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Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by dad007(m): 12:55pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Annie2gud: Nice one.happenned to me too.my traditional marriage is this dec.my husband just came,asked me,annie are you ready to marry,i said yes.i hav done my court marriage in naija..and next month is the trado stuff.God bless ur home.AMEN....I WISH YOU A WONDERFUL MARRIAGE LIFE,BLESS WITH WONDERFUL CHILDREN. |
Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by Annie2gud(f): 1:06pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
@Efe n Eagle....keep the thread alive...i love the arguments...lolz(Annie) |
Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by eagleeye2: 1:09pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Geometrix:Bro, Please you need to drastically cut on the spending. Don't give her the impression that you are Desperate. (Though the shallow ones will likely see you as being desperate.) A lady who sees you for who you are will not want to rip you off. All the best. |
Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by eagleeye2: 1:09pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
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Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by Geometrix(m): 1:13pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
@eagle,eye thanks |
Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by breathless(m): 7:28pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
@ OP. A guy proposes early in a relationship, you're suspicious and uncomfortable. I'm sure you've in relationships in the past where you expected the guy to propose and nothing came. The same mum asking you to slow down will be the one pressuring tomorrow if this guy and other ones comes and goes same way. Instead of slowing the guy and the process down, why not set parameters and test him to know if he's suitable. Prayer is important as much as determining what kind of marriage you want. Have you done genotype, fertility and other forms of tests? Have investigated his family and their history? Try know as much as you can instead of worrying more about his early proposal. Wishing you the best of luck. Cheers. |
Re: Is It OK To Accept His Proposal? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Oh well you're right I gave up two proposals cos of this rush rush thing. I was so scared But I've found out that once guys are done with sampling the various babes they can get. Once they are done playing the field, they want to rush into marriage. At all costs The last guy I rejected got married 3 weeks ago. So OP don't send him away or run away cos of that. But use the opportunity to find out all u can about him Meet all his family that u can. The more the better. Engage him in subtle debates. The way he reasons and talks will expose a lot about him. Before long,u can find out what he is like. eagle,eye: 1 Like |
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