Okija_juju: Mr. Edwards

Why 'dont you love her to the point of marrying her', whatever that is?!

Is she ugly or what?

25omega: poster

most of the time its good to marry the person you are friends with first. In your case, you should set the girl free because you have finally gotten some azz from her and now you have conquered the mountain and now you want off. just set her free and dont worry about hurting her feelings because if you string her along, you will be doing more harm to her than giving her a chance to find real love

sexytabhi: Pls what do u mean by `shes not the outwaard type` @op
Exactly what kind of wwoman do you want?

edwardjr: no! She's ok bt 1 of d things is dat she's nt dis outward type n over possessive too.

edwardjr: i min she's an introvert n i luv an extrovert.as 4 d kind of woman i wnt,d type dat clicks wit most of my constitutn

sexytabhi:
different strokes for different folks,it seems you aint ready for a relationship yet.

y-fo:
is it cuz u haven't tasted her cheery yet and so u feel she's not your type...my guy, that is a wife material (unless she's hiding her kinky side )

or it might be that u an introvert also and u guys being together is kinda boring....@ the end of the day, the heart wants want the heart wants....listen to it.

edwardjr: she was my classmate in high school by den we neva knew each other until we met in d university. We became best of frndz dat even her frndz used 2 tel her dat we were compartible n dat she shud go into an affair wit me...it turned out dat in her year 3 my departmental guy dis flowered her n shortly dia relatnshp crashed. I became her shoulder 2 cry on til we startd an affair due 2 our constant closeness n d topic we regularly discussed. She is a decent gal,God fearing,infact a 'virtuous woman'bt i jus dnt love her to d point of marriage. Her romantic style doesnt suit or click wit mine.even wen she asked me where we r heading 2, i had 2 tel her plainly dat we r jus frndz. because of how most ladies r i'm afraid if i might meet som1 lik her again if i let her go. Bt how can i luv her to d extent of marrying her? Pls advice

edwardjr: she was my classmate in high school by den we neva knew each other until we met in d university. We became best of frndz dat even her frndz used 2 tel her dat we were compartible n dat she shud go into an affair wit me...it turned out dat in her year 3 my departmental guy dis flowered her n shortly dia relatnshp crashed. I became her shoulder 2 cry on til we startd an affair due 2 our constant closeness n d topic we regularly discussed. She is a decent gal,God fearing,infact a 'virtuous woman'bt i jus dnt love her to d point of marriage. Her romantic style doesnt suit or click wit mine.even wen she asked me where we r heading 2, i had 2 tel her plainly dat we r jus frndz. because of how most ladies r i'm afraid if i might meet som1 lik her again if i let her go. Bt how can i luv her to d extent of marrying her? Pls advice

sexytabhi:
different strokes for different folks,it seems you aint ready for a relationship yet.

edwardjr: sincerely broda i havnt slept wit dat lady though we hav had some smooching in d past bt nt of recent.she has alwz said dat 'dat guy dat disflowered her wud b d first n d last until she marries' u knw? We've bin for more than 2years now bt no sex has alwz bin her slogan even wen i wud try 2 initiate 1.

uniqueval: Were you crying while you were creating this thread? You gave me an extra time reading and trying to comprehend your text...BTW, If you don't have any long term/future plans for the chic, let her be! You made mention of compatibility. There obviously isn't any, since your reason for refusing to commit yourself is because of some of her shortcomings that you can not accommodate. So stop subscribing to her channel. Subscribe to one that interests you. #lifeIsShort
On a last note - statistically, female introverts make perfect wife when it comes to dealing with fidelity in marriage.