kulyie: lmao abeggiii forget all this sentiments jare.the guy should track her down,get her arrested for FRAUD and retreieve his money,expose her actions to her colleagues and boss at office so that they will know they are working with a dubious character that can flee with their money at anytime,make her family apologize to your parents.infact he should bring her down to zero.i mean what kind of irrational wickedness is that.



I hear guys say its ladies past action that makes them mean to ladies,if this guy eventually gets another girl,wont he treat her with suspicion and be reluctant to give her things when she asks because of one slimy,calculating thief.hiaaaannnn!




The immediate gratification some ladies want will not make them think properly about the implication of their actions on their tomorrow.smh

ferhyntorlah: Anything built on lies and deceit will never stand!

She knew the guy still had soft spot for her, so she took advantage of that to exploit him.

Tell your colleague to forget the money; her act will speak against her in due time. It will hurt, yeah it will but he will the better for it.

I so pity the babe because the guy she married will be her karma!

Amhappy: Wonders they say shall never end.
A colleague of mine told me his story yesterday.
He dated this girl for 7yrs,starting from senior sec school. During his service year they had a serious quarrel and broke up. Both families were involved.Cause of quarrel, the lady's fam accused him of being the reason while their daughter was not serious in sch,he is already through with school and serving,She dropped out (was doing her HND). This guy walked away.

2yrs later girl reappeared and pleaded for them to start over again. He gave in since he still loves her and also got an affirmative from his mum. His mum loves this babe and wanted her as a Daughter in law

September last year(like 2months later) the girl visited him,said she got admission in a nursing sch and need like N200,000 for school fees,accommodation etc. My colleague just came back from offshore and is loaded,he spits it.

A month later he got a call that the lady's bride price has been paid. He calls her and she denies then suddenly out of reach. He call tire. He later got a lot of calls from his cousins at villa to confirm her traditional and wedding.

Months later the girl called and said she's sorry but needed the cash for her traditional marriage.

The guy wanted to ask for repay but didn't so as not to go against his mum's advice.

Personally i think he should collect his money back. What's ur take?

Amhappy: Wonders they say shall never end.
A colleague of mine told me his story yesterday.
He dated this girl for 7yrs,starting from senior sec school. During his service year they had a serious quarrel and broke up. Both families were involved.Cause of quarrel, the lady's fam accused him of being the reason while their daughter was not serious in sch,he is already through with school and serving,She dropped out (was doing her HND). This guy walked away.

2yrs later girl reappeared and pleaded for them to start over again. He gave in since he still loves her and also got an affirmative from his mum. His mum loves this babe and wanted her as a Daughter in law

September last year(like 2months later) the girl visited him,said she got admission in a nursing sch and need like N200,000 for school fees,accommodation etc. My colleague just came back from offshore and is loaded,he spits it.

A month later he got a call that the lady's bride price has been paid. He calls her and she denies then suddenly out of reach. He call tire. He later got a lot of calls from his cousins at villa to confirm her traditional and wedding.

Months later the girl called and said she's sorry but needed the cash for her traditional marriage.

The guy wanted to ask for repay but didn't so as not to go against his mum's advice.

Personally i think he should collect his money back. What's ur take?

ferhyntorlah: Anything built on lies and deceit will never stand!

She knew the guy still had soft spot for her, so she took advantage of that to exploit him.

Tell your colleague to forget the money; her act will speak against her in due time. It will hurt, yeah it will but he will the better for it.

I so pity the babe because the guy she married will be her karma!

Amhappy: Wonders they say shall never end.
A colleague of mine told me his story yesterday.
He dated this girl for 7yrs,starting from senior sec school. During his service year they had a serious quarrel and broke up. Both families were involved.Cause of quarrel, the lady's fam accused him of being the reason while their daughter was not serious in sch,he is already through with school and serving,She dropped out (was doing her HND). This guy walked away.

2yrs later girl reappeared and pleaded for them to start over again. He gave in since he still loves her and also got an affirmative from his mum. His mum loves this babe and wanted her as a Daughter in law

September last year(like 2months later) the girl visited him,said she got admission in a nursing sch and need like N200,000 for school fees,accommodation etc. My colleague just came back from offshore and is loaded,he spits it.

A month later he got a call that the lady's bride price has been paid. He calls her and she denies then suddenly out of reach. He call tire. He later got a lot of calls from his cousins at villa to confirm her traditional and wedding.

Months later the girl called and said she's sorry but needed the cash for her traditional marriage.

The guy wanted to ask for repay but didn't so as not to go against his mum's advice.

Personally i think he should collect his money back. What's ur take?

steveec122: I am so much disappointed how most people on NL reason, because marriage is involved. Do you get annoyed that the money you gave was used for another thing that worries her.
Did both of you reconciled to get married. If yes. So you had such amount and never made the move to marry her. Or do you want to make her a Nurse First...Wrong.
Leave her, She has used the money you gave her to solve her pressing Problem.
You have giving the Money, it is now hers.

Or are you saying she used it to pay the bride price on behalf of the guy? Because the mum advice in the passage is to marry the girl.

steveec122: I am so much disappointed how most people on NL reason, because marriage is involved. Do you get annoyed that the money you gave was used for another thing that worries her.
Did both of you reconciled to get married. If yes. So you had such amount and never made the move to marry her. Or do you want to make her a Nurse First...Wrong.
Leave her, She has used the money you gave her to solve her pressing Problem.
You have giving the Money, it is now hers.

Or are you saying she used it to pay the bride price on behalf of the guy? Because the mum advice in the passage is to marry the girl.

Amhappy: Wonders they say shall never end.
A colleague of mine told me his story yesterday.
He dated this girl for 7yrs,starting from senior sec school. During his service year they had a serious quarrel and broke up. Both families were involved.Cause of quarrel, the lady's fam accused him of being the reason while their daughter was not serious in sch,he is already through with school and serving,She dropped out (was doing her HND). This guy walked away.

2yrs later girl reappeared and pleaded for them to start over again. He gave in since he still loves her and also got an affirmative from his mum. His mum loves this babe and wanted her as a Daughter in law

September last year(like 2months later) the girl visited him,said she got admission in a nursing sch and need like N200,000 for school fees,accommodation etc. My colleague just came back from offshore and is loaded,he spits it.

A month later he got a call that the lady's bride price has been paid. He calls her and she denies then suddenly out of reach. He call tire. He later got a lot of calls from his cousins at villa to confirm her traditional and wedding.

Months later the girl called and said she's sorry but needed the cash for her traditional marriage.

The guy wanted to ask for repay but didn't so as not to go against his mum's advice.

Personally i think he should collect his money back. What's ur take?

Fabulous36: LOL, i had an experience like that. A guy i knew in school took me out and wanted a relationship and after few days he called me that he has a financial challenge and i should send him some money. I sent it thinking i was dealing with a reasonable person and i never heard from him again. I was transferred out of my location for a job. Some men are mean and when i see and hear things like this i hail the babe.

I am not saying what the girl did is bad, but we dont know what has transpired between them over time. For a girl to go this length there is something we do not know. So i will not judge her.

Relationship that is meant for companionship and love is now becoming a business organisation of who is the smartest. God help us

moonraker:


M-U-M-U MUMU


Listen up nigga, the point here is that the girl took advantage of the guy while they were still dating. HABAAAAA. how hard is it for you

to understand what went down here.

Amhappy: Wonders they say shall never end.
A colleague of mine told me his story yesterday.
He dated this girl for 7yrs,starting from senior sec school. During his service year they had a serious quarrel and broke up. Both families were involved.Cause of quarrel, the lady's fam accused him of being the reason while their daughter was not serious in sch,he is already through with school and serving,She dropped out (was doing her HND). This guy walked away.

2yrs later girl reappeared and pleaded for them to start over again. He gave in since he still loves her and also got an affirmative from his mum. His mum loves this babe and wanted her as a Daughter in law

September last year(like 2months later) the girl visited him,said she got admission in a nursing sch and need like N200,000 for school fees,accommodation etc. My colleague just came back from offshore and is loaded,he spits it.

A month later he got a call that the lady's bride price has been paid. He calls her and she denies then suddenly out of reach. He call tire. He later got a lot of calls from his cousins at villa to confirm her traditional and wedding.

Months later the girl called and said she's sorry but needed the cash for her traditional marriage.

The guy wanted to ask for repay but didn't so as not to go against his mum's advice.

Personally i think he should collect his money back. What's ur take?

steveec122: Any money you give to a girl that is not your wife, for her own sake, is hers. If giving such amount will pain you if the relationship doent work, so why giving. A wise man will instead marry his girl before spending such amount that will pain you.
Am married Lol. And will never worry about those I have given money, but never married. Grow up (single) guys!!
Na your type go pour acid on such girl.
Go collect your money from all the girls you never married. The issue is that the guy do not have any plan for the girl he is spending on, he would have commenced the marriage.
For your training, Do not give out such amount that will pain you to a girl. You are not married until you are married.
If not you will have heart attack.
Give the amount you can bear. Until you marry her.

I have witnessed a 38 yrs old lady that was dumped after the guy have spent on opening a business for her. I believe that guy is one of those that keep telling me "you see,she love me so much she even begged to come back,well I will not propose to her so that it will not get to her head, am still watching her" when you tell them to make their mission clear to a girl and commence marriage.

moonraker:


You still dont get it, do you??

Ok let me break it down to you.

Lets forget about the cash for a second.

Werent they in a relationship? wasn't she the one that came back begging to the guy that she wanted him back??

how is it that she couldn't do same by ending the relationship. At least, if she grabbed the cash and then broke it off, then

it would be a different story. According to the OP`s report, it was the girl`s family that contacted the guy to inform him

of the girl marriage. How wicked can one be?? no self pride, nothing.

And then you come here and talk bla bla bla. Your married, arent you?? think like a married man, nigga.

wasak: enough of this stories!!!! dat ur friend is a first class mugu.