Mujah1deen: age is only a number. And love doesn't know any limit

Jeeeesuuu, I cant can never marry someone my grandfadas age. Sorry ooo.
Too wrong

chineloSA:

I dont think she didnt understand, she simply disregarded my religion. In Catholic church there is a lot of stand up sit down for someone to have time for a munch She was simply rude. she can never eat in a meeting at work, no one has to tell you that.
Why eat when i am having a meeting with my most important man??
Had I refused to put a headscarf on my head, she was going to e unhappy.

Catholics dont judge. Catholic make their standpoint clear and we let people choose. e.g. Catholicism is clear on homosexual, hence they don't marry them, but then again we don't discriminate against them. We love them and the come to church

Allah knows best

chineloSA:

Jeeeesuuu, I cant can never marry someone my grandfadas age. Sorry ooo.
Too wrong

Allah knows best.

Mujah1deen:
Allah knows best.

Allah knows child molestation

please stop derailing my thread. is dis a form of setup to stop people from commenting. stop it else i report

jansie: please stop derailing my thread. is dis a form of setup to stop people from commenting. stop it else i report

apologies sweetheart

jansie: hello nairalanders, kindly recommend a church for this babe. u see i've been 2 so many churches but just a few seem to douse my curiousity n even d few have so many fault that i tend to stay home attimes on sundays. ok, lemme specify some things i personaly believe in and would no doubt change. so the recommended church must believe in the following:
1.speaking in tongues
2.trinity
3.wearing trouser, earrings n not covering hair
4.tithers
5.preaching d `gospel' n not sin every single day
6. has love n care for its members n not what they can get 4rm members
7.are doers n not mere talkers
8. regularly take communion
9. celebrate all kinds of functions:bdays, wedding,etc
Amongst several things also. i want to be goin 2 church n not b a couch potato.of all d churches i've been to, i enjoy christ embassy bt they av good leaders n bad followers, too money-couscious n i realise most dont even practice what their MOG teaches, though their pastor is my mentor. kindly tell me which good church to go. o_O
tnks

OP, may I ask without being rude. What happened to the church you were raised in.

Whats wrong with the church

apologies accepted

chineloSA:

Allah knows child molestation

isale gan was right after all.

May Allah forgive you

chineloSA:

OP, may I ask without being rude. What happened to the church you were raised in.

Whats wrong with the church

i wasn't raised in any church :-)

jansie:
i wasn't raised in any church :-)

Ok, I see. So as a child you never attended church on sundays

yes i didnt as a child

chineloSA:

Ok, I see. So as a child you never attended church on sundays

tanks. i'm still welcoming contributions

jansie: yes i didnt as a child

I see. Your problem is big. If you attended church as a child it would have been easy, because you would have had some kind of foundation

Now that you never attended any church, its very likely that even if you choose one, you will still change it. I find people attending pentecostal churches to changes churches anyhow. If Pastor in church no 1 does this they get angry move on to the second one.

So if you had a childhood church it was going to help you choose. I can bet, you will change churches until old age. I would recommend for now go with the flow and then judge

chineloSA:

I see. Your problem is big. If you attended church as a child it would have been easy, because you would have had some kind of foundation

Now that you never attended any church, its very likely that even if you choose one, you will still change it. I find people attending pentecostal churches to changes churches anyhow. If Pastor in church no 1 does this they get angry move on to the second one.

So if you had a childhood church it was going to help you choose. I can bet, you will change churches until old age. I would recommend for now go with the flow and then judge

d fact dat i was raised in a particular church doesn't mean i must remain there forever even when i know where it may lead me to. so ur point is invalid.

I bet it you wont like my church, you will run if I mention it
maybe you should try being a freelance christian attend different church each week.
Improve your relationship with God developed your most holy faith, give holiness and righteousness premium plus prayers and evangelism
If God see your seriousness Him go dash your Spiritual Gift
Increasing more in faith you could graduate to freelance Gospel Preacher, and that makes you a candidate of heaven. Holy Spirit is your companion. More Grace

jansie:
d fact dat i was raised in a particular church doesn't mean i must remain there forever even when i know where it may lead me to. so ur point is invalid. i knw where u're goin

See you are jumping into conclusion. I am not going no where You requested input and am trying to have input.

All I was trying to establish is, whether you have a foundation where you can use as a basis and help you choose.
I said your childhood church could help you choose, I never said stay there and continue. If you have a foundation,it normally helps one to choose.

I remember I was once confused myself when I got to Uni, with all these born agains, who were surrounding me. What helped me determine if my confusion was really confusion was to go back to my basics and establish what went wrong.

The same people who were fishing me to join their churches are no longer in those churches anymore even before we finished Univ. That is my only skepticism. Pentecostal members change churches like under wear ( sorry to be blunt ).
They fish you to the supposedly truth and leave to discover another truer church according to them. That tells alot about a persons spirituality and character.

Personally I dont like that confusion in my spiritual life.The stable one can be confusing on its own.

ultraGM: I bet it you wont like my church, you will run if I mention it
maybe you should try being a freelance christian attend different church each week.
Improve your relationship with God developed your most holy faith, give holiness and righteousness premium plus prayers and evangelism
If God see your seriousness Him go dash your Spiritual Gift
Increasing more in faith you could graduate to freelance Gospel Preacher, and that makes you a candidate of heaven. Holy Spirit is your companion. More Grace

thanks. my aspiration is not to be a pastor. i want a church of balance with gud sound doctrine. bible practicing churches not one that scares me away wit doctrines of over religiousity, rituals,etc
i wud try some dat have been mentioned here though
tanks

@chinelo
i'm nt jumpin into conclusion. i undastand wat u're saying perfectly. foundation. yes those are d foundations i listed in my post. so whatever doesn't fall into dat. i cant bear. i wasn't even born into pentecostal anyway bt i know better than be deceived. when i see what i want, wud settle for it. but 4 now, d search continues

Pls attend Deeper Life Bible Church and you will never regret this my sister,GOD BLESS AND HELP YOU TO MAKE HEAVEN!!!

jansie:
d fact dat i was raised in a particular church doesn't mean i must remain there forever even when i know where it may lead me to. so ur point is invalid.

All that wish list you had on front page may change in 2 years. After two years you may speak another language of another pastor in another church, who is more miraculous than the last one. The tongues spoken in Reedemed church wont be tongues anymore in two years

That's how Pentecostal members are. Very gullible. Its always hard to give them advice.

So I am not sure whats invalid.

Not fighting o, just advising each other. Hence I am still advising you go with the flow.

jansie: @chinelo
i'm nt jumpin into conclusion. i undastand wat u're saying perfectly. foundation. yes those are d foundations i listed in my post. so whatever doesn't fall into dat. i cant bear. i wasn't even born into pentecostal anyway bt i know better than be deceived. when i see what i want, wud settle for it. but 4 now, d search continues

All the best my love. I can bet the search will continue till old age.

jansie:
thanks. my aspiration is not to be a pastor. i want a church of balance with gud sound doctrine. bible practicing churches not one that scares me away wit doctrines of over religiousity, rituals,etc
i wud try some dat have been mentioned here though
tanks

am not saying you should be a pastor evangelism is duty of all christians. because looking at your criteria church will offereds you often, infact I do get offence from my church too but all I could do is pray for those involved.
But one thing sure God does not favour any church but personal relationship with Him is what matter.
Maybe you should use this night to seek God for guidance, I may join you if you want.
But remember personal Salvation is the key to answered prayer.

chineloSA:

All that wish list you had on front page may change in 2 years. After two years you may speak another language of another pastor in another church, who is more miraculous than the last one. The tongues spoken in Reedemed church wont be tongues anymore in two years

That's how Pentecostal members are. Very gullible. Its always hard to give them advice.

So I am not sure whats invalid.

Not fighting o, just advising each other. Hence I am still advising you go with the flow.

my dear chinelo, if i tell u how i came about those list. these are not things that one priest or pastor came about n i just took hook, line n sinker. like i mentioned in my previous post. those are my personal believe n convictions. my foundation that wont change years from now

so do u have any special recommendation or solution to d issue on ground. am open to learnin

jansie: so do u have any special recommendation or solution to d issue on ground. am open to learnin

Ash-hadu an laa ilaaha illallah “I bear witness that there is no god except Allah” Wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan rasulullah “And I bear witness that Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.”

Mujah1deen:

Ash-hadu an laa ilaaha illallah “I bear witness that there is no god except Allah” Wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan rasulullah “And I bear witness that Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.”

you are a spam, beta vamoose

ultraGM:
am not saying you should be a pastor evangelism is duty of all christians. because looking at your criteria church will offereds you often, infact I do get offence from my church too but all I could do is pray for those involved.
But one thing sure God does not favour any church but personal relationship with Him is what matter.
Maybe you should use this night to seek God for guidance, I may join you if you want.
But remember personal Salvation is the key to answered prayer.

tanks. u can join me in d prayer. i believe in foundational doctrines like salvation too. tnks

jansie:
my dear chinelo, if i tell u how i came about those list. these are not things that one priest or pastor came about n i just took hook, line n sinker. like i mentioned in my previous post. those are my personal believe n convictions. my foundation that wont change years from now

I hear you luv. YOUR " Personal beliefs and convictions " which are not the same as the churches.

What if they don't match exactly as per your expectations.
I dont think having " Personal beliefs and convictions " already will help you find a church in already existing pool of churches which were also built on the foundations of someones ( normally founding Pastor ) " Personal beliefs and convictions "

Mind you all these churches start and they are always branded around one Pastor and his " Personal beliefs and conviction " and his vision.

Your expectations are too high luv. You may be disappointed and change the church again before one year anniversary. Hop around and see.

This thread will help
https://www.nairaland.com/1262082/how-conquer-barrenness-spiritually-physically/53

chinelo sweetheart, recommend me a church so i can start attending maybe they cud change my `personal belief' to the supposed or acclaimed `beliefs' dat i ought to have known 4rm birth chinelo sweetheart, recommend me a church so i can start attending maybe they cud change my `personal belief' to the supposed or acclaimed `beliefs' dat i ought to have known 4rm birth

sotum2: This thread will help
https://www.nairaland.com/1262082/how-conquer-barrenness-spiritually-physically/53

pls sir, this is off-topic. may God see us through our various challenges