vivianc: yay!!!!!! Congrats! I'm so happy for you.

But babe, on the other hand I have noticed a trend with you; you attach so much importance to material things. Its obvious in all your threads. While I rejoice and celebrate you for your achievements, I guess you are smart enough to know that there is more to life, love and marriage than 'I have done well for myself,' 'my car,' 'here he comes in a massive jeep,' etc. You can't define life this way and definitely can't build a solid relationship on this. So just pipe it down a little.

No kill me o, advice no be curse.

I'm really happy for you, pumpkin.

ireneidiva:
Me too. Can't eat my vomit.

bukatyne:

At bolded, very true...


In the words of deols my friend,

Amelian: Av waited a long while for this special moment ... I didn't presume or imagine , it will be this year ....I bumped into one of my ex, one lovely morning i was about to head to the bank , but this time i decided to take Okada instead of driving down, just want to feel the cool natural breeze touching my face, as the okada man drives off... in the process of waiting for bike, someone called my name , i looked at the direction, i saw a white massive jeep with tinted glass, the glass slides down , and wow, my ex is the one driving , looking so confident , cool, with all smiles, beckoning on me to come. i was like wow! i walked across the road, hopped in, and i was like, what happend to you? youve changed ... he smiled and said its God ooo.... i was like, hmmm nice one...he told me the biz he is into, we talked for a while, then .he dropped me off at the bank, we exchanged numbers again. fixed a date for an outing... on our date, we talked about the past, and our mistakes, especially mine .... i apologised... he said its ok, he understands, and that he tried getting engaged when i left , but the engagement didnt work out, everything was just so wrong and he was always comparing me , with his ex fiance, that she got tired and fedup, and just left him one fateful day , with his ring... Other relationships, were just not right, until he met me that day, i was about to take a bike...and all the feelings came back all over again...am glad he has really achieved considerably well , during past 5yrs, we had a breakup.
He looked more matured, confident, and bold... .....my Reason in the past, was that i wasn't ready, and I felt I had to whole time in the whole world to relax and just enjoy the relationship, but he wanted marriage @ that point , so I had to withdraw from him and drift into a world of my own.. Thank God , we met last month after 5yrs.. Av also done pretty well for myself too.. We both liked what we are seeing through each other nw... He proposed last nite @ Sheraton ..with misty eyes of love and adoration.... And I whispered Yes, I will marry you....he looked at me, smiled and says thank you, my dear... U won't regret this decision ....I promise to make u happy and fulfilled .

Am so happy.... We are planning to getting a new home, before the marriage proceedings .... I can't even sleep.... At last, av met my match in everything.

Thank you , Lord.

Amelian:


Your vomit, IS YOUR VOMIT......yuck!....wharever

My boo is the best to happen to me in a long while
Shikena




Whose headache is yours, if I appear desperate to u.....baby, lemme handle d desperation......Ain't u familiar about the phrase.....it's My Choice.....

So buck off

Royal Roy:

Cleaning my fork & knife!!

Amelian:


My dear, it's ok abt your view....but material things for me, go a. Long long way to make life comfortable , that's y , I strive to be successful in my career and dread failure and poverty like crazy...but that does not mean, it's the only thing I look out for in a long lasting relationship... Is it a crime to want to settle down with a rich guy? ....God knows av taken broke guys serious, but unfortunately, the desire to take one as a maga or mugs, comes up , after a while....so y shud I put up with such destructive tendencies from such guys? ......all to prove wat?.....so pple will hail me and say I try for marrying a struggling guy who takes me as maga?....Abeg o..... I ain't cut out for such....am happy and thanks for bn happy for me

Amelian:


My dear, it's ok abt your view....but material things for me, go a. Long long way to make life comfortable , that's y , I strive to be successful in my career and dread failure and poverty like crazy...but that does not mean, it's the only thing I look out for in a long lasting relationship... Is it a crime to want to settle down with a rich guy? ....God knows av taken broke guys serious, but unfortunately, the desire to take one as a maga or mugs, comes up , after a while....so y shud I put up with such destructive tendencies from such guys? ......all to prove wat?.....so pple will hail me and say I try for marrying a struggling guy who takes me as maga?....Abeg o..... I ain't cut out for such....am happy and thanks for bn happy for me

vivianc:

Babe chill, I'm not asking you to marry a rich guy or not to work hard. But blowing your trumpet all the time seems rather childish to me.

You can always tell us the guy is successful without describing to us how massive his jeep is. And you can always tell us you were just going out without telling us how you decided not to drive and took a bike bla bla..............

Your self blowing trumpet is what i asked you to pipe down a little.

Chillisauce:

Let her blow if she wanna blow the trumpet, not any bodies business. Weren't you the one describing the way you suffered to get to your status . Did anyone say anything about that

Let her express her self, she has it, let her flaunt it. No body got time for pity party.

vivianc:

Who is this one? My friend move to the left joor. Was i talking to you or you are high on crack? Or has the hot pepper disorganised your brains?

Yea, I told someone that was almost giving up in life a little about me, so did others and that was purely to encourage him more. What has that got to do with pity party? You must be very daft to bring that in here.

Has what exactly? What others hasn't gotten before? Would she be the first or the last?

Abeg, carry your busy body pack one side jare.

Chillisauce:

Yes am high on ganja and chillisauce. Encourage who u wanna encourage and let her do her own.
If you have gotten enough why was it bothering you about her write up.

We that have it all, don't see anything wrong with what she is saying. True story.
Now go back to your sorry self.

vivianc:

Let me laugh first buaaaaaaaaaa . That laugh is on you. I'm not here to declare what I have or don't have, you know why? That's not how I define myself. A superficial life like yours should be laughed at, cos its an empty life just like you sound.

And sweetheart, your life compared to mine is non existence, i promise you that.

Wait a minute! So in this day and time people still boast with cars? you must come from the land of the dead where a one eye man is the king.

Now run along, airhead.

Chillisauce:

No one boasting here. If you see it as boast clearly shows your complex. She described something for ppl to get a feel of her story. You come down and labeled her as being materialistic.
As for my life, don't let me get you started. Cars are nothing, but you bringing it up in the discussion clearly shows that you think it's something. Hence on your being materialistic blah blah blah...

Why didn't you just say how you suffered to get to your status, why did you describe the job you did, etc. clearly, you want to tell a story,
Goodnews, not everybody has your own story, not everybody see your own view in life, get over it and let the girl be.

Don't be a joy killer, frog head!

biolabee: i thought this was a thread exhibiting Amelian;s love
una don start again,....

biolabee: ^^^
you too like wahala... i thought this is the family section

On topic,.. wish you the best Amelian,,

Chillisauce:

Family section , yes...don't worry, there is no fight going on, abi u wan come add petrol? Na your way. So am just checking on you biobellee

vivianc: Amelian, i'm serious about what i told you. you might not see it but it exist in you or atleast a version of you here on NL.

There is nothing wrong in marrying a rich man, i want that too or its raw material. There is nothing wrong in working hard and being successful. I may or may not be as successful as you are but what I'm telling you is not out of jealousy as dimwit- chilli whatever implied. If anything, your handwork is very inspiring.

Maybe i'm the first to notice this cos i have a way of relating with people, i dont know but babe you have to work on it.

Or

you can play the "she is jealous" card all you want, you won't be the first.

I remember a certain beautiful lady who went down this road in the Romance Section. I saw it first maybe, and advised her like i'm doing to you now. Dimwits like chilli-whatever told her i'm jealous of her cos i'm not as beautiful as she is. Not too long, other people started seeing it too and things escalated. Now she hardly visits Romance Section cos she thinks people hated her.

But again, you can discard this advice. After all i live a sorry life ask Chilli-whatever.

your call.

Congrats once again on your engagement. May your union-to-be be blessed.

Chillisauce:

Don't take it to heart. I apologize for the pity party thing since you are clearly offended, but learn to move on when ppl say they are happy. That's all! Case closed.

vivianc:


I just pointed to a trait which she exhibits in all her threads, which has nothing to do with her getting engaged, all you would have done is check them out first before you attack me.

Case closed.

Amelian:

My dear, it's ok abt your view....but material things for me, go a.
Long long way to make life comfortable , that's y , I strive to be successful in my career and dread failure and poverty like crazy...but that does not mean, it's the only thing I look out for in a long lasting relationship... Is it a crime to want to settle down with a rich guy? ....God knows av taken broke guys serious, but unfortunately, the desire to take one as a maga or mugs, comes up , after a while....so y shud I put up with such destructive tendencies from such guys?
......all to prove wat?.....so pple will hail me and say I try for
marrying a struggling guy who takes me as maga?....Abeg o..... I ain't cut out for such....am happy and thanks for bn happy for me

vivianc: Amelian, i'm serious about what i told you. you might not see it but it exist in you or atleast a version of you here on NL.

There is nothing wrong in marrying a rich man, i want that too or its raw material. There is nothing wrong in working hard and being successful. I may or may not be as successful as you are but what I'm telling you is not out of jealousy as dimwit- chilli whatever implied. If anything, your handwork is very inspiring.

Maybe i'm the first to notice this cos i have a way of relating with
people, i dont know but babe you have to work on it.

Or

you can play the "she is jealous" card all you want, you won't be the
first.

I remember a certain beautiful lady who went down this road in the
Romance Section. I saw it first maybe, and advised her like i'm doing to
you now. Dimwits like chilli-whatever told her i'm jealous of her cos
i'm not as beautiful as she is. Not too long, other people started
seeing it too and things escalated. Now she hardly visits Romance
Section cos she thinks people hated her.

But again, you can discard this advice. After all i live a sorry life
ask Chilli-whatever.

your call.

Congrats once again on your engagement. May your union-to-be be blessed.