my guy is dead serious about marriage come next year.but he is younger than me by 6months.he is afraid i may go for a better guy cos of his family standard so is uncomfortable.we are both educated and working.

@post
def no. . .

did i mention that we r both 26

Yea, i could.

@ topic ,waeva rocks ya boat but for me?hell no

Yes Even both of you are 26 years old each other.

6 months age difference is SO WHAT! Age is just NUMBERS! Go ahead marry him. . .ignore his parent's old fashioned tribe way he must follow.

This is 2008. . .not 1800s!!!

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i would prefer not to

Nothing spoil.

@topic

hell no sometimes i dont even respect someone who is 10 yrs older than me,not to talk of my age mate,we cant live in d same house

Age is not necessarily a measure of maturity

HR.hotness:

Age is not necessarily a measure of maturity

Seconded!

i agree wt u hotness,but sometimes i find it difficult to respect pple who r far older than i am,so staying wt my age mate,and i know we r of d same age,its going to be a problem sha

anyways poster theres nothing wrong with it,but i cant

HR.hotness:

Age is not necessarily a measure of maturity

No big deal, so far you guys understand and respect each other. Wetin be six months difference sef ? You never see guys wey dey marry ladies 10times older than they are ? Abi you go tell people say you old pass your man for public ?Abeg go do ya thing joo !

Maybe/Maybe not.

To answer your question, Yes! if we're both in love.

I'm not even going to waste too much time on this topic because we've already discussed thousands of topics like this from will you marry a shorter guy to will you marry a light skin guy, to will you marry a diff tribe, to will you marry a guy younger than you! just name! One thing we haven't discused or find a solution to is what those things have to do with love! anyway.

Age if you ask me or if I were you is no issue here but if his family have issue with you, then you have to think twice.

Someone said this is 2008 so you should ignore his family/parents but I'm telling you now that I don't give a f**k if this is 3008 or 8002! whatever you do or decide to do, pls don't ignore his family/parents if this whole thing is about marriage. As much as some girls try to play Iron woman, you just can't ignore your man's family or pretend they don't exist or have a say and expect things to go well/fine for you in that family! no way!! why will you even want to force yourself into a family that think you're no good? all in the name of you love the guy! I don't know some of you girls do it but if you ask me I'll say its not worth the pill. who told you the world will end today if you don't marry that guy? its already a new day in china! ggggggggg

Remember its even easier for a man to careless about the girls family since he's marrying FROM them not going INTO their family than the other way round. I'll say you're even lucky to find out his family issues now than latter.

Personally, I don't see myself marrying a girl that her family can't stand me love or no love. There are few or minor issues that you need no one to tell you that you can deal with or correct when/if you go into that family and at the same time, there are some you just don't want to involve yourself in!
We're Africans and marriage as far as we're concern is a union between not only a man and a woman but two families and sometimes even two villages! shine your eyes!

no

Yes after all love is all that matters, right?

Age is just a number. as long as you two look good together so what about age?

My friends bf is 5 years younger than her but he looks older than her.

@4Her
my God, the pix in ur profile is damn terrible. i hope that is not ur real pix if not, i think u need to take ur case seriously. i don't think i can eat 4 2days wit wat i ve seen in ur profile.

May God help us in this country, where there are so many strange things

I think she looks very lovely.

Tosbi:

@4Her
my God, the pix in your profile is damn terrible. i hope that is not your real pix if not, i think u need to take your case seriously. i don't think i can eat 4 2days wit what i ve seen in your profile.

May God help us in this country, where there are so many strange things

And you'd think he has a profile picture.

Tosbi:

@4Her
my God, the pix in your profile is damn terrible. i hope that is not your real pix if not, i think u need to take your case seriously. i don't think i can eat 4 2days wit what i ve seen in your profile.

May God help us in this country, where there are so many strange things

rotflmao!! excuse me?!! I am outraged!!! and why are you checking 4her's profile?




NLERS. . .TELL ME IF THIS PIC IS SEXY OR NOT!!

ooohhh. . . We have Hot Twins on nairaland!   

Man. . . . That is one HOT SEXY MOMMA  I LOVE THE LIPS. . . . DAMN SEXY as HELL. . .

gabrywyl:

ooohhh. . . We have Hot Twins on nairaland!

Man. . . . That is one HOT SEXY MOMMA I LOVE THE LIPS. . . . DAMN SEXY as HELL. . .

Thank you jare. . .they dnt know what they're missing

Man. . . . . And look at the hair do. . .

By the way, which saloon did you went to?

I can't tell you my hair peacialist na

she's the best in Hollywood, top secret

The best? Hmm. . . I guess must be the hair stylist of Marilyn Manson.

morenike09:

rotflmao!! excuse me?!! I am outraged!!! and why are you checking 4her's profile?




NLERS. . .TELL ME IF THIS PIC IS SEXY OR NOT!!

very sexc. so is that u?

Tosbi:

@4Her
my God, the pix in your profile is damn terrible. i hope that is not your real pix if not, i think u need to take your case seriously. i don't think i can eat 4 2days wit what i ve seen in your profile.

May God help us in this country, where there are so many strange things

LOL, you seriously do not believe that, that is her pix now, do you?

i wouldnt mind marrying a guy who was my age mate. but i like older guys cause they have wisdom and maturity. and they can teach you alot of things you didnt know before.

onyinye2,

Well I disagree with your statement because they are actually 2 statements to that.

The first one: My boyfriend is also a few months younger than me like the Poster but his personality is like a 40 year old dude. Its not just me saying it, even my family and friends and his family and friends says it too so its not true that younger men cannot mature and he know more than my parents!!! And also my cousin brother is only age 4 but God knows why he talks like an old fart. He helps the ladies do the housework, when he ask for something, he would say Please and Thank you he talks like a 20 year old man and I cannot believe what I saw. . .  Its not like his parents educate him in any ways because he is always left at the child care centre while the parents goes out to work.

The second one: They say (not me) that men never matures anyways so young or old, they are all like a bunch of babies. (Dont blame me, thats what I hear from others.  )

yeah you got a point there. all through high school every body said i was a sixty year old woman in a teenagers body. yeah i have an old soul.