There's this girl who's been asking me out for over a month now(we've been friends for over a year),but the thing is...She's Fat&I don't have a thing for fat girls.She's Pretty no doubt but no matter how hard I try I just can't develop any atom of 'love' for her.The big tummy,huge thighs and arms really turns me off.It takes only a brave chick to really open up to a guy,the problem is:How do I tell her I'm not attracted to her 'cos she's fat without hurting her?Mature opinions please...

C.Ovo:
There's this girl who's been asking me out for over a month now(we've been friends for over a year),but the thing is...She's Fat&I don't have a thing for fat girls.She's Pretty no doubt but no matter how hard I try I just can't develop any atom of 'love' for her.The big tummy,huge thighs and arms really turns me off.It takes only a brave chick to really open up to a guy,the problem is:How do I tell her I'm not attracted to her 'cos she's fat without hurting her?Mature opinions please...

Just ask her if she has seen herself in the mirror cos she looks like she has been working out. I guess she will hate you after that.

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I foresee fat gals occupying this thread to attack the Op

Phranciz:
Just ask her if she has seen herself in the mirror cos she looks like she has been working out. I guess she will hate you after that.

It's something I wanna avoid,she's a good girl,don't want it to end with her hating me.

rill: I foresee fat gals occupying this thread to attack the Op

I hope they just help out.

C.Ovo:
There's this girl who's been asking me out for over a month now(we've been friends for over a year),but the thing is...She's Fat&I don't have a thing for fat girls.She's Pretty no doubt but no matter how hard I try I just can't develop any atom of 'love' for her.The big tummy,huge thighs and arms really turns me off.It takes only a brave chick to really open up to a guy,the problem is:How do I tell her I'm not attracted to her 'cos she's fat without hurting her?Mature opinions please...

Bros,why you dey fall hand now? The chick like you,and she was bold enough to toast you. Just do the needful. When you jam her,she go lose weight

Hang urself and leave a note!

Just tell her you prefer being friends with her and that it would be difficult for you to transition nto the relationship mode.
Whatever you do, please dont allude to her being fat as a reason. Dont even bring it up, so as not to shatter her esteem and confidence.

@OP......since you guys are friends, you can just sit her down and tell her that a relationship with her won't work because you're madly in love with someone and that you can't make yourself fall in love with anyone else . I guess she would understand.

Na 2day i knw sey fatness na disease

I've been there.. tell her the damn truth you owe her nothing!!

Harbosede02: Na 2day i knw sey fatness na disease

Does that mean you're diseased?

Danhumprey: Bros,why you dey fall hand now? The chick like you,and she was bold enough to toast you. Just do the needful. When you jam her,she go lose weight

Wen I say her laps and tummy nor dey pleasing for my eye u feel say na joke I dey?

SLIDE waxie: Hang urself and leave a note!

Ha!That's extreme na!

demelza: Just tell her you prefer being friends with her and that it would be difficult for you to transition nto the relationship mode.
Whatever you do, please dont allude to her being fat as a reason. Dont even bring it up, so as not to shatter her esteem and confidence.

Well said...Thanks.

Dannylux:

Does that mean you're diseased?

??

mascot87: I am sure she is the only one in your life,if not you would have found a way of letting her know u have someone you are dating and you love her so much

She's seen pictures,read txt msgs and I even receive calls from my sweetpea in front of her...buh she's just so so into me.I begin to wonder...

First of all.. your statement is a fallacy.. trying to develop love for her? come on nigga.. Love isn't something you force?

you obviously like her yes? but you have already set a boundary for yourself as regards fat girls..

if you eliminate that bottleneck.. you will see how easily you will fall in Love with her cos you already like her and she's your friend.

As for your questions?

Tell her how much you like her and wanna see her Happy. And how dating her might Change the whole thing as you don't really "Love" her in the erotic way.

she'll definitely understand

Simple....buy her sneakers...and tell her that if she can catch you in a race,you will be hers forever,do dis for a month...she go lose weight. trust me ...it works.

Harbosede02: Na 2day i knw sey fatness na disease

Errrmmm?

Irony of life.


Trust me no matter how you say it, it'll hurt her and she'll hate you. If truly you don't love her, she either already knows and trying to see if you'll change towards her in time or she'll notice eventually and back off…except if she's a kid, dumb or watches too many romantic movies.

C.Ovo:
There's this girl who's been asking me out for over a month now(we've been friends for over a year),but the thing is...She's Fat&I don't have a thing for fat girls.She's Pretty no doubt but no matter how hard I try I just can't develop any atom of 'love' for her.The big tummy,huge thighs and arms really turns me off.It takes only a brave chick to really open up to a guy,the problem is:How do I tell her I'm not attracted to her 'cos she's fat without hurting her?Mature opinions please...

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The problem is not her fattness rather it the way you reason.

You never liked her fattness and she asked you out and you accepted. For a whole year you didnt see those fat thigh, arms etc.

Put yourself in her position right now. And your guy you care so much for wants to break up with you for no reason only because of your belief, religion, height fatness etc

ask yourself is it wise? You said you need a mature advices when you are not mature yourself.

You should have never opened up at first place when you knew so well you dislike fat girls.

And right now, you want to break up after you have smelled her vir....

Anyway, you should know that no break up comes easy one must get hurt.

I have so many fast ways you can clean up your memory from her brain and she begins to get her baggages without you talking but I cant cos you have no good reason to break up with her.

You admitted to her games pls see it to the end in your way

Op politely tell her you want to keep it friends and nothing more. Don't keep her hope high by delaying it and entertaining her lust on you. I call it lust cos a sensible girl, having see ur girl's pictures, sms, call and all that will respective withdraw from further move. But this girl keep pestering, I don't like girls who cannot ready the handwriting on the wall even when it's boldly written.

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quote author=My-Paradise].

The problem is not her fattness rather it the way you reason.

You never liked her fattness and she asked you out and you accepted. For a whole year you didnt see those fat thigh, arms etc.

Put yourself in her position right now. And your guy you care so much for wants to break up with you for no reason only because of your belief, religion, height
fatness etc

ask yourself is it wise? You said you need a mature advices when you are not mature yourself.

You should have never opened up at first place when you knew so well you dislike fat girls.

And right now, you want to break up after you have smelled her vir....

Anyway, you should know that no break up comes easy one must get hurt.

I have so many fast ways you can clean up your memory from her brain and she begins to get her baggages without you talking but I cant cos you have no good reason to break up with her.

You admitted to her games pls see it to the end in your way[/quote]
What is this one saying?I'm not sure you read the post and u're here talking about us already been in a relationship and dat we've already had sex.Park well joor
See who's talking about maturity.

Yahoo1: Simple....buy her sneakers...and tell her that if she can catch you in a race,you will be hers forever,do dis for a month...she go lose weight. trust me ...it works.

LWKMD

so its fat chance for you to love a fat girl?

well....next time you are with are just keep talking about how hot slim girls are to you

....or do slim girls also have a slim chance?


what do you really want from a woman guy?

Simple....

1. Take her phone
2. Download Badoo Application
3. Setup a very lovely mouthwatering profile for her...
4. Tell her its a new way for you guys to connect...

Believe me... some other guys will talk to her, take her attention while you sway

By the way, are you falling for her cos of her stature or her personality... the real person behind the stature...

C.Ovo:
There's this girl who's been asking me out for over a month now(we've been friends for over a year),but the thing is...She's Fat&I don't have a thing for fat girls.She's Pretty no doubt but no matter how hard I try I just can't develop any atom of 'love' for her.The big tummy,huge thighs and arms really turns me off.It takes only a brave chick to really open up to a guy,the problem is:How do I tell her I'm not attracted to her 'cos she's fat without hurting her?Mature opinions please...

Tell her this" you are very pretty and i admire your guts for being open enough to tell me how you feel about me but the thing is i don't feel any attraction for you and i don't want to waste your time. I know you may dislike me but i don't want to waste your time or string you along". Women prefer the truth. Whatever mistake you have made with her in the past correct it NOW and move on.

rigormortis: so its fat chance for you to love a fat girl?

well....next time you are with are just keep talking about how hot slim girls are to you

....or do slim girls also have a slim chance?


what do you really want from a woman guy?

Slim,Busty,romantic,beautiful and intelligent chick.