Good day all, a close associate of mine confides in me and wants to know if is a sin for him to make love with his wife mentally via masturbation when she is not available for sex. Born again christians, moralists, realists, free thinkers etc etc, ur contributions are needed. Thanks in anticipation.

If he no masturrrbate with him wife image, na my own he for use ? Married man wey dey gist person dis kain thing sef na wao.
Effects of boys getting married.

ifyalways: If he no masturrrbate with him wife image, na my own he for use ? Married man wey dey gist person dis kain thing sef na wao.
Effects of boys getting married.

The op is the married man.......

ifyalways: If he no masturrrbate with him wife image, na my own he for use ? Married man wey dey gist person dis kain thing sef na wao.
Effects of boys getting married.

we should be sincere, it is better than cheating. The alternative to this could spiral into destroying their marriage but I wonder why he has to resort to this, is his wife always away for so long.

blink182: we should be sincere, it is better than cheating. The alternative to this could spiral into destroying their marriage but I wonder why he has to resort to this, is his wife always away for so long.

The best thing is for the man to control his urge! Self service has disadvantage too at a point, he may not want to do the real thing again...if he can't stay without s*x for like 2/3 months that means something is wrong so where...

Well, it proves one thing, this guy is crazy about his wife......

For some, their wifes image would put them way out of the mood.
In all, I think whatever happens in vagas stays in vagas. Its their life and marriage. If he's comfortable about it? Or not. Its his,your(loll) personal decision.
I know one thing for sure, it beats cheating.

ammyluv2002: The best thing is for the man to control his urge! Self service has disadvantage too at a point, he may not want to do the real thing again...if he can't stay without s*x for like 2/3 months that means something is wrong so where...

I can't stay without sex for 2/3 months and nothing is wrong with me

mantop7: Good day all, a close associate of mine confides in me and wants to know if is a sin for him to make love with his wife mentally via masturbation when she is not available for sex. Born again christians, moralists, realists, free thinkers etc etc, ur contributions are needed. Thanks in anticipation.

@topic/OP, I can't tell you if this is a sin or not...I suggest you speak to the HOLY SPIRIT in prayer. Trust HIM and HE will guide you rightly.

Personally, I'm more interested in how you want to carry 'it' out. I would really love to know. Is it by talking over the phone with her, through skype, or what is the plan?
I'm believing your wife will fully participate in this 'plan', cuz, she has feelings too.

I'm not married yet, but no knowledge is useless...who knows if I may have to stay without my darling future husband for longer... (am not searching oo)

Feel free to share ...(or not)

is his wife's picture available for download?

ULSHERLAN:
I can't stay without sex for 2/3 months and nothing is wrong with me

Not sure whether this is right or wrong but one thing i do know is that it has a medical implication. It can lead to ere.ctile dysfunction, a growing concern/problem with excessive masturbation

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201107/porn-induced-sexual-dysfunction-growing-problem

ammyluv2002: The best thing is for the man to control his urge! Self service has disadvantage too at a point, he may not want to do the real thing again...if he can't stay without s*x for like 2/3 months that means something is wrong so where...

2months?!

Smh

majalisa: 2months?!

Kini big deal 2 months no long now just 60 days, I hope you know s*x is not food meaning we can actually do without it for a while

ammyluv2002: Kini big deal 2 months no long now just 60 days, I hope you know s*x is not food meaning we can actually do without it for a while

I no dey marry u again

ammyluv2002: Kini big deal 2 months no long now just 60 days, I hope you know s*x is not food meaning we can actually do without it for a while

Two months without sex? Unless she is medically not able to otherwise that is abusive behavior.


In my book there is nothing wrong with masturbation. I don't know about men but I encourage women to masturbate and get familiar with their bodies. That way you know what works for you.

ammyluv2002: Kini big deal 2 months no long now just 60 days, I hope you know s*x is not food meaning we can actually do without it for a while

Look,i personally cannot stay without sex in a week....My husband must be able to satisfy me atleast 3 times a week.

Rolly83:

Look,i personally cannot stay without sex in a week....My husband must be able to satisfy me atleast 3 times a week.

Pregnancy nko not the early stage though, you no go born at least the doctors recommend 2/3 months before having s*x again. How about travelling? There other factors o!

leavestory: I no dey marry u again

ammyluv2002: Pregnancy nko not the early stage though, you no go born at least the doctors recommend 2/3 months before having s*x again. How about travelling? There other factors o!

My dear,i understand the ''pregnancy thingy''.But where i disagree wit u is stayin witout sex wit my hubby for more dan two weeks!!!

Make una dey comment...I dey follow.

Rolly83:

My dear,i understand the ''pregnancy thingy''.But where i disagree wit u is stayin witout sex wit my hubby for more dan two weeks!!!

Noo now! Why won't you give your hubby the thing if you are perfectly ok as in no pregnancy, no sickness bla bla bla....

Rolly83:

Look,i personally cannot stay without sex in a week....My husband must be able to satisfy me atleast 3 times a week.

one billion likes,ya making sense

ammyluv2002: Noo now! Why won't you give your hubby the thing if you are perfectly ok as in no pregnancy, no sickness bla bla bla....

u this woman sha,you wan make sure say make I marry u but I no wan marry u,na by force to marry u?I talk say I no dey do

ammyluv2002: Pregnancy nko not the early stage though, you no go born at least the doctors recommend 2/3 months before having s*x again. How about travelling? There other factors o!

Your doctor must have something against you. 6 weeks max for vaginal birth or 8 weeks for c-section. People even start before then. 2-3 months. Geez.

Enough of all these ur diggressions people! Pls dont be too frivolous abt it. Am asking u to help someone that needs to know wether self servicing his wife in a mental way if his she is not available for sex is a sin or not?

mantop7: Enough of all these ur diggressions people! Pls dont be too frivolous abt it. Am asking u to help someone that needs to know wether self servicing his wife in a mental way if his she is not available for sex is a sin or not?

Personally I believe it is. I think he shld call his wife, they shld sit and sort things here. Very soon he Will find solace in self-service instead of his wife.
And please complete ur story, where is the wife? How long does she stays away from home?