A friend of mine just told me that she has made a vow with God not to fornicate again. She stills kisses her BF, and the touch each other but no penetrating.
And it got me wondering, is kissing and tonching not part of the fornication package? Cos am really scared for her. The terms of the vow is huge.
I need serious reponse here. Am really worried.

fornication..

Pls do. I really need help here and every1 is just reading and passing.

Jesus has said adultery or any sin starts from the heart. So when a man or woman looks at the opposite sex (who is not their spouse) with lustful desire, the person has already sinned. We however have grace in Jesus to have pure hearts and renewal of thoughts daily.
Matthew 5:27-28
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Never commit adultery.’
28 But I can guarantee that whoever looks at a woman and desires her has already committed adultery in his heart.


Even Job understood the importance of this spiritual law, that God judges the intents of the heart.
Job 31:1
I made a covenant with my eyes
not to look with lust at a young woman.

Sex is only approved in marriage and as long as they are not (yet) married, let the man treat her in all purity as he would his own sister and she the same (I Timothy 5:2) or let them marry as they are behaving improperly (I Corinthians 7:36). It is the hard but simple truth.

The onus is on us to guard our hearts with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life.

Thanks man. That means kissing is part of fornication

The very idea that the Creator of the universe would create such an 'offence' as 'fornication' is laughable and comical.

It is obvious it is a man-ordained 'sin' devised by a few semi-literate ancient Jewish control freaks forming 'prophet'.

Pls explain

ROSSIKE: The very idea that the Creator of the universe would create such an 'offence' as 'fornication' is laughable and comical.

It is obvious it is a man-ordained 'sin' devised by a few semi-literate ancient Jewish control freaks forming 'prophet'.