chineloSA:
If you are still in a relationship it should not be by force. It should just mutually happen.

If its marriage, yes, you should, no negotiations na. Whats mine is his and likewise

PasD: this thing you said is causing comotion here o. My uncle maintains that privacy is privacy whether married or single

chineloSA:


Then your uncle is hiding alot. Maybe not even a sideline, just Por..n material. money etc.

But in marriage, people should be open. If they cant be open, then they got married to wrong people. If I am married, my friends should know that if they sms a secret, my hubby may know the secret. So if they want to keep our secret no sms, face to face talk

Your Uncle is a shaddy buddy

rokiatu: No, no and no again.

Ymodulus:

I dont see anything wrong in a wife/girlfriend having access to her boyfriend/husby phone.

PasD:

Wullahi you did not give reason.


Is the no no and no both for married and unmarried?

PasD: my uncle maintains that its not because of secret love affair that made him say that. There are many things that enter the fone na. Account details (debit and credit) to avoid unneccessary questions, schedules he may like to keep private at least for the moment. The man is really making sense here and you are making sense too......dnt knw who to choose o

rokiatu: [/b]

Yes. Just becuase we are married don't mean we should share everything.

chineloSA:

One thing that is addressed in marriage counselling is openness and honesty. If you have secrets ( current secrets ) not even past secrets, then there is a problem

I cant sleep with a wolf in one bed, while thinking its a sheep.

rokiatu:

I do support such concept, but then again, I would luv some privacy for myself.

rokiatu:

I do support such concept, but then again, I would luv some privacy for myself.

PasD: my uncle with his friend are just hail u......

But sadly mum says you hav ske.leton in ur cupboard (she meant no offence o)

chineloSA:

As I said, when you give someone openness they eventually get bored and give you privacy. But if you hide, he wants to dig more.

But its your marriage, do what works for you. But know it will eventually lead to problems, because surely there is a reason for you being uncomfortable and that is "secrets"!!!!!!

. Woman are somehow selfish, because if he can start being secretive to you, you will be the first one running to Nairaland asking, what you should do. Hope when he reciprocates, you won't mind. when he receives dodgy calls,sms's the rules of privacy wont be abandoned by you first.

PasD: my uncle with his friend are just hail u......

But sadly mum says you hav ske.leton in ur cupboard (she meant no offence o)

chineloSA:

[/b]As I said, when you give someone openness they eventually get bored and give you privacy. But if you hide, he wants to dig more.[b]

But its your marriage, do what works for you. But know it will eventually lead to problems, because surely there is a reason for you being uncomfortable and that is "secrets"!!!!!!

. Woman are somehow selfish, because if he can start being secretive to you, you will be the first one running to Nairaland asking, what you should do. Hope when he reciprocates, you won't mind. when he receives dodgy calls,sms's the rules of privacy wont be abandoned by you first.

PasD: hehehehe mum says you're a smart gyal. Good for daughter inlaw (bolded part)

But uncle says you're selfish (no offence)

rokiatu: LMAO dude you're funny.

PasD: wish you were here to hear comments. Infact uncle wanna join nairaland now so that he can [/b]blast[b] chinelo (the lady above)

chineloSA:

Tell your mom I said I love her.

Ask uncle, how am I selfish

chineloSA:

[/b]Tell him am waiting. I have my garri next to me[b]

PasD: mum is loving ya swag

Uncle is 63yrs old but he wanna join nairaland.com because of u. If I were u I will deactivate my account! U cnt imagine the number of ppl that are against u ryt here lol

chineloSA:

Please help uncle join Nairaland, abeg. Make me talk to uncle

obyrich: PasD ask uncle how he would feel if his wifey puts a secret password on her phone? Any man or woman who passwords his phone is a suspect. However, I know someone who did that to prevent his children from stealing airtime from his phone. In that case, it is justifiable to lock the phone with a secret password if the wife is in league with the children in the game.

obyrich: PasD ask uncle how he would feel if his wifey puts a secret password on her phone? Any man or woman who passwords his phone is a suspect. However, I know someone who did that to prevent his children from stealing airtime from his phone. In that case, it is justifiable to lock the phone with a secret password if the wife is in league with the children in the game.

chineloSA:

@ wife league with the children.

I have also heard of man who was paying $1200 per month on phone bill because of wife and kids

PasD: I dnt get it. Why? [/b]What's wife league with children[b]. ?

chineloSA:

Meaning the wife is the thief with her kids. Stealing his cellphone, thereby paying big big phone bills.