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Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by sugardaddy1(m): 9:36pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
rigormortis: go to your backyard, dig a small hole, rain all the abuses you feel like raining on your in law into that hole. cover it. drink a tall glass of wine. take a cold shower and go about your business.Thanks |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Nobody: 9:40pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
$ugardaddy: We don praise you small now, your head wan come swell. . . But seriously bro, you need to put ego and pride aside. This is your family we are talking about. Learn to forgive and move on. This life is too short to be holding grudges and scheming on how to deal with people. It aint worth it. And for those handbags that you carry up and down. . . Remember what goes around comes around oooo. . . 1 Like |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Nobody: 10:40pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
OP .. What's your zodiac sign jare? |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Nawaa o. And people keep on advising on this fake story? Poster must be having a filled day! *exit thread* |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by obowunmi(m): 11:52pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
$ugardaddy: Exercise patience, forgive and move on. 1 Like |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by sugardaddy1(m): 10:33am On Sep 10, 2013 |
Ahh!!! Thank God I survived yesterday on this thread!!! NLers wan kill me Anyway, as part of my plan to forgive and let go, I called my mil a while ago (something I haven't done in the last couple of months). She was so excited and full of praises, offering prayers and thanks at the same time while I was just smiling, feeling cool with myself and telling her everything was fine as I just called to enquire how she was fairing . Still in shock, she contiuned praying again and it was only when she said she suspected it was a particular lady I was supposed to marry before I met my wife that was behind the whole imbroglio that I told her that all that was no longer relevant as we (my wife and I) have moved on and forgotten about what happened . Deep inside of me, of course, I know the only problem was her interfering with the running of my home and my wife's initial disrespect for "divinely constituted authority" vested in me by God (no be my fault o, na so I meet am) . And as prove to me that my wife was a lot wiser now, my mil told me my wife hasn't been taking or returning her calls for some time now but she was glad to hear from me which assured her everything was okay. Of course, I told my visibly elated wife of my interaction with her mother and advised that she gets in touch with her immediately to douse her worries. I know she will give me some special treat in kind later tonight as a result Meanwhile, as for my bil, I will eventually call him but I'm going to approach that cautiously so as not to give the wrong impression that I am chickening out of the "cold war", thereby emboldening him . But deep inside of me, I have forgiven and no longer hold any grudges against him- thanks to NLanders and their wealth of experience on family matters As for the guy who thinks this whole story is fake, you never see anything! Something that made me to stop eating at home for over 9weeks na him u dey call fake? Pray make u no get problem for your marriage, na then u go know wetin marriage be. Thank you to all my good friends out there o jare. Ehen, my zodiac sign na pisces for the person wey dey ask. But wait, how dat one take concern the matter at hand? 1 Like |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Nobody: 10:51am On Sep 10, 2013 |
Nice one Bro! I'm very happy you took that bold step. Tell me, don't you feel better now that you have let go? May God bless you and your family. |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by sugardaddy1(m): 10:59am On Sep 10, 2013 |
Phema: Nice one Bro! I'm very happy you took that bold step. Tell me, don't you feel better now that you have let go? May God bless you and your family.Thank you o my sister. May God bless you and your family too. Of course, I feel a lot better |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Nobody: 12:06pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
Pisces : Family A few of your family relationships may have been damaged or even shattered in recent years. There have been chances to reconcile, but either you or the other person has turned away from those chances. This year, you will again face opportunities to heal, and you may be more ready this time. Take any chance you get to get closer to someone who was once very important to you, and over the course of 2013 you will strengthen the foundation of that relationship. Hmmm..... Surprising eh? You're welcome. |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by sugardaddy1(m): 12:12pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
I don't believe in zodiac signs and their predictions. I just know I belong to the pisces group and everything ends there. |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Ngokafor(f): 1:32pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
Nairalanders and their story telling sef!!....na waoo!! |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Ngokafor(f): 6:01pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
m-ployer:...cant agree more with you...wonder where he gets off throwing his weight around like an emperor!!...imagine plotting to deal with a married man who apparently put him in his place for maltreating his sister months after the issue was resolved...some people sef! |
Re: I Need To Deal With My Brother-in-law by Gratia(f): 9:50pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
$ugardaddy:Like seriously? Op you are far away,,what makes you think you won't need your BiL tommorrow? |
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