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Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Caliente(m): 6:57pm On Jul 21, 2008
[size=13pt]Date Shields are female 'friends' who shows no outward interest in you, but will go all out to prevent you from hooking with other women by slagging you behind your back. Why do some babes do that? Is it that they feel something for the guy but can't show it or what? How do you get rid of them?[/size]
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Gamine(f): 7:00pm On Jul 21, 2008
@Caliente

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Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jul 21, 2008
Most probably like you but are denying it, don't want you to know they have feelings for you etc etc etc

Watch out for the jealousy!
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by CrazyMan(m): 7:08pm On Jul 21, 2008
Question is why would a guy hook up himself with a girl who shows no interest for him but gets jealous when she sees him with some other girl?

Only a foolish guy would put himself in such bondage.
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by zeal500: 7:10pm On Jul 21, 2008
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Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jul 21, 2008
crazykid:

Question is why would a guy hook up himself with a girl who shows no interest for him but gets jealous when she sees him with some other girl?

Only a foolish guy would put himself in such bondage.
Maybe he did not know she would be like that, plus he did not 'hook up' with her on dating terms (if that is what you mean), they are just friends, people change, so do feelings, so maybe she was not like this from the start
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by CrazyMan(m): 7:17pm On Jul 21, 2008
You have a point.

But if a girl finds out that she loves a guy or has feelings for a guy even though the started as just friends; the should be bold enough to admit it before him instead of being jealous anytime she sees him with someone else.

That's the only way such a realation can move foward; because the guy would feel glad and happy for that bold step she took and believe me, he won't take her for granted any more.
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Caliente(m): 8:44am On Jul 22, 2008
ibkaye:

Maybe he did not know she would be like that, plus he did not 'hook up' with her on dating terms (if that is what you mean), they are just friends, people change, so do feelings, so maybe she was not like this from the start

[size=13pt]Exactly, how do you know it's going to turn out?[/size]
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Caliente(m): 8:45am On Jul 22, 2008
crazykid:

You have a point.

But if a girl finds out that she loves a guy or has feelings for a guy even though the started as just friends; the should be bold enough to admit it before him instead of being jealous anytime she sees him with someone else.

That's the only way such a realation can move foward; because the guy would feel glad and happy for that bold step she took and believe me, he won't take her for granted any more.

[size=13pt]Exactly, now you are talking.[/size]
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by iice(f): 9:25am On Jul 22, 2008
Caliente:

[size=13pt]Date Shields are female 'friends' who shows no outward interest in you, but will go all out to prevent you from hooking with other women by slagging you behind your back. Why do some babes do that? Is it that they feel something for the guy but can't show it or what? How do you get rid of them?[/size]

Set them straight or cut them loose.
People don't like rationalize their feelings (or rather they try to do wayo rationalization)
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by jkpretty(f): 10:41am On Jul 22, 2008
@Topic
that happens when she's expecting u to ask her out & u don't, being insulted by these she thinks the best option is to run u down.

When ladies come with gist like this, we know what's happening grin
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by Caliente(m): 10:47am On Jul 22, 2008
jkpretty:

@Topic
that happens when she's expecting u to ask her out & u don't, being insulted by these she thinks the best option is to run u down.

When ladies come with gist like this, we know what's happening grin

[size=13pt]Is it not better for the girl to swallow her pride and ask the guy out instead of running him down?[/size]
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by ladybam(f): 11:02am On Jul 22, 2008
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Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by lucabrasi(m): 12:10pm On Jul 22, 2008
@topic
they are called erisco fire bumpet grin grin or fire extinguisher
the best thing for you is to treat them better than the girl you are stepping to,they know they r not as fine as the girl you are stepping to and also that once you start going out with th girl she wont spend as much time with them as before,treat them really nice so they ll have the feeling the free ride will go on after you hook thegirl,oce the girl is properly into you,cut off the free ride and bone them, they cant say anything to discourage the girl anymore
Re: Date Shields: How Do You Get Rid Of Them? by jkpretty(f): 12:40pm On Jul 22, 2008
Caliente:

[size=13pt]Is it not better for the girl to swallow her pride and ask the guy out instead of running him down?[/size]

Would u have accepted if she asked u out?

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