Their is this particular lady we both loved each other durring our dating, to the extend that everyone believed we are going to end up the scene as husband and wife, but story changed latter. Though distance is part of the factor that lead to the breaking of a thing, she hooked up with another man after few years and ended up married the guy about 5yrs ago. I married last year DEC and I truly love my wife. But something happen when I sudden received my ex called about three weeks ago that she has been searching almost everywhere for me before she finally come across my profile on one of the social network. We have been talking ever since then and she made me to realized that her man is currently on course been a personnel, She gave me a surprise visit yesterday while in office and the visitations leads to something else for the fact that non of my staff is around, after that we moved straight to an hotel to finalize the abandoned matter. But the point is that she is feeling like coming back despite the fact that is a mother of 1 and currently in a somebody house, in my own case my wife must not hear about the matter and this lady calls almost every minutes. Please advice me.... Though I still love her been the fact that she is my first love and I happened to be the first in her life as well, caused I did opend the company as an executive manager... Advice me on what to do friends.

This is how you destroy your home as a married man and in extension, your life. I wonder what makes you a man if you cannot make a decision and stand by it. I wonder the kind of advice you need. Alright, keep her as your concubine or send your wife away and bring her in. It's all left for you. As you make your bed so you lie on it. Keep it up.

eyenCalabar: This is how you destroy your home as a married man and in extension, your life. I wonder what makes you a man if you cannot make a decision and stand by it. I wonder the kind of advice you need. Alright, keep her as your concubine or send your wife away and bring her in. It's all left for you. As you make your bed so you lie on it. Keep it up.

This is all you need to hear. Stop using your own hands to destroy your life

DUDE!!!!!

*twisted fate* Don't even take her as a friend.

U dey nack another person wife, u don enter one chance be that...sorry.

O bio see curse here eating another man pkomo make I run comot from this thread ( u suffered to build and open a company and still want to destroy it with just bottom power, is she not having the same with your wife pls stop thinking with that your long pipe but your brain)

I have that challenge too. though I'm fully single. lots of my ex gfs keep coming back professing undying love after our break up. I know all they want is a constant long lasting hard dyck. some have even called my fiancé asking her to dump me. thank goodness she's hopelessly in love with me. but these girls keep coming back for more. spending their last dime to convince me.
really worried it doesn't continue after I've gotten married

Ex,means trouble,if it is not,it wouldn't have been an Ex.

Be careful guy.

y does not equals x