Its definitely a recipe for hangment.

All these secrets abeg
why the burden, its not worth it

i have tried to keep diaries countless times

it doesnt work, i get bored
My blog sef, its barely alive Undecided Undecided Undecided

I wont apologize if he sees it, neither will i explode on him about going through my stuff

DeepZone:

Guys,
Will you in your lifetime attempt to read your girl's/wife's diary knowing full well that most women write down too much information there? If you do read it eventually and see things like, he's lazy/bad in bed, will you secretly work on improvement or will you confront her knowing full well that what you did was illegal?

better things to do with my woman than read her diary and besides, it would prolly be boring anyway, because most women are!

DeepZone:

If we are boring, what are you doing chasing us around unless you find your fellow men exciting, you know?

them boring doesnt mean i have a major issue wit it, the message is simple-what is in the diary would prolly be boring so not worth my while!

Exactly. if i have to write it down, only me should be able to read it

sistawoman:

I keep a diary and I have told my husband that he should never read it. He has agreed/promised to never ever read it. My diary is the one place where i am absolutely true to my feelings, my thoughts and myself.

I tell no lies to my diary and hide nothing from it. My husband has instructions that at my death my diaries are to be burnt. I don't want my children to get a hold of them.

It is nice to sometimes go back and reflect on past events and see how i have grown or not grown in my thinking and the decisons i keep making over and over again.

. My husband has instructions that at my death my diaries are to be burnt. I don't want my children to get a hold of them.

DeepZone:

What if your husband dies before you or your children get to teenage age because they'll surely see and read it even if you hid it in hell.

Uche2nna:

@ siatawoman

Why keep a diary in the first place when at the end it is going to end up being burnt

sistawoman:


It is nice to sometimes go back and reflect on past events and see how i have grown or not grown in my thinking and the decisons i keep making over and over again.

I have a diary , have kept one since I could write. Only started keeping my diaries since i was 13 though , [b]i used to write all sorts and my crushes etc until my dad decided to take me for deliverance one Friday night. I wondered why[/b] ? and what? was happening. Only to discover he found my diary and read how i was in love with my friend etc. anyway the deliverance did not work lol. Since that day i devised my own language or code and have used it ever since. Diaries are therapeutic for me, i get to off load all the crap and let my creative juices flow in words. I don't think i would care if anyone finds my diary once i have left home cause then i will be answerable to no one and if i had a snooping partner then that just shows the relationship lacks trust.

hmmm Huh glad you are easily excited, happy to have tickled your funny bones

DeepZone:

I don die for laughter here. I can imagine his thoughts when he read your diary because all along, he thought you were a virgin.

DeepZone:

I don die for laughter here. I can imagine his thoughts when he read your diary because all along, he thought you were a virgin.

Uche2nna:


Then maybe it is no longer a diary Why don't u just call it a log?