99cent: If as a woman you have ambition to become a very successful person, in some african countries, u will be called lesbian for having ambition. The belief is that only men are supposed to be poweful therefore any woman with aims to become successful must be a lesbian.
In the past, female PhD holders in Nigeria were called lesbians because they are trying to compete with men. Today, that is a ridiculous idea.

In the future, this whole anti-gay movement will also be a ridiculous idea

99cent:

how are you sure that Seun (the creator of this website) is heterosexual?
will you quit nairaland if you find out the owner was gay?
rubbish.

Rilamaka:

Enwero m oge gi. Oge gi aga la (Your time don pass). Go and look for a Nigerian homosexual website, maybe you will find some one to eat your poo poo tonight.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjnrLt3VuSM

99cent:


Well, it is accepted in Nigeria (if you are able to think outside the box). So long as gays exist in Nigeria (which they do), they will have accepting communities and have lives in ways any other human being would.
Are osu people accepted in Igbo land? NO. Do they live their lives? yes.

How do you know that you don't talk to homosexuals? You can't recognize a homosexual just by looking at him/her can you? hahahaha

well,I live in d USA and i'm heterosexual but I have gay friends and even gay co-workers. One of my math professors as a university student was a gay man.He is married to another gay man and they have an adopted child. They are just normal human beings. Some of the men are very effeminate. God created them like that. Will God make a mistake in creating man? NO.

In fact, in African culture before colonization, you have concepts like Yan Daudu in Hausa culture that was completely acepted. Today, they are called homosexuals or gay and are persecuted by society. You can see the same concepts in yoruba and igbo cultures if you do your research. They exist in all societies.

Societies that are most anti-gay tend to also be ones that are most repressive toward women. If you ever see a culture or society where women have rights (women like Fumni Iyanda, Chimamanda Adichie etc), you will see more acceptance of homosexuality.

Rilamaka:

Dream on.......... after all it is free to dream

GSKing:
ignoramus, u think like an average hetero... Sex sex sex... Find me a technology or programming website, and may be i'll consider asking u out...

99cent:

ok. It is starting to seem that you are on this thread just for attention. None of your posts so far are very coherent or sensible.
Do you know that in all societies, the most vulnerable (powerless) population statistically are children, women and elderly. Then in each society, you will have other vulnerable groups or "marginalized" groups based on religion, ethnicity (osu etc), sexuality (gays etc)etc
It is human nature to be wicked especially toward those who are less powerful than you. So I don't blame you. If Nigeria went after the powerful corrupt politicians with the same amount of venom that they go after weak members of society, Nigeria will be a developed country by now. Think about it.

Rilamaka:
By the way what's the term for homosexuality in your local language? we can start from there, if you don't know it, then you have nothing to argue about.
Homosexuality does not exist in Igboland, if you are making atrocious, sacrilegious and fallacious statements you should at least have facts to back that up. I am full bloodied Igbo woman, and I am telling you that Homosexuality is a western concept, take it or leave it.

Rilamaka:

Chai, misguided fellow, have you been following the news lately? Come on we all know that all of this is media hype. Let me drum it into your head, homosexuality is abnormal and the world let alone Nigeria will never get used to it. Deal with it.

Rilamaka:

Humour yourself i.d.i.o.t I do have any business with faeces, may be you should just concentrate on your a.s.s licking and poo sucking. You are just useless. gosh.

GSKing:
lmao! @beautiful set of teeth, its girls like u that actually have disturbingly scattered dentition in real life If U think naija will remain stagnant, in ur dreams, she must conform to current best practices of 21st century. If not, it will die primitive. Im glad we have moved past the awkward name calling stage. Now, can we at least have a healthy discussion?

GSKing:
Am I? Dont jump in2 conclusions cos u dont know me-ur words! Who told u i lick azz and suck poo? Lol, i do other interesting things too u knw? Do u want an experience? Just asking o... I dnt want peeps to think i can "see" some1 as fugly as u are

Rilamaka:
all I am saying is that, this is a homophobic country, I am homophobic and we say NO to homosexuality. Corruption or no corruption, wickedness or no wickedness. #dazall

Rilamaka:

Homosexuality does not exist in Igboland, if you are making atrocious, sacrilegious and fallacious statements you should at least have facts to back that up. I am full bloodied Igbo woman, and I am telling you that Homosexuality is a western concept, take it or leave it.

Rilamaka:

Homosexuality does not exist in Igboland, if you are making atrocious, sacrilegious and fallacious statements you should at least have facts to back that up. I am full bloodied Igbo woman, and I am telling you that Homosexuality is a western concept, take it or leave it.

GSKing:
Homosexuality is a western concept, so is civilization, education, technology and modernization, the whole of westernization and every ur crappy christianity! All are western concepts yet u accepted all n leave one out. I'll tell u what nigerian/african concepts are, they include: primitivity, slavery, dictatorship, feudalism, kleptocracy, corruption, mediocrity, uncivilization, cave man/early man unculturedness, brutality, et al. Yet u all reject these way of life. Lol, ignorance is ur friend @igbo gyal, accept homosexuality by force or by fire

Rilamaka:

And the end of the day its self esteem and self worth that reallly matters, so you are making zero sense by actually calling me ugly. I think you are running out of things to say, like I said call me when animals start indulging in homosexual acts and when micro organisms start reproducing homosexually. Until then you have no case to argue.

Rilamaka:

And the end of the day its self esteem and self worth that reallly matters, so you are making zero sense by actually calling me ugly. I think you are running out of things to say, .

like I said call me when animals start indulging in homosexual acts and when micro organisms start reproducing homosexually. Until then you have no case to argue

lynk106:

you don't seem to have any self esteem or self worth to begin with. Your whole entire argument on this thread is based on "we" statements rather than "I" statements. "we in Nigeria" this "we in igboland" that. I'm not asking what other Nigerians believe. I'm asking what YOU believe. If you have any self esteem at all, you will be able to stand for yourself and give logical arguments for why you hold your beliefs.



you are so DUMB that I had to shake my head by just reading this statement. Are you seriously this ignorant?
1.Homosexual behavior DOES exist in animals.
2. Do microorganisms have gender? what a dummy. in your mind microorganisms are divided into male and female. what a fool. You might as well ask us if the orange tree in your back yard is having sex.

GSKing:
who cares which bloody tribe u from? Homosexuality is a western concept, so is civilization, education, technology and modernization, the whole of westernization and every ur crappy christianity! All is western concept yet u accepted all n leave one out. I'll tell u what nigerian/african concepts are, they include: primitivity, slavery, dictatorship, feudalism, kleptocracy, corruption, mediocrity, uncivilization, cave man/early man unculturedness, brutality, et al. Yet u all reject these way of life. Lol, ignorance is ur friend @igbo gyal, accept homosexuality by force or by fire

99cent: If as a woman you have ambition to become a very successful person, in some african countries, u will be called lesbian for having ambition. The belief is that only men are supposed to be poweful therefore any woman with aims to become successful must be a lesbian.
In the past, female PhD holders in Nigeria were called lesbians because they are trying to compete with men. Today, that is a ridiculous idea.

In the future, this whole anti-gay movement will also be a ridiculous idea

Rilamaka:

Homosexuality does not exist in Igboland, if you are making atrocious, sacrilegious and fallacious statements you should at least have facts to back that up. I am full bloodied Igbo woman, and I am telling you that Homosexuality is a western concept, take it or leave it.

Rilamaka:

All you Gays and gay sympathisers give ur life to Christ and stop bringing shame and pain to your respective families .

If not for anything think about your poor mother and father, btw if they were gay u lot won't be here chatting shit, u need help. Ask for it before its too late, deranged elements.

lynk106:


why do you say "we" instead of "I"?
you accept corruption, you accept wickedness because others are accepting it?
what about polygamy?

if rich men are involved in polygamy, it will be accepted. if rich men are openly involved in homosexuality it will also be accepted.
do you ever wonder why lesbians are more accepted than gays?

at the end of the day, you sound like someone who does not have the gut to stand for yourself. You go wherever the mob or crowd goes and the entirety of your argument is based on d idea that a large population of people in Nigeria agree with you.

GSKing:
who cares which bloody tribe u from? Homosexuality is a western concept, so is civilization, education, technology and modernization, the whole of westernization and every ur crappy christianity! All is western concept yet u accepted all n leave one out. I'll tell u what nigerian/african concepts are, they include: primitivity, slavery, dictatorship, feudalism, kleptocracy, corruption, mediocrity, uncivilization, cave man/early man unculturedness, brutality, et al. Yet u all reject these way of life. Lol, ignorance is ur friend @igbo gyal, accept homosexuality by force or by fire

Johnpaul88: I guess we should leave that girl alone. Who knows, she might be going through another serial heartbreaks. Who knows
how many of her boyfriends she has lost to gays due to her obvious ugliness which is so easy to notice from her voice and comments.

Illuminatus:
I'm sick and tired of hearing this particular argument. It is petty

Johnpaul88: No homosexuality in Igbo land? A very naive statement indeed! I dare say you'll be shocked when you learn the facts.