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| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Rejoice5000(f): 5:48pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Communication is the vital thing, and not just to accept her friends, the good ad well behaved ones. 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Kanwulia: 6:10pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
50calibre: This thread is about fathers and daughters! You m0rons!  Given the stats. . . A NIGERIAN MAN IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A PEDO-FILE. . . than a NIGERIAN WOMAN! DUNCE! kokoye: Another DUNCE on rampage! By their 'balls'. . .YOU SHALL KNOW THEM. Move jor! Ewu!!!! baby_123: Hmmm! Stick to the topic first, then we can address your other concerns later. I did not say the a father does not have the right to his daughters or children. . .IT IS NOT HEALTHY FOR A LITTLE GIRL TO BE LEFT ALONE WITH A FATHER. . .when it is time for MENSTRUATION, THE FATHER MIGHT INSERT A PEHNIS INTO HER VJJ AND TELL HER IT IS A TAMPON! 20 years later. . . the poor girl grown up to be a 'deranged woman' is still inserting pehnises into her VJJ thinking they are TAMPONS!  Use your tongue to CLEAN YOUR TEETH JARE. . . MEN DO NOT MENSTRUATE. . . . .JUST COMMON SENSE. . . ! Do you want me to spell out everything for you? Please read these? Are their minds 'dirty' too?  ifyalways: ^ ^ Gbam! Lilimax: Well said!. It has gotten as bad as that with the stories making waves recently |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Kanwulia: 6:19pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Calotti.. Electra complex ko. . .Oedipus complex ni! What beef?  No girl wants to have her first intimate moments with A FATHER.As a female, THERE ARE SOME THINGS I'D RATHER NOT SHARE WITH A FATHER. . .BUT A FEMALE LIKE MYSELF! Every woman knows that. . .UNLESS YOU WERE SHAMEFULLY MOLESTED BY YOUR OWN FATHER OR MOTHER! I don't want A MAN WITHOUT BREAAAZZZTS OR POOOHSIE TO EXPLAIN TO ME WHY I HAVE STARTED HAVING PUBIC HAIR. . .OR WHY ONE BREAZZZST IS BIGGER THAN ONE. . . WHEN I START 'BUDDING' OR 'SPROUTING'!!!! When I have my first H-ORGA-ZM. . .mast-U-bating on my bed in the middle of many nights. . . I don't want to share such feelings with A FATHER! IF I NEED TO ABORT ONE VERRRRRRRRRRRRRY FUGLY NIGERIAN BASSSSSSSSARD FETUS. . . . LIKEY YA. . . . as the most effective birth control. . .I don't wanno discuss such things with a FATHER! I did not have that kind of father. . . thank you! I ALWAYS HAD TRUSTED FEMALES AROUND MY HOME. . .UNLIKE YOU. . .locked in the boys'-quarters of your village barns to be used as 'seXXtual guinea-pigs' BY ONE PSYCHO DAD PLUS YOUR UNCLES! He would have been exposed to the world BY ME. . . you trust me ke! Sorry to disappoint you darling. . . . I grew up in quite decent times. . . UNLIKE YOU DID! I repeat: Stick to the topic FIRST, then we can address your other concerns later. I did not say the a father does not have the right to his daughters or children. . .IT IS NOT HEALTHY FOR A LITTLE GIRL TO BE LEFT ALONE WITH A FATHER. . .when it is time for MENSTRUATION, THE FATHER MIGHT INSERT A PEHNIS INTO HER VJJ AND TELL HER IT IS A TAMPON! 20 years later. . . the poor girl grown up to be a 'deranged woman' is still inserting pehnises into her VJJ thinking they are TAMPONS! [size=20pt]The ages of 6-12 are very crucial in the lives of ALL FEMALES.. . .only a WOMAN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO SUPERVISE FEMALE CHILDREN. . . BOYS DO NOT GROW BREAAAAAAAAAAAAAZTS OR HAVE PERIODS! THEY ONLY GROW PIMPLES! We usually have a lot of questions to ask that need only THE RIGHT ANSWERS!!! Putting a little girl with ANY SINGLE NIGERIAN MAN ALONE at this stage is like DANGLING A CARROT IN THE NOSTRILS OF A HUNGRY WWWWABBIT!!!!  Before you know it. . . the girls turn out to be like MANY WE HAVE ON NL. . .FASTING AND PRAYING IN THE 'HAVE YOU PHOCKED GOD TODAY' SECTION OF NL!!!! ROBBED OF THEIR INNOCENCE. . . AND MISERABLE IN LIFE AND DEATH!!!![/size] 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Kanwulia: 6:37pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Exhibit #1 Those who have eyes. . .LET THEM READ AND LEARN!!! To avoid scenarios like these. . . https://www.nairaland.com/1446684/daughters-lied-father-sex NOTICE ONLY THE GIRLS WERE DAMAGED IN THIS STORY. . .BY THEIR FATHER!!!! WITH THE HELP OF THEIR MOTHER!!!! A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. . . this is not 1960 when we were enjoying the BLISS OF INDEPENDENCE. . . We now have SATANIC RULERS like OBJ AND THE ONABANJOS, phocking both daughters and daughters-in-law FOR RITUALS. . .even with POLYGAMOUS RANCHES! [size=20pt]We also live in a country where CHRISTIAN FATHERS/PASTORS ARE WORSE THAN ANY YERIMA OR IMAM OF THE ISLAMIC WORLD!!![/size] Be warned!!!!! *have a good night all. . .time for work. . .some of us are GAIN-FULLY EMPLOYED*  1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by TrishaP(f): 7:20pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
pastor prosper :Thank you for that |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by 50calibre(m): 8:14pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Again I repeat, you have a sick mind, and not only a sick mind, but a twisted and fo*lish way of thinking. Anybody who agrees with your fo*lish thinking, is either a primitive human or just a sick person like you. Statistically speaking, out of more than 50 million Nigerian fathers, the number of those who abuse their daughters is negligible, as a matter of fact, less than 1%. Besides, these things happen everywhere, not just in Nigeria. There are sick people like you everywhere, they do not represent the vast majority of loving & responsible fathers. Going by your statement, what then happens if the man is a widower, would he throw away his daughter? Single parentage is never ideal because a child needs nurturing from both male and female but in the event a mother isn't around for the daughter, a father can take full responsibility. What you said is like saying don't get in a car, because you might have an accident, Absolute Nonsense! I know it's nonsense, because I have female friends who were raised by their fathers, and I find them mentally stronger and of sounder mind. 5 Likes |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Kanwulia: 8:26pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
^^^ Moooo-Moooo! Widowers are the very worst! Who wants to leave a daughter with a man HIS GOD+SATAN have DIE-vorced by motor aSSSSSident/hired assassins' bullIts?  We all know NIGERIAN NIGGERS love to beat-up and KILL THEIR WIVES ke! You M0RRRRONIC amphibian! Any decent father would employ or besiege the services of HIS mother like mine did! His mother helped to supervise our POOHSIE NEEDS, when my mom was BUSY, JUST LIKE MY DAD WAS! Or an elderly FEMALE relative! Ewu 'SICK-MIND' di ka gi!!!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by pickabeau1: 8:28pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Calotti There are perverted people everywhere in the world...ariel castro is not nigerian I do not accept the generalization that naija males molest thier daughters Cautioning for care where girls are concerned is very good and I support that but to spout ill words of all men is too far Except there is something that happened to you personally you are not saying... 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Tinkybabe(f): 8:30pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Kanwulia: There must be other females in the home o! No little girl should be left with a NIGERIAN man o!Your comment as rule of generalisation is wrong. . What's wrong in fathers taking care of their little girls? Not all Nigerian men are shameless perverts, you know . @ topic, great tips! I think father-daughter bond comes naturally though . Girls are oftentimes closer to their fathers hence the relationship is usually smooth. Well, provided the father is loving. 3 Likes |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Kanwulia: 8:34pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
^^^ Your comments ON NL most-usually LACK BOTH SUBSTANCE AND DEPTH! Generalizations can be valid depending on the contexts being used. I suspect you are a product of AWOLOWO'S 'Free-Education' while phocking under the GUAVA tree? If you EVER took LOGIC 101 in your JAMBITO days, you would have stuck to your 'area' of expertise on and off NL. Lemme 'EDJU-caTeTYU some'. The ONLY fallacious types of generalizations are EMPIRICAL-HASTY GENERALIZATIONS! Go look it up or JJJJOOOOOGLE it! Thank you! I have written my own o! If you guys are not PRICKED by my EVER-SO-ASTUTE observations, analysis and COGNITIVE-SUPERIORITY, I don't see why y'awl should spend THE ETERNAL LIVES GIVEN TO YOU BY HIS AMAZING GRACE/DISGRACE trying to discredit my posts!My opinions, like my azzzze-holeS are PROUDLY MINE!!!! I am entitled to 'em! YOU STICK TO YOURS!!! Thanks! I am done here. Moving on!!! *thread unfollowed* 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by pickabeau1: 8:44pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Tinkybabe: Thank you.... For me If kanwulia's assertions are true, all naija women (mothers who let perverts ravage their daughters n the ravaged daughters) are condemned.... |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by pickabeau1: 8:48pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Kanwulia: No one is pricked.. If lies or untruths are said long enough... it tends to become truth Its your opinion just as it is mine to say you are exaggerating the situation |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by callmebettyetta: 9:06pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
I thank u but d importance thing we should not spear d rod n spoil d child 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by coogar: 9:08pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Calotti the truth about abuse is more ambiguous -while it's true that men abuse young children sëxually at a greater rate than women, women sëxally abuse older boys (12-17 years old) 11 times greater than men in cases of unforced rapë. |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by pickabeau1: 9:16pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
coogar: Another dimension...really a twisted world |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Jman06(m): 10:30pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Madam can't u see u are alone?!Nobody is even liking or supporting your posts.I can see you woke up from the wrong side of your bed today.Why not log out and try again tomorrow?! Kanwulia: ^^^ |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 24, 2013 |
Na wa I looooove you Daddy, baba mi , forever and ever 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by abbeyty(m): 3:01am On Sep 24, 2013 |
Kanwulia: There must be other females in the home o! No little girl should be left with a NIGERIAN man o! are you talking from experience ? Mind you not all dads are like yours 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by natureem: 6:31am On Sep 24, 2013 |
Noted 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Policewoman(f): 7:13am On Sep 24, 2013 |
Kanwulia:You sound like a sick woman suffering from homophobia. Get some help. I spent most of my adolescent dayz with my dad and nothing happened. Stop poisoning our minds like poison ivy. 2 Likes |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by Smartiegurl(f): 11:10am On Sep 24, 2013 |
Most people tend to have shallow minds here! Whats the problem of fathers spending much time with their daughters? If you as a father can't bond well with your own daughter without having some evil intents, i seriously think you need help. Godamn it!! Dads should please do this for their daughters nd believe be you won't regret it, you will end up becoming the best dad in the world. @op, nice one. 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by ebiskem(m): 6:20pm On Sep 24, 2013 |
Thanks alot. This was very informative 1 Like |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by 9jamum(f): 1:31pm On Oct 05, 2013 |
Thank you, i appreciate |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by itstpia8: 2:51am On Nov 16, 2015 |
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| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by itstpia8: 2:52am On Nov 16, 2015 |
| Re: Developing A Good Single Father – Daughter Relationship by itstpia8: 3:44am On Nov 16, 2015 |
how can seun osewa and his cohorts be comfortable with views such as the sick ones on this thread?  it boggles the mind. |
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