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Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 10:40am On Oct 12, 2013
Is it possible? undecided
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Dyt(f): 10:45am On Oct 12, 2013
Wen the brk up is on mutual agreement
I am still friends with few EX
And we talk deep
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by InesQor(m): 10:45am On Oct 12, 2013
BFF? Haba if they don't want to get back together, they should each get on with their lives.

Being your ex's BFF can make it hard for each of you to define future relationships.

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Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by fabulouzzi(f): 11:09am On Oct 12, 2013
It depends.
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Bantino: 6:03pm On Oct 12, 2013
Never, it's called "ex" for a very good reason.
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Vivly(f): 6:10pm On Oct 12, 2013
Life in a circle
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by dhardline(m): 7:12am On Oct 13, 2013
Its very much allowed,its called maturity.why carry so much anger in your heart over one person when you can transfer that energy into something more useful.

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Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 8:09am On Oct 13, 2013
Not in this world!
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by illicit(m): 8:39am On Nov 16, 2013
seriously, whats a bff?
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Danhumprey: 8:56am On Nov 16, 2013
It depend on the circumstance that led to the break up.
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Danhumprey: 8:57am On Nov 16, 2013
illicit: seriously, whats a bff?
It mean "Best Friend Forever" smiley

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Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by illicit(m): 9:52am On Nov 16, 2013
Danhumprey: It mean "Best Friend Forever" smiley
oh that! I think am becoming flimstonic and archaic this days, thanks anyways, well i wudnt want to have my ex whom i av particularly had a intimate relationship with as friends forever, i may be friends with her siblings or any of her relatives even her friends for ever but not with her personally, cos i have this habit of expanding my relationships if am dating a gal, her friends automatically becomes my friends too and any of her family that i know, and i still relate with them even when me and the gal are no more. I will unfriend her already cos it wud bring back old memories if we shd ever get so close together like being together alone at some awkward time and locations, plus ur current spouse wont like it, just like my galfriend shud tell me shes still friends with her ex and best friends for ever at that, tufia, if u have a partner and u r really in love u both shud be bffs forever, nobody else.
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Dannylux: 10:35am On Nov 16, 2013
Out of the supposed 7 billion humans? undecided
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by mazizitonene(m): 11:32am On Nov 16, 2013
Not proper, besides dia wud still be dat tendency of occasional feelyns to "taste" each oda cos u guys av bn doing so b4....now imagine u were married, u don buy case 4 yasef naw...even if u no wan do, he or she wud know ur weak point and how to get u in d mood....b4 u knw u cum bgn regret....not advisable IMOtongue
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by pleasantchi: 12:09pm On Nov 16, 2013
I get along well with all my ex. Maturity is not about age buh about how u handle isses of life. In fact I attended one of my ex wedding not only attending I supported him financially. U c life is a vicious circle n a global villiage u never know where u can meet tomorrow. May b one of his or her relatives can marry u.
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by illicit(m): 12:43pm On Nov 16, 2013
pleasantchi: I get along well with all my ex. Maturity is not about age buh about how u handle isses of life. In fact I attended one of my ex wedding not only attending I supported him financially. U c life is a vicious circle n a global villiage u never know where u can meet tomorrow. May b one of his or her relatives can marry u.
the issue is more like, ok, not been friends with all ur ex collectively, maybe just one in particular, make him ur best buddy, hang out and spend time togetger like bestfriends do, wether ur both still single or married, what do u think ur partners will make pf all this, lets be realistic, its easier said thatn done, i dont think ur partner will ever approve of this and ur chi too only if u r determined to remain single for life.
Another issue is that been a bff differs from been a friend, what u said u did for ur ex is what normal friends do, no right thinking person shd frown at that, no one says u shd be dagger drawn enemies with ur ex but limit the friendship, in short hers a maxim, be frindly with people, ur exs included but be reminded to set limits
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Dubemkelly(m): 2:21pm On Nov 16, 2013
Its no biggie, u guys r ex means dat u aint compatible 2 hold r/ship wch cud lead 2 marriage,prolly diversity in goals n dt doesn't mean u can't hv him or her as a platonic frnd,so if d brkup is well cooked n dished out,d frndship still remains
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by 190: 3:08pm On Nov 16, 2013
rubbish!! angry angry
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 16, 2013
My ex is my bff. We are three in the clique and I am the only girl. So its possible
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Nov 16, 2013
190: rubbish!! angry angry
undecidedundecided
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by 190: 9:01pm On Nov 16, 2013
Baybe: undecidedundecided


mschewwwwwwwww!! undecided
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 16, 2013
190:


mschewwwwwwwww!! undecided
SMH undecided
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by 190: 9:43pm On Nov 16, 2013
Baybe: SMH undecided
angry angry
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Nov 16, 2013
190: angry angry
You should be banned! angryangry
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by 190: 9:51pm On Nov 16, 2013
Baybe: You should be banned! angryangry

you can only do that by offering your b-o-o-b-s angry
Re: Can Your Ex Be Your Bff? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Nov 16, 2013
A lady can still take her ex as a good friend depending on what led to their break up!!

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