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Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 6:02pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
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Re: Jokers everywhere by pasqal09: 6:05pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
OP, its just one of those things 1 Like |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 6:16pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
pasqal09: OP, its just one of those thingsExactly. Experiences like this should toughen and tighten the understanding of the op and young peopleon what love really should mean. It is not in giving it all. You can give all but the other person would still not be satisfied, a sign he is incapable of loving you. I believe there are millions of good men out there willing to engage. So, lamenting or giving up on men based on a single person is absolutely not the best thing to do. 6 Likes |
Re: Jokers everywhere by lomaxx: 6:28pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
[b] 1) I'm yet to understand the one reason why guys are ALWAYS blamed when a relationship falls apart. In answering your first question, I can't speak for other guys...it's a personal thing . But for me, I'm naturally not bothered by things. So a breakup from a relationship or any other pleasurable stuff hardly gets to me. It doesn't mean I'm heartless. I don't see the logic in nursing a past. 2) If you're going to live the rest of your life thinking that things work out well because we make the best choices , then you have a long way to go. Life is more complex than hoping for the best because you've done the best. Shit is really gonna happen. Plenty shit would happen. I'm not the best person to tell anyone if giving their partner everything was wrong. People are different. He may have been making sacrifices for you too. Who knows? And wasn't it a relationship? He didn't give you his time, body, seme.n, money, heart, comfort, jokes....etc while it lasted? 3) It's your choice. Whether you love or not does no one any favour. It won't add one more dollar to the man on the street who cannot afford his daily bread. It won't increase or decrease the GDP of the Nigerian economy. It won't improve the prognosis in drug-resistant tuberculosis. So don't sweat it. Do what you want. It's a free world. [/b] 10 Likes |
Re: Jokers everywhere by ednut1(m): 6:32pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
ur bible nd parents warned u about sex nd men. u refuse to listen . u got wat u deserved o. in a players mind u have d option to say no. bt u didnt. nxt time dont be easily fuked hehehe 4 Likes |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 6:42pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
lomaxx: [b] 1) I'm yet to understand the one reason why guys are ALWAYS blamed when a relationship falls apart. In answering your first question, I can't speak for other guys...it's a personal thing . thanks |
Re: Jokers everywhere by larride(m): 6:45pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
OP, I can relate to this very well, the same thing happened to me in my last relationship, poo happens, life continues, its going to hurt but you gotta move on, life ain't a bed of roses. I learnt my lesson, toughen up and became a better person off it. Don't forget that no one is worth closing your heart for. Don't allow the pains, betrayals, injuries and heartbreak of yesterday keeps you from opening your heart to the love, joy, happiness and pleasure that tomorrow have to offer, when you finally find the RIGHT MAN it will be worth all the pains. 2 Likes |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 6:45pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Thinking that a man should love you or will love you because you had s3x with him is like thinking that basket can hold water because some look like bucket.if its about the time or body you gave him that is paining you,o well,i dont know about that but if you want to have s3x with those... Have s3x because you are hurni with no emotions or attachment to it not because of anything outside that otherwise you will come and lament about the same story line of how you gave a man your heart,soul body and whatever and then he broke it if you think s3x will make a man love you,you are so on a long thing because from what i have noticed men dont really have s3x because they love the person they are having s3x with but because they are huni if not why would a married man or single man have s3x with prostitutes. All this i gave him my heart is tales by moonlight. Stop putting too much expectation on those.... They are full of sh1ts,when you dont put too much expectation on them or you dont expect too much from them,you wont be disappointed or suprised.ishh 8 Likes |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 6:51pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
ednut1: ur bible nd parents warned u about sex nd men. u refuse to listen . u got wat u deserved o. in a players mind u have d option to say no. bt u didnt. nxt time dont be easily fuked hehehe you don't have to be harsh....it is just a question that needed few opinions(positive ones) |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Waspy(m): 6:53pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Op, it happens( to both Sexes). Love just like Life, is a Risk. Give it time, you'll heal and never make the same mistakes twice .....or make the mistake of not taking another shot, especially if its the best you'll ever have. 1 Like |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
larride: OP, I can relate to this very well, the same thing happened to me in my last relationship, poo happens, life continues, its going to hurt but you gotta move on, life ain't a bed of roses. I learnt my lesson, toughen up and became a better person off it. Don't forget that no one is worth closing your heart for. Don't allow the pains, betrayals, injuries and heartbreak of yesterday keeps you from opening your heart to the love, joy, happiness and pleasure that tomorrow have to offer, when you finally find the RIGHT MAN it will be worth all the pains. thanks so much, will take your advice into heart |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
kulyie: Thinking that a man should love you or will love you because you had s3x with him is like thinking that basket can hold water because some look like bucket.if its about the time or body you gave him that is paining you,o well,i dont know about that but if you want to have s3x with those... Have s3x because you are hurni with no emotions or attachment to it not because of anything outside that otherwise you will come and lament about the same story line of how you gave a man your heart,soul body and whatever and then he broke it didn't say that I gave him sex cos I wanted him to love me....all I said was, I gave him all I could give him because I loved him and wanted to make him happy 1 Like |
Re: Jokers everywhere by larride(m): 7:00pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
redgem: Your welcome. |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Alexk2(m): 7:01pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
you made a mistake, fix it and live happily. blaming him or love wont solve your problem. next tym, don't give you body until marriage......u will thank me leta if u heed my advice. 5 Likes |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 7:04pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
Waspy: Op, it happens( to both Sexes). Love just like Life, is a Risk. Give it time, you'll heal and never make the same mistakes twice .....or make the mistake of not taking another shot, especially if its the best you'll ever have. positive answer thanks...happy |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Pretyangel25(f): 7:10pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
My dear that's life. |
Re: Jokers everywhere by fnep2smooth(m): 7:25pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
am use to all this heart break stuff.... all I do is pick up the pieces and move on... still hoping to meet the right one someday am use to all this heart break stuff.... all I do is pick up the pieces and move on... still hoping to meet the right one someday 1 Like |
Re: Jokers everywhere by jmoore(m): 7:36pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
ednut1: ur bible nd parents warned u about sex nd men. u refuse to listen . u got wat u deserved o. in a players mind u have d option to say no. bt u didnt. nxt time dont be easily fuked hehehe Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. redgem: @op, next time, reserve your body till marriage. Sex is not love. 1 Like |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
redgem:same ni.mohammed wen to the mosque,or the mosque came to mohammed,same ni gbo gbo e 1 Like |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 8:13pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
kulyie: same ni.mohammed wen to the mosque,or the mosque came to mohammed,same ni gbo gbo e let me ask you a question and be sincere |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 8:18pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
redgem: wouldn't you do everything possible to please the one you love....or should I say go to every extent to make your loved one happy? |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 10:28pm On Dec 23, 2013 |
redgem:yes but not at the expense of my dignity,sanity,principles and standards |
Re: Jokers everywhere by onegig(m): 7:55am On Dec 24, 2013 |
Reyginus: Exactly. Experiences like this should toughen and tighten the understanding of the op and young peopleon what love really should mean. You have said it all. |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 3:35pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Reyginus: Exactly. Experiences like this should toughen and tighten the understanding of the op and young peopleon what love really should mean. he pretended and acted as a good man at first and I fell for it.... so, how will I know that the next man isn't pretending too because, I don't want to risk getting hurt? |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 3:54pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
redgem:I will advice you try your best in discovering if he is got principles and what they really are. Watch if he is the type of person that will make a decision in a minute and go against it the next one. Principles matter. But I cannot guarantee that you will know when he is not prentending. Anybody can use con to get anything. |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Abbey2sam(m): 3:56pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
redgem: I am veering and I really need answers to this questions.... You should have given him the breakup sex |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 4:35pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Abbey2sam: wow! can see what kind of a man you are....ladies out there should avoid men like you. |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Abbey2sam:Lolol. See advice o! Why do you think so? |
Re: Jokers everywhere by jascopassion(m): 6:35pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
I knw the lady that wrote this message and funny enof am the BF in question. SEGUN by name. Deny me in the public Tolugal |
Re: Jokers everywhere by redgem(f): 6:46pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
jascopassion: I knw the lady that wrote this message and funny enof am the BF in question. SEGUN by name. Deny me in the public Tolugal lol....joker |
Re: Jokers everywhere by baralatie(m): 7:24pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
redgem: I am veering and I really need answers to this questions....Try JESUS CHRIST AS UR LORD AND SAVIOUR! Merry Xmas! |
Re: Jokers everywhere by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Truth is U just have to move on with your life shit happens. |
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