, and other wishing me, my spouse and our new upcoming home well... God bless you all... But those guys looking for my trouble , sniffing where they are not suppose 2 sniff.....pls back off!... And be happy for me , at least...whether am desperate o, or he is desperate ...that's irrelevant...if am not ready to get married in my early 30s, when will I be?.....until am 50? ......if he's not eager to get married , now in his late 30s? When will he be?....until he is 55?.....how cautious and overly careful can anyone be in relationships.....the main Koko Is we are happy, we've found each other for keeps ....

Amelian: how cautious and overly careful can anyone be in relationships.....the main Koko Is we are happy, we've found each other for keeps ....

Nicely written ... best wishes on your future together!

Amelian: @ Lola.luv, and other wishing me, my spouse and our new upcoming home well... God bless you all... But those guys looking for my trouble , sniffing where they are not suppose 2 sniff.....pls back off!... And be happy for me , at least...whether am desperate o, or he is desperate ...that's irrelevant...if am not ready to get married in my early 30s, when will I be?.....until am 50? ......if he's not eager to get married , now in his late 30s? When will he be?....until he is 55?.....how cautious and overly careful can anyone be in relationships.....the main Koko Is we are happy, we've found each other for keeps ....

Do your thing jare.
Good luck

Amelian: @ Lola.luv, and other wishing me, my spouse and our new upcoming home well... God bless you all... But those guys looking for my trouble , sniffing where they are not suppose 2 sniff.....pls back off!... And be happy for me , at least...whether am desperate o, or he is desperate ...that's irrelevant...if am not ready to get married in my early 30s, when will I be?.....until am 50? ......if he's not eager to get married , now in his late 30s? When will he be?....until he is 55?.....how cautious and overly careful can anyone be in relationships.....the main Koko Is we are happy, we've found each other for keeps ....

Really hun, one can't be too careful in this marriage matter. My mum used to say you can never know your partner enough before wedding. I guess one just has to go with her/instinct. I'm happy you two are happy. I wish u a blissful home. Joy will never run dry in your home. Gob bless your union.

Ive always been cautious of exes coming back together. Things may go either way due to unimagined changes in character, but I pray the best comes to you in this.

I will never, ever, ever in my life get back with an ex. No butts of ifs. Good for you though. I hope that you are not choosing him because of your desperation.

aniffy4eva: If the OP was a guy and told the story like this:

I bumped into one of my ex, one lovely morning i was about to head to the bank , but this time i decided to take Okada instead of driving down, just want to feel the cool natural breeze touching my face, as the okada man drives off... in the process of waiting for bike, someone called my name , i looked at the direction, i saw a white massive jeep with tinted glass, the glass slides down , and wow, my ex is the one driving.....


I doubt we would have the same number of "congratulations" from the ladies

Hahaha..... Most women would never date a man on an Okada. Them go just bone the man.

yay!!!!!! Congrats! I'm so happy for you.

But babe, on the other hand I have noticed a trend with you; you attach so much importance to material things. Its obvious in all your threads. While I rejoice and celebrate you for your achievements, I guess you are smart enough to know that there is more to life, love and marriage than 'I have done well for myself,' 'my car,' 'here he comes in a massive jeep,' etc. You can't define life this way and definitely can't build a solid relationship on this. So just pipe it down a little.

No kill me o, advice no be curse.

I'm really happy for you, pumpkin.

obowunmi: I will never, ever, ever in my life get back with an ex. No butts of ifs. Good for you though. I hope that you are not choosing him because of your desperation.

Me too. Can't eat my vomit.

sihom: You women are so quick to say congratulations without cautioning your own, Amelian I think you are moving too fast so you dated this fellow before that's not enough reason to jump into marriage after one month of reconnecting with him.

You women are too desperate for this thing called marriage.

At bolded, very true...

In the words of deols my friend,

deols: what do I want to say that has not been said?


I wish you the best.

I like the aura in wic she reply all the comments so far. Wish U luck and blisful marital life.
By the way, I jaz feel, like some commentators pointed out, babe is going for the wrongest and silliest reasons. Massive jeep bla bla bla. If the dude was on okada or off-the road kinda car, babe wldnt even notice him.
I sensed:
1. One or all of them ar desperate. More inclined to the babe side.
2. Materialism
3. AoB
Wic eva one, I wish you 'no regrets in ur life on this fast decision you made'. Amin