-Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's
laps no matter the
situation including uncles.
-Avoid getting dressed in front of your child
once he/she is
2years old. Lean to excuse yourself.
-If you have to hire a house-help
please kindly take them for HIV screening to
determine their HIV
status, properly interview them and make up
your mind to treat
them well.
-Never allow any adult refer to your new born
as 'my wife' or 'my
husband'.
-Never tempt your husband with your younger
sister. (Else he'd
say its her's and the devil's fault)
-Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure
you take care of
your husband by yourself lest you lead him into
temptation.
-Whenever your child goes out to play with
friends make sure
you look for a way to find out what kind of play
they played
together because young people now sexually
abuse themselves.
-Never force your child to visit any adult he or
she is not
comfortable with and alsobe observant if your
child becomes too
fond of a particular adult.
-Once a very lively child suddenly
becomes withdrawn you might need to patiently
ask a lot of
questions from your child.
-If you don't teach your children
about sex, the society will teach them the wrong
values.
-It is always advisable you go through any new
material like
cartoons you just bought for them before they
start seeing it
themselves.
-Teach your 3year olds how to wash their
private parts properly
and warn them never to allow anyone touch
those areas and that
includes you. (remember, charity begins at home
and with you)
-Blacklist some materials you think could
threaten the sanity of
your child (that includes music, movies and
musicians) and let
them understand the value of
standing out of the crowd.
-Once your child complains about a particular
person, don't keep
quiet about it. Take up the case and show them
you can defend
them