Hi my fellow nairalanders,Wht is this country of ours turning into.I"ve been in few relationships with naija babes bt its usually lasting within months without having sex with them because my future is very important to me.I came to think of it nd realized that it may be because of nt having sex with them.Am tired of entering another relationship nw because am afraid that the same thing will happen cos am nt ready for sex things nw.My question is can one ever date a naija babe without having sex with her?

yes

Yea sure now, I once dated one babe, na everyday she dey menstruate

why not? u two must agree on it. It'll nt work only when it's opposing to what d choice of d other party is and such relationships are usually healthier

You need sex in order
for it to survive. People have to feel
desired at some point or they'll find it
elsewhere... Having sex early on doesn't mean the
relationship is BUILT on it.
i had dinner the first date, does that
mean it's built on eating?

wait till ur mature enough for a relationship so u know if its possible or Even necessary

It's not only you. Had the same experience with guYs though. My advice for you is wait till you want to settle down before you get into a relationship so you Don't go through it again. By the time she starts asking, you guys wud be married

Having sex has nothing to do with your future. Are you a kid?

youngprof2n: Hi my fellow nairalanders,Wht is this country of ours turning into.I"ve been in few relationships with naija babes bt its usually lasting within months without having sex with them because my future is very important to me.I came to think of it nd realized that it may be because of nt having sex with them.Am tired of entering another relationship nw because am afraid that the same thing will happen cos am nt ready for sex things nw.My question is can one ever date a naija babe without having sex with her?

Guys are chasing sex up nd down, dis one is running from it....i give up!!

Gab-real:
Guys are chasing sex up nd down, dis one is running from it....i give up!!

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In this world that we are now, it is almost impossible especially if you are a handsome, attractive guy. I have made up my mind not to enter into a relationship until am close to getting married. My past relationships didn't last long because i 'could not live up to expectation'. The truth is that pre-marital sex kills. It really does!

wow kudos to all your comments,I really love it.THANKS.

proxillin: Having sex has nothing to do with your future. Are you a kid?

Are you for real?

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Yes, of course it's possible. You only need to find her.
It takes a lot of talking through, you both need to agree to it as what you both want for the relationship. It becomes less difficult, and less of an issue if you both from the onset have it down as a laid down principle or a blueprint for the relationship.
I've been fortunate in the past with girls like this, but, again, it doesn't guarantee anything. The sex abstainance doesn't guarantee a stable relationship or a lasting one. Having that sort of relationship, you need a whole lot more than that.
Goodluck!

its gono happen cos if u deprive her of it, she gets it elsewhere. Besides she is not ur wife that may want to wait cos of faithful things

I've been dating my gurl 4 18 months, though she sleeps over in my house at times I have never touched her...... nd she loves me even more














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