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The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 2:09pm On Aug 04, 2008
Not sure where to post this, just looking for people's perceptives.
According to the Declaration of Independence, each of us is "endowed by our creator with certain inalienable ritghts, among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness."

Since TJ wrote this words, the question of what is happiness and what is required to attain it has been discussed in philosophy clases and bars, in classrooms and US Supreme Court. Does happiness come from pleasure? The fulfilment of every desire, From love? From meaning? Is it an end itself or the consequence of fulfilling some other love?

In your own perceptive, What is happiness and how does one attain it?
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Viante(f): 2:17pm On Aug 04, 2008
The measure of happiness differs from individual to individual.

Attaining it, also
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by onyinye2(f): 2:21pm On Aug 04, 2008
What I define as happiness:

Happiness is when you fulfill YOUR dreams. Be it find love, your dream job, anything you want.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 2:27pm On Aug 04, 2008
Viante:

The measure of happiness differs from individual to individual.

Attaining it, also
Yes,each person have their own ideas of happiness. Some find it in pleasure, others in pain/or causing the other pain.

My question still remains unanswered, what is happiness to you and how do you obtain it?

onyinye2:

What I define as happiness:

Happiness is when you fulfill YOUR dreams. Be it find love, your dream job, anything you want.
Hmmm, funny thing is, most times people find their own happiness in putting a smile in other people's face.
Others, their idea of happiness is "wonderful marriage" or children. but why?
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by onyinye2(f): 2:34pm On Aug 04, 2008
Ruby_Pearl:

Hmmm, funny thing is, most times people find their own happiness in putting a smile in other people's face.
Others, their idea of happiness is "wonderful marriage" or children. but why?
This is a real hard question. To me happiness, is making my parents proud. And seeing my teenagers see what they are truly capable. To obtain happiness requires work as much as anything else. To obtain it depends on what you consider happiness.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by megaboss: 2:40pm On Aug 04, 2008
Happiness is an inner peace that radiates outer joy.

You don't tell people you are happy: They feel it.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Viante(f): 2:44pm On Aug 04, 2008
I take happiness day by day, it is not some goal i aim to achieve.

i am happy when i wake up in the morning

i am happy when i have something to eat

i am happy when i get to work safely

i am happy when i can deliver my quota at the end of the day

i am happy when i get home safely

i am happy when i lay my head down to sleep.

More to come
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 2:56pm On Aug 04, 2008
LOL, so Gamine, happiness to you is your health? life? ability to mantain agility? cool
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by sistawoman: 2:57pm On Aug 04, 2008
Happiness for me is waking up and seeing my husband in the morning, getting my children up and seeing that they all made it safely thru another night and God blessed me with their presence today.  

Happiness is looking at my step-daughter and knowing that at 16 she is girl of high morals and virtue and that she remains that everyday despite the peer pressure.  

Happiness is knowing that where ever my children go they will always be respectful and well behaved even if I am not around.

Happiness is seeing my children smiling faces when i come from work.

Happiness is hearing thank you from my children, my husband, my parents, my sister and my brothers even when i dont expect that the little thing i did for them has brought them happiness.

For each person happiness is defined differently for me because i am a pleaser personality i get greater happiness from having those around me be happy.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by onyinye2(f): 2:57pm On Aug 04, 2008
To me happiness is me sitting outside under the sun. I sit there for hours at a time and meditate and get in touch with my source, my soul. I breathe in the refreshing air and take in the energy of the Earth. While i meditate, i think of all the things that i have achieved, all the trials i have over come, all the mistakes i have made, all the successes i have made, all the people i have hurt, all the people that hurt me, the love i have gained, the love i have lost, the rivers of tears i have made, and the path of righteousness i have walked,the mornings i wake up with a smile, the nights i cry myself to sleep, the days i feel as high as the clouds, the days i feel lower than dirt, the moments i know that God is with me, the moments i feel that i God has forgotten me. When i awake from my meditation and rediscovered my soul, then i know i have achieved happiness. Because i know where i have been, and where i can go.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 2:58pm On Aug 04, 2008
The fact that I am alive by God's good grace
The fact that I am able to see another day

This is happiness  kiss
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Viante(f): 3:04pm On Aug 04, 2008
Happiness is realising while going through a ruff ruff time cry

that it would pass away, that there is a light at the end and there is a morning after the night smiley

Happiness is knowing that there is someone who will always be there.


Sadness will grip me, when something unfair happens to smbody

Happiness takes over, when i realise that the person will make it through

or that i can help the person make it through


its pretty easy to get me happy

im not a grumpy person at all

i tend to worry alot, but im optimistic smiley


more to come
grin
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 04, 2008
Yes, it's good to be optimistic.
Why allow anyone or anything let you down?

BtW, I noticed that no one has mentioned love. Is it not happiness?
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Viante(f): 4:28pm On Aug 04, 2008
Love of whut, Love of who, Love of where
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by DeepZone: 4:59pm On Aug 04, 2008
Happiness comes when you are contented and grateful to God for who you are and what you have, it doesn't matter if all your dreams are fulfilled or not.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Uby40(m): 5:05pm On Aug 04, 2008
i think the last time i saw this Topic was in a movie,stared by Will Smith.

i guess that best defines wat real happines is than wat is been clamoured here.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 5:13pm On Aug 04, 2008
@Viante (heheh, funny name

All of the above

@deepzone
I like that definition.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by onyinye2(f): 5:15pm On Aug 04, 2008
Uby40:

i think the last time i saw this Topic was in a movie,stared by Will Smith.

i guess that best defines what real happines is than what is been clamoured here.
So you are telling me that what i wrote is a false definition of happiness?
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 04, 2008
I don't even understand what he wrote
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by onyinye2(f): 5:22pm On Aug 04, 2008
Nwannem Ruby, i was about to say the same thing.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Baxilexi(m): 5:31pm On Aug 04, 2008
Happiness is a free gift of god it isnt something you go out of your way and look for cause your never gonna find it.

obedience to the word of god = happiness
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 11:08pm On Aug 04, 2008
Can you atleast show respect by Capitalizing His name? God? tongue tongue
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Nobody: 11:58pm On Aug 04, 2008
@ topic

You can be satisfied but happiness? Just like infinite you can persuit it but never will you reach it!
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Gamine(f): 9:16am On Aug 05, 2008
I am very Happy right now grin grin

i dont have to pursue it cheesy
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Bibankee: 10:21am On Aug 05, 2008
Happiness is a decision
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Eclairs: 10:38am On Aug 05, 2008
To be happy is to be loved,
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Gamine(f): 10:40am On Aug 05, 2008
@Eclairs

Bros u came late so MUTE
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Eclairs: 10:44am On Aug 05, 2008
Gamine:

@Eclairs

Bros u came late so MUTE

I hear you. typical nairalander.
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Gamine(f): 10:47am On Aug 05, 2008
Thank God!!! typical lipsrsealed u lipsrsealed u
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Eclairs: 10:52am On Aug 05, 2008
na u sabi,
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Eclairs: 10:55am On Aug 05, 2008
@ Gemine

if u dey find beef this morning, wrong person/wrong time, ok, anyway, just hang around for a while and you'd meet the right person.

,
Re: The Pursuit Of Happiness by Gamine(f): 10:56am On Aug 05, 2008
Its Gamine, kind sir.

Thanks for modifying your post.

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