Only serious response pls, this aint no joke.
I am a young lady I can confidently say very pretty and all. I have had boyfriends and all. But I am attracted to women. A guy can can be naked in front of me, and i don't go gaga or turned on a bit, it has come to the point that I start getting irritated of seeing a guy's naked body. NO ONE should tell me i need Jesus or i need deliverance, because that is no news to me. I can't help who I am attracted to. Funny thing is I used to be so against gays. I need your advise or suggestions.

What do you want us to say?

Ask yourself what YOU want to do about it.

You have said you dont want people to try you to seek God and stuff so what else is there left to say hun?

~Nope you cud be Bi~Sexual thu


~Soo you're saying at this point You dont feel attracted to Men at ALL?

most women go thru phases where they are attracted to other women, its absolutely normal

its also normal to be irritated by a mans naked body, i get irritated as well _{unless its tyrese naked}

its also possibel that u are attracted to both sexes, that makes u bi-sexual. . .

the only way u can really know if if u explore

you can be gay maybe lesbian, there is nothing bad about it , is your life live it the way you want.

ItTickles:

Only serious response please, this aint no joke.
I am a young lady I can confidently say very pretty and all. I have had boyfriends and all. But I am attracted to women. A guy can can be naked in front of me, and i don't go gaga or turned on a bit, it has come to the point that I start getting irritated of seeing a guy's naked body. NO ONE should tell me i need Jesus or i need deliverance, because that is no news to me. I can't help who I am attracted to. Funny thing is I used to be so against gays. I need your advise or suggestions.

You're the only one that has the answer. Nobody can tell you if you're a lesbian or not. You need to find that out yourself.

Some babes know from when their small that their lesbians, while others won't realise until they they reach their teens or early 20's. Do you have dreams or have fantasies of you making passionate love to other women?

Ittickes it is obvious by your post that you are a lesbian. I guess the problem for you now is going to be how to break the news to your parents?

If you know that you're gay, and no-one else knows, it can be really difficult. Some parts of the world like nigeria are less accepting of gay people than others are, and so are some families. This means that many gay people grow up with their friends and families thinking that they're straight - and the pressure of keeping your sexuality a secret can get really stressful.

But if you're not ready, you don't have to tell anyone - there's always plenty of time in the future, if you don't want to do it now. GooDLucK

manmustwac:

Some babes know from when their small that their lesbians, while others won't realise until they they reach their teens or early 20's. Do you have dreams or have fantasies of you making passionate love to other women?

Ittickes it is obvious by your post that you are a lesbian. I guess the problem for you now is going to be how to break the news to your parents?

I have dreams that i'm in a relationship with women (Not having sex, thank God!!), It's been going on for about 2 yrs. I'll be hopeful things get better, I have no problem telling my parent or the world about how i feel. I want to be rest assured It's who I am, not just a phase. Thanks 4 d advise

You are not gay.

Maybe the guys you have been with are not up to your sexual standards. If you meet a sexy and wonderful guy you might fall for him.

being attracted to women doesnt make you gay. It just mean that you like how women bodies are shape.

I like how Halle Berry and Angelina Jolie body are shape. I wanna look like them but not date them. That doesnt make you gay.

Is it just a phase? This can be the reaction of some people who might not want to accept how they feel. While it's true that some babes might have same-sex feelings for a while, and then stop having them - for other it's not a 'phase' at all, but an important part of their life.

You've been having this phase for over two years now? How much longer do you expect it to last?

manmustwac:

Is it just a phase? This can be the reaction of some people who might not want to accept how they feel. While it's true that some babes might have same-sex feelings for a while, and then stop having them - for other it's not a 'phase' at all, but an important part of their life.

You've been having this phase for over two years now? How much longer do you expect it to last?

Truth hurts

ItTickles:

Truth hurts

I guess you used to think that oneday you will find a nice guy settle down, have kids, retire and die like the rest of us but now your begining to realise the truth that its not going to be like that.

I really dont think you should start trying women!

Do you actually have sexual fantasies about women

I find a lot of women attractive and I think if I was a guy I would date her. But no way in hell do I ever have the urge to sleep with them. I find the vagina gross!

You maybe confused but I really dont think you should force yourself to experiment. some urges are best left untested. Imagine it will be a point of no return.

No way to go back!

LadyT:

I really don't think you should start trying women!
I find the vagina gross!

And to think that U actually have one. Priceless

A lot of women actually don't think the vagina is an attractive thing, I certainly don't, but I guess it's what you do with it that matters.

Uche2nna:

And to think that You actually have one. Priceless

~Practically ROTFLMAO ~

Sorry Uche I dont find the Vagina attractive breasts have more sex appeal in my opinon!

maybe cause you dont clean it with douche every 3 month or when having shower.

SeanT21:

maybe cause you don't clean it with douche every 3 month or when having shower.

What the heck r u talking about, did u read the thread at all. If u got nothing 2 say, move away from the thread. Geez some people just got to say something even if it's nonsense, abeg don't get me started here, for lack of better words get ur a$$ off this thread NOW l!!!

ItTickles:

What the heck r u talking about, did u read the thread at all. If u got nothing 2 say, move away from the thread. Geez some people just got to say something even if it's nonsense, abeg don't get me started here, for lack of better words get your a$$ off this thread NOW l!!!

I want to see you get started ma. Cant wait.

SeanT21:

I want to see you get started ma. Cant wait.

won't stoop that low with u

ItTickles:

won't stoop that low with u

your bad. I never knew that i was that low? Time for me to rise up.

LadyT:

Sorry Uche I don't find the Vagina attractive breasts have more sex appeal in my opinon!

Leave the men to be the judge of that. Unless if U are ,,,,,

Ucheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!
where have you been na?

Who were U in ur past life on NL?

Uche2nna:


Who were You in your past life on Nairaland?

Ouch!! what a burn. . .am not telling you jare
Uchesexy, you might want to calm down na!!

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Tetchiness aka Morenike aka 4Her aka RampantT . Ol' girl u neva run out of ID's

Who ban u this time?

Always put in Florida on ya handle, thats one of the ways I have always used to identify U

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! so that's how they know it's me!!

Where have you been na? The land dried up after you left. Jeez, never knew a lil uche here and there can do a wonder!

Your wife reported me na! One of the moderators, dnt ask!

I said "Uche2nna, can I meet you?", the next minute, am banned! am like what da!! anywaz sha, the lawd is good!

How far?

You better close your eyes before I throw chilli pepper at them

For u to be banned , U must have been running ur mouth again

Who was the victim of ur acerbic tongue this time around