http://9jaflave..com/2013/09/15-ways-to-tell-hes-husband-material.html

Indeed every lady's dream is to some day have a man for keeps, who will love and cherish her; who will be her protector and provider. Of course, that's natural instinct, it's normal and legit.

But how do we separate the wheat from the chaff, the wolf from the sheep? But remember there is no 'MR. PERFECT'!

The wish-list below will be of immense help. Please read on:


1. He's Supportive No Matter What. Whether you're struggling with your career or health or any other personal challenge, we all want a man who is going to be encouraging, stick by our sides, and want to support us financially, emotionally, etc. even when he would have no need to.

2. He's Loyal. Obviously someone who would never cheat or sell you out.

3. He's Not a Mama's Boy. No one wants to spend a lifetime with a man who will repeatedly put his mom before you.

4. He's Not Disrespectful of His Parents. Warning: "If a man is disrespectful of his mother/father, he will disrespect you. If he does not get along with his mother/father, he is a bad risk."

5. He's Family-Oriented. Even if you don't necessarily want to have kids, you probably want to marry a guy you can build a home and a life with. And who prioritizes togetherness with loved ones. Every time I see how important it is to be close with his family, I'm reminded what a wonderful husband my fiance will be.

6. He's Patient. File a guy with a hair-trigger temper under "do not want."

7. He's Considerate of Others: he could drop what he's doing to help little old ladies or children or anyone in need cross the street.

8. He's Fun To Be Around. Life's short, but also too long to be bored by your partner.

9. He's Sexy. It never hurts to find your man irresistibly attractive.

10. He's Flexible. Some people are just naturally more stubborn, but a marriage is a 2-way street, so he's gotta be willing to compromise.

11. He's Compassionate. Being able to sympathize and empathize with others proves he's got a huge heart.

12. He's Intellectually Curious. Gotta love a man who never wants to stop learning. Keeps the conversation flowing and life exciting!

13. He's Motivated and Strong. Conviction, drive, passion, etc. isn't just hot but it'll help him push through life's adversities.

14. He Helps You Tackle Your To-Do List Without Being Asked. He'll take your little fluffy lap dog out for a walk or go get your car's oil changed, just to make your life less stressful.

15. He's God-Fearing. Last but definitely not the least you want in a 'husband material'. Its good when a man recognizes a power and authority greater than himself. Then he can love you and your children! Kindly drop your comments on 9jaflave too

http://9jaflave..com/2013/09/15-ways-to-tell-hes-husband-material.html

Nice one op, I have almost all these qualities, so it means I'm a husband material

Only God can guide you to the right person no long list anywhere.

Men?
Lmao

Good one,OP. A kind of mirror u've posted. Thank God for His Spirit (Holy Spirit) who has given me more than those aforementioned qualities.

Is there really a guy out there that fit all those listed criteria?

Great article

Omo_Alata: Is there really a guy out there that fit all those listed criteria?

Omo_Alata: Is there really a guy out there that fit all those listed criteria?

Omo_Alata: Is there really a guy out there that fit all those listed criteria?

@Omo_Alata...Yes, there are buh very few in disguise.

christaddicted: [color=#006600][/color]
@Omo_Alata...Yes, there are buh very few in disguise.

where are they?

smh

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Omo_Alata:

where are they?

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Omo_Alata:

where are they?

Omo_Alata:

where are they?

Reach me via pius4houston@gmail.com about what u re asking. Can't discuss it here.

christaddicted: [/color][color=#006600]

Reach me via pius4houston@gmail.com about what u re asking. Can't discuss it here.

lol, I will pass

I will pass
In ur hands....

9c 1

3. He's Not a Mama's Boy. No one wants to spend a lifetime with a man who will repeatedly put his mom before u you.
http://9jaflave..com/2013/09/15-ways-to-tell-hes-husband-material.html

so u expect me to put another woman above my mother? Lol. U never serious. she most first marry my mother before she marries me

So u wont marry if these features are not there? See u at the Reedeem camp when you are 50

[quote
author=macof] so u expect me to put another woman above my mother?
Lol. U never serious. she most first marry my mother before she marries
me[/quote]



...then u can never be a man. there is a way a matured man seperates d two not putting one over d oda. Grow up dude!

Oppypoppy:



...then u can never be a man. there is a way a matured man seperates d two not putting one over d oda. Grow up dude!

see this immature fellow. U for sell ur mother buy wife na

.

he has MONEY!

wandevincent: Nice one op, I have almost all these qualities, so it means I'm a husband material

How many yards?

wandevincent: Nice one op, I have almost all these qualities, so it means I'm a husband material

for ur rubber mind abi?

Theories and marriage are two different things. Yes! Marriage based on theories will fail faster than the one conceived out of love. Some have refused to marry because they know too much about marriage. Some have remained married because they know nothing about marriage.

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Hmn...that's why a good and lasting marriage starts with friendship, "cos you can only discover these attributes as the ship sails.

......buh you ladies gat to be vigilant not to board a Nigeria ship with British Flag #myAdvise.com

Enegod: smh

hit and run material

macof: so u expect me to put another woman above my mother? Lol. U never serious. she most first marry my mother before she marries me

Oppypoppy:



...then u can never be a man. there is a way a matured man seperates d two not putting one over d oda. Grow up dude!

Gbam!!!

Yield: Gbam!!!

see this one looking for man that would put her equal or even above his mother. U Better be serious with urself, and live right. Only a man who's mother isn't as sweet as mine would put any other woman equal to her. So u should look forward to raising ur children with love and care for them like nothing else matters, stop dwelling on this husband material thing. Love, trust and understanding are the important things not the things on this list. It just shows how greedy young ladies can be

Tomorrow is independence Day.

macof: see this one looking for man that would put her equal or even above his mother. U Better be serious with urself, and live right. Only a man who's mother isn't as sweet as mine would put any other woman equal to her. So u should look forward to raising ur children with love and care for them like nothing else matters, stop dwelling on this husband material thing. Love, trust and understanding are the important things not the things on this list. It just shows how greedy young ladies can be

Oppypoppy:



...then u can never be a man. there is a way a matured man seperates d two not putting one over d oda. Grow up dude!

I've nothing else to say. Oppypoppy has said it all.

I try small