Hello my dear I so much loved you, because you beautiful, bright, brave, God fearing, a levit, Igede/igbo in nature and last but not the you meet up with my priority for a life partner according findings in the Bible. Even though we have not met facially but am convinced that the future holds a lot for you and I. Am putting this forth to you because of some characters you exhibit not that the are bad but they are not equal befitting for a special girl like you, please don't take it personal or have any feelings am intruding into your personal life. We are all humans no body is perfect but we can try if we make a change, there are things I so much loved in you, you don't lie, pretend, or compromise with what you did/didn't say, that shows maturity. For the past 1 year plus we are into a relationship to me I believe God plans the coming together, and since we could break up and make up again it's something special for us not to underate. There is a saying that all men are beast and all ladies are crazy in a relationship, I want to belong a better side of you, I know you are not the only one passing through such trauma, many especially ladies of your age range, every woman need a man and every man likewise. But some time is only few that have it right, come to discover we like each other but there something you keep doing that hurt the relationship, some times you feels happy in it some other time you are annoying towards it, you have no passion for man, don't want to be under the control of a man, you nagged away men that comes close, you fall in love and some other time you want to be left alone. Not stable in a relationship / not being serious minded about people close, but a lady at your age need a man to be in a Costudy of so that you grow up to live forever with. I quote, you said " D fact z dt my heart z nt yielding to any man nw, i want to be left alone for nw, Bt ilm finding it difficult to take sm1 into my life " Out of experience as a man I have tried putting so many girls through with this characters not necessarily my own girls but friends who listen to my advice. Who knows whether we are going to marry or you tomorrow will be of great help to me or my family, when needed, so for I want to play my part by seeing how we can advise each other, because if you continue with all these characters not everyman will accept it except a man that loves and understand who you are, that's why I want to ask you some special questions relating to your past life and relationship to understand. if you are able to be opened up we can make a difference, be sure you are convenient and convinced before answering, and be sincerest.


1. Did you experience any sexual molestation from a man?
2. Did some one you love breakup with you?
3. Did you feel all men are the same as a result of an experienced?
4. Did you ever feel like living your own family just to find peace?
5. Have you ever cohabit with a man before?
6. Did you feel that being in a serious relationship
will interfere with your goals want to accomplish?
7. Did you have pleasure in watching porngraphy?
8. At what age did have your first date?
9. What is your greatest contribution to a man you love?
10. Will you go fighting with another girl (physical) to get regain your man back?

Please no matter how long it takes you no problem just make sure you get the best of your answer. You could see how I take my time to write this please its important for you and I in this relationship, I love so much even though I have not seen you.
what is your say?

You for do am as MCQ, them send her HB pencil.

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Richfella: You for do am as MCQ, them send her HB pencil.

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This was a comprehensive make up of my research and it's left for me to decide on whether we will continue with the relationship. Here's my findings:
1. I experienced it, and i blame myself for being foolish then.
2. Yes.
3.men are not the same
4. Yes, thats why i'm in ABA, i want to be far from my family to put my life together
5. No
6. Yes.
7. No.
8. At the age of 13 years.
9. Advice and encouragement. 10. Never, i believe that if my man loves me, nothing will take him off the track

Online relationships are never at the best because either party most have passed through some forms of trauma and they think making friend with those that don't know them very much will relief of their previous experiences.

my advise to her

Thanks a lot for honoring my words in the light of answering all the questions, it is brave sense maturity which can't be found in most girls except, those that can be bold face their challengies. Now that I understand you I can bear everything with you, working for the best of you, My way of life / principle is based on the Holy Bible, don't be nerve confining in me I plage my allegiance always.

This are my advice to questions you answered

Q1. Issues with men sexual abuse on women has been there for decades, both sex have their own story with about 90% ladies 10% men, in fact in this life any one without this experience a baby. It's the start of maturity depending on the age, the effect may remain until you marry so never you looking back its a past. Even the chosen Israel has it record way back in Gen 34: 2, And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her and lay with her, and violated her. Yes everyone else is a victim, don't mind be yourself it will be over when you marry the memories will be gone. Never let it deny you the chance to live better.

Q2. Many relationship nowadays break up, is as lack of wisdom, knowledge (understanding), also Self centre (selfishness) but if you have the knowledge, understanding you can live well, age (experience) give better knowledge to what am talking about. Proveb 24 : 3-4 Through wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established; 4 By knowledge the rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches. The wisest human being on earth said this, he never mentioned love, sex, etc. The house mentioned is liked to relationship and rooms is liked to anything as outcomes of it, e.g marry, love, sex etc. You need relationship independent and it's only knowledge that gives, go to school get the knowledge and people will need you every where you go. Better days will come when you have the understanding, a broken engagement is far better than broken married. Some time you come across wave of failure to stand a better chance of getting the best.

Q3. You are right, men are not the same because every shoe get size even though they may have the same colour make up, if you are buying shoe you go for the size that best fit you, not the colour alone, any man that is not your type/match of choice will can never fit you in life. Have a choice don't assume it may work it has gone beyond that.

Q4. Being independent never bring peace of mind, every body needs freedom but it depends on how you understand it. Please remember one thing for sure your young ones will go after your foot step, Gen 49:3 “Reuben, you are my firstborn, My might and the beginning of my strength, The excellency of dignity and the excellency of power. Put yourself in Ruben's shoe, go home to correct matter arise with the young ones because you stand the better chance. If you left home in good terms with your family no problem but for sake of peace it's better at home, always go Home tell your worries to who hear you best. Show them you care.

Q5. Don't ever try it.

Q6. Just like every man needs a woman so woman need a man, it better make up with friends, Proveb 18:24 A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. There is a saying that all men are beast and all ladies are crazy in a relationship, things to day are done through who know who, through connection, never under estimated any affair, there are some you will regret losing when it's late be it male or female. Being focus is not bad but relationship is important because no body knows tomorrow, it is better together with some one you know for long, for marriage, but if it never happened who know where you will meet again.

Q7. Anything you like is your weakness, anything you do constantly become part of you, porn fuel sexual drive, it not advisable for unmarried person because when the urge perceived it leads to unwanted sex, mustarbetion etc. So let natural take preeminent about anything urge.

Q8. That age was much tender, but it must be out of childishness. Now you have the experience you can advise others, just never it befall anyone at your reach. Always stand against it. Proveb 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

Q9. There is a saying that, there's love in sharing. Hand out rememberable gifts if you have once in a while, advise and encouragement are not bad, but this that when ever your love ones see they will remember your kind gesture. Even though there's a break up, your gifts continue speaking for you must especially relationship that sex is not practice. Buy minor things that can last for years, e.g pix frame, any art works design, if you can't use his /her money to buy but be the first to review the ideas. Distance relationship it principles are different beware.

Q10. Do any thing possible to get regain your man back but never get into physical combat, we have different ways to get a rate. Luck 18:3 Now there was a widow in that city; and she came to him, saying, ‘Get justice for me from my adversary.’ 4 And he would not for a while; but afterward he said within himself, ‘Though I do not fear God nor regard man, 5 yet because this widow troubles me I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me.’ ” E.g prayer, caring, get his attention but don't ever fight.

Conclusion

Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge... My sole aim is to rehabilitate you read this, try to be yourself and never judge yourself first.

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Richfella: You for do am as MCQ, them send her HB pencil.

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