illitrate: nyash her when my wife no dey house

bebe2: most homes in Nigeria have maids or house help, you watch in movies how they are treated. is dis a movie thing or do people actually treat their maids badly?

bebe2: my question is if u have or if you were to have a maid which of this would apply to you,

1. What's the minimum age you would accept for a maid,

bebe2: 2. They would serve you food on the dining, while you and your kids sit to eat, they would go eat theirs in the kitchen.

bebe2: 3. Your 12 yr old maid washes your 12yr old daughters clothes,

bebe2: 4. Your kids go to a different school to your maid,

bebe2: 5. Your kids do extra lectures after school and your maid stays in the kitchen cooking.

bebe2: 6. after dinner all the family sit together watching tv and having a laugh but the maid either sits in the kitchen to while away time or sits in her room by herself.

bebe2: point of this post is, are there better ways of handling these scenarios, thereby making it fair on your family, the maid and humanity in general.

Boll2010: I cook 4 my maid! Wash her cloths! Tak her to skul! buy cloths bath her# sumbdy tel me y I shldnt fu!ck her am only reapn whr I sowed

russianmob27: i remember when i was 17, our housemaid haf big yansh and i always wanted to yansh that big yansh but i am happy that when mummy and daddy is not around, i c.um to her and she c.um to me and we came together

illitrate: nyash her when my wife no dey house

herbeytv:

Why not JTF or OPC ?

adisa204: It is so sad how Nigerians treat maids.I work at the cinemas let me give you an example,you take your kids to the cinemas alongside your maid,you buy movie tickets for your children and ask at the counter if you are to buy for the maid,because she does not understand what they are saying.So because you are told yes you rather let he/ she stay outside while your kids watch a movie of 1hour 45minutes,and you don't want this maid to poison your kids food when you get home!!!
Naija peeps I'm telling you 95out of 100 do this I'm saying.well you go to church and let your maids wear bathroom slippers to church,HABA!!,or your rather not even take them to church with the excuse of,-the car is filled up.
Please we should all change our mentality towards treating your maid.
THANKS.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

bebe2: All d guys who think dis is a joking matter and are making jokes about sleeping wit their maids, keep it up. Just remember KARMA is a bi-tch.

bebe2: All d guys who think dis is a joking matter and are making jokes about sleeping wit their maids, keep it up. Just remember KARMA is a bi-tch.

Kairoseki77:



Yerima, you should'nt be on Nairaland.

adisa204: It is so sad how Nigerians treat maids.I work at the cinemas let me give you an example,you take your kids to the cinemas alongside your maid,you buy movie tickets for your children and ask at the counter if you are to buy for the maid,because she does not understand what they are saying.So because you are told yes you rather let he/ she stay outside while your kids watch a movie of 1hour 45minutes,and you don't want this maid to poison your kids food when you get home!!!
Naija peeps I'm telling you 95out of 100 do this I'm saying.well you go to church and let your maids wear bathroom slippers to church,HABA!!,or your rather not even take them to church with the excuse of,-the car is filled up.
Please we should all change our mentality towards treating your maid.
THANKS.

Lilaex: Well we hav a femal ause help so I BLEEP her wen ever I want or get the urge.

claremont: I remember when I was a kid and I saw 'standing breas/ts' for the very first time, they belonged to our househelp who for some reason was always parading herself braless. That image has been forever etched inside my head!

greatgod2012: The question that always come to my mind each time maid matters are raised is " Are these set of people not human beings? Are they created by a God different from the one who created us? Are they not born the way we are born? Are they not conceived the way we are conceived?
Why now is all these differences in their treatment?
As far as I'm concerned, I don't even like using the name maid, they have their names ke, abi? Some people even go to the extent of not addressing them by their names, that is very bad.


Anyone that has a maid or more should be able to treat them the way they would want their children treated.
Anyone who doesn't treat their maids with respect is inviting the wrath of God their creator on themselves.
And above all, whatever we sow is what we are going to reap, but the unfortunate part is that our kids also reap part of these things. So we need to be careful.
May God help us all.

debrief08: My Views:

1. Don't employ a child, let children have their childhood, you want to "Help" put the child on schoolarship and let them grow in their own homes, getting a child to work for you in return for food, used clothes and cheap schools is not helping.

2. Set work hours, no maid should work 24/7 have a time for the maid to work and time when you take over from her or him.

3. Pay a decent and minimum wage: it is not slavery, this person is offering a service you don't do yourself so pay a fair wage and good conditions of service same way you expect good working conditions from your boss.

4. You don't own them, they work for you but they have their own private lives to live as long as it doesn't compromise the welfare and security of your own family. Your employer may monitor you to ensure that you don't leak company secrets, and in services like Police and SSS, your spouse may be checked to avoid penetration but beyond that your employer doesn't check on your movements 24/7 and decides for you if you should date or not, same respect should be accorded to MATURE maids. They are not your property.

5. Keep the Mesiah complex to your self, you are not their saviour, even if you have given them a better life you are just an instrument, even you at one point in your life someone gave you a chance and an opportunity, I doubt you endlessly have to worship that person as we expect from our maids, and make statements like "when she came she was so thin and smelling, see her now" they are humans not dogs.
Do unto others what you want others to do to you

debrief08: My Views:

1. Don't employ a child, let children have their childhood, you want to "Help" put the child on schoolarship and let them grow in their own homes, getting a child to work for you in return for food, used clothes and cheap schools is not helping.

olusolaj:







i love you words but the queation is that''CAN WE PRACTISE WHAT WE PREACH''