chocolateme:
You can get ALL IN ONE.
Na a daughter graduated from daughter to baby mama to wife and then to mother.
So I choose alli in one.

FYB:
The love for a mother is great but definitely not compared to a wife.
Daughter is lovely too

IVORY2009:
All of d above..

kiddkash:
baby mama is hot. will come first

therealdeal10:
My mum always

lilmax:
Why is babymama on the list?

shegsrules:

All of the above no dey d options

shegsrules:


That's d latest in town, born and give. As some wives d do career woman.

shegsrules:


E b like u na d pic u wan use choose, as e b like u c wetin d trip u for d baby mama body

Kachisbarbie:
]There is nothing confusing about that grid up there.
Babymamma is just all 'bout the child. That's where her right ends. She shouldn't be in the picture.

The various women in a man's life are all important and should be able to respect their boundaries.


^^^God's view on marriage

I feel mothers that hustle for their son's love are insecure, because if she is so busy and loved up with her husband_ she would have better things to do. My MIL for example,her omugwo doesn't pass 1mth o. She would say her husband is missing her...fiam, she done disappear.

Secondly,guys that place their mothers above their wives are confused...unconscionable level of confusion. If you are married to a woman that you can have mind to place as a second fiddle, then you need orientation(from your 'special mother'),'should probably not be married to the innocent woman or you're married to the wrong woman. Nobody should tell me my mother suffered for me...I know right. A mother's nurture should be straight outta love, not for some cheap emotional blackmail.
Your mother has been getting good loving from her husband, now you are married...you say it's still her? Are you okay?
So the wife is supposed to wait till her son grows and gets married, then start dragging love with the DIL? And the cycle continues? ??

As for wives and daughters, no sane mother would feel threatened. Dads gat this natural bond with their daughters. As long as it's healthy, it's safe and allowed. [/font][/i]

cococandy:

@bold. I guess so.

Nne the matter tire me o. I wonder if their mothers don't give them orientation. No son of mine would grow up and say that rubbish (my mother first, then you)to his wife. Except I don't hear it...my reaction would really shock him.

Give me my respect, that motherly respect. Then go meet your wife. Let my husband and I enjoy our old age-love, I heard that's when it's sweet sef.

Kachisbarbie:


Nne the matter tire me o. I wonder if their mothers don't give them orientation. No son of mine would grow up and say that rubbish (my mother first, then you)to his wife. Except I don't hear it...my reaction would really shock him.

Give me my respect, that motherly respect. Then go meet your wife. Let my husband and I enjoy our old age-love, I heard that's when it's sweet sef.

Kachisbarbie:


Nne the matter tire me o. I wonder if their mothers don't give them orientation. No son of mine would grow up and say that rubbish (my mother first, then you)to his wife. Except I don't hear it...my reaction would really shock him.

Give me my respect, that motherly respect. Then go meet your wife. Let my husband and I enjoy our old age-love, I heard that's when it's sweet sef.

kennyman2000:



That motherly respect is what some people still mistake for that motherly love hence they still place their mothers love over that of their wives. Someone like me is a good case study.

cococandy:


Na suffer head wives that didn't have any love from the husbands of their youth that turn into those clingy over bearing MILs later in life.

When they should be in retirement strolling the globe with their husbands and enjoying their old age together since they don't have kids to support or mortgage to pay anymore.

kennyman2000:

That motherly respect is what some people still mistake for that motherly love hence they still place their mothers love over that of their wives. Someone like me is a good case study.

Kachisbarbie:


Gbam. You sabi them well-well. Their husbands probably didn't carry them along in their marriages, so they start looking for their kids own to interfere in.


Motherly love is in a different sphere on its own and shouldn't be compared for any reason.

That doesn't change the fact that out there, in so many marriages there are mothers that go 'bout dragging love with their DILs.
These kinda mothers account for a large percentage(%) of marital troubles.

If you treat your wife well, she wouldn't even have time to notice who you love pass...that would be your own secret or problem sef.

Kachisbarbie:
There is nothing confusing about that grid up there.
Babymamma is just all 'bout the child. That's where her right ends. She shouldn't be in the picture.

The various women in a man's life are all important and should be able to respect their boundaries.


^^^God's view on marriage

I feel mothers that hustle for their son's love are insecure, because if she is so busy and loved up with her husband_ she would have better things to do. My MIL for example,her omugwo doesn't pass 1mth o. She would say her husband is missing her...fiam, she done disappear.

Secondly,guys that place their mothers above their wives are confused...unconscionable level of confusion. If you are married to a woman that you can have mind to place as a second fiddle, then you need orientation(from your 'special mother'),'should probably not be married to the innocent woman or you're married to the wrong woman. Nobody should tell me my mother suffered for me...I know right. A mother's nurture should be straight outta love, not for some cheap emotional blackmail.
Your mother has been getting good loving from her husband, now you are married...you say it's still her? Are you okay?
So the wife is supposed to wait till her son grows and gets married, then start dragging love with the DIL? And the cycle continues? ??

As for wives and daughters, no sane mother would feel threatened. Dads gat this natural bond with their daughters. As long as it's healthy, it's safe and allowed.

Haywhymido:
who asked u for epistle dear Who comes first dat is the question, it is not who u love most. Who do u 1st think of when u wake up after God. Dis is expected to be different frm one person to another due to individual's differences.