MY NEW YEAR NOTE

Ladies

Your mothers didnt have to dress to kill. They didnt have to open their sensitive parts to get a man. They didnt have to wear deceptive clothes in order to find that loving man. What attracts prince charming is not bumper shots, or sleeveless. If you want a prince you have to act like a queen....but if you want a cassanova...well you know what to do to get them. Ask yourself how are harlots known? Do they carry signposts on their heads showing that theyre harlots? Or do they go around telling people? No. You just know that theyre harlots by looking at them and their actions. I remember when I was little harlots were known by ladies who wear trousers....then women stole trousers from them. Then it came to short skirts...all ladies started wearing short skirts....it came to short knickers...all ladies began wearing them. Yes dont judge by looks....but do you know men are driven by looks? Do you think they have to speak to you first before knowing who and what you are? Learn to show some decency...learn to act like a queen...take your cue from queen elizabeth she cant dress with any part of her skin showing...
Being a big girl is not in make-up, making
expensive hair, wearing expensive clothes,
sunshade, heel, with Blackerry, iphone,
ipad or Galaxy, being a big girl is that there
is need for a woman of virtue who can deliver, who can stand the defense, who
can be given a responsibility and people
will be at rest....your name will be called
and they will start looking for you at all
cost...being a big girl is being RELEVANT. There is something more important than
wears or using a brazillian hair worths
75k.... Being big girl is definitely more than
that And for those ladies that also think that its by always putting on wrapper and cooking and taking care of kids that make a wife? You think wrong. Learn to at least wear good clothes put on a good perfume. Wash your body well...dont look like a mechanic....no man wants a dirty wife...get some education...though patience married Jonathan...but shes part of the reason people dont respect him. get an education show a man you can be what you want to be without him. Be a woman of virtue of strength...dont be a girl...be a lady. A man needs a woman that can represent him anywhere he may not be found he needs someone that can be as substitute in the home, in functions depending on his influence..Empower yourself....a man shouldnt be your empowerment. No man wants to marry a woman that has been with everyone....that has been sharing nude pics on the net just for RECHARGE CARDS Create value for yourself your man should be proud to have you. Not his male friends laughing at him causw youve been with peter,emeka,ebuka,okafor,chima,okoro and all are his friends. Never lie to keep your man. If your relationship has to be a secret you shouldnt be in it. BE A QUEEN

GUYS

A queen doesnt want swag she wants class. She doesnt want qizkid she wants frank edoho....she doesnt want rick ross.....she wants obama. Learn to have a life...dont live other peoples life....I still see guys saying theyre the baddest guy that ever liveth....some are over 30 years and are wizkid aspirants or even davidos aspirant. They dont have a job...but they know all the places parties are done...they have been to all the clubs...they have been to all birthday functions. They dont read pdfs that can change lifes...some dont have a bank account...some dont have a library....some dont even know what a seminar is....some go to church to charge their phones....they dont listen to the pastor
Being a big boy is not in wearing
sunshade, pencil trousers, holding
Blackberry, iphone, ipad or Galaxy, and
cross your leg,....being a big boy is that
there is need and people are looking for who can solve it? who can be called to
handle it that will deliver, even when they
call your number and did not get you on
phone, they come looking for you in your
house,...being a Big Boy is being RELEVANT....I know a friend that goes to christ embassy just cause the pastor will say hug your neighbour and he always search for the prettiest and endowed girls...I dont know how that add value to his life. You cant sleep with all the girls and go scot free....you cant waste peoples lives and think yours will be spared you cant make women cry and think you will always smile....a man reaps what he sows. Use your time to read books. Use your time to work on yourself as an individual. Use your time to go to seminars....use your time to sit with scholars....not with people who discuss football like its their calling. Be with people who wants to go somewhere...who want to sit with kings...who add value to your life. Your queen should be proud not being laughed at cause all the lady friends she has has been with you. Having 200 girlfriends has never been and will not be an achievement. Achieve socially,academically,financially. Love the Lord and he will love you too

Shalom