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Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by ohzee(f): 7:40am On Jul 04, 2014 |
What's the point of keeping in touch? Is it just to show that you have self control or what? It's not about whether you are faithful or not. it's about removing EVERY seed of doubt in your partner's mind. If you run into your ex, you can be polite and courteous, but to actively keep in touch with him or her is selfish and totally unnecessary in my humble opinion. 7 Likes |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by kachi007(m): 7:40am On Jul 04, 2014 |
its nt dat bad... U could still find ur rythm again...love dy say never dies |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Atmmachine(m): 7:58am On Jul 04, 2014 |
what do you need from her |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by phadat(m): 7:58am On Jul 04, 2014 |
happened to me recently, we were an item back in school before she got married to this guy abroad not long ago I got a call from her that she was bereaved I went to say my condolences only for her to start making moves towards me , yours truly I was almost falling for it before I remembered " thou shall not covet thy neighbours wife" and I turn tail and ran 5 Likes |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by korel9: 8:03am On Jul 04, 2014 |
G.12: It shows how jobless you are! 1 Like |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by mkoabiola: 8:06am On Jul 04, 2014 |
My ex find it difficlt to let go jus lik dat May b cos d way I service dem,dnt ask wat kind of general service.I dnt knw Wil av to change my noba sooon |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Nobody: 8:08am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat? Wow! I am amazed |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by demitola(m): 8:16am On Jul 04, 2014 |
well, i also feel d fulfilment one is deriving in d present mariage also goes a veri long way to totaly neglekt d past. but diz dayz of peeps hurrying into marriage inorder to impress or proove levels without adequate preparatn make it more unpredictable. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by obayaya(m): 8:24am On Jul 04, 2014 |
While I don't believe in cutting ties entirely with an Ex, I believe in setting clear boundaries. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by CharlieMaria(m): 8:40am On Jul 04, 2014 |
JUST AVOID HER COMPLETELY EVEN THOUGH YOU TRUST YOURSELF,. BECAUSE YOUR TOOL MAY NOT TRUST ITSELF WHEN THE SITUATION ARISES. DO NOT PUT THE LORD THY GOD TO THE TEST. 1 Like |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Anacksunamun: 8:44am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Belleciouz:..And the 'more than 70% of guys' hooked up with who? Stones or spirits? You and I both know their exes are also "more than 70% of girls." So be fair in your assessment. 2 Likes |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by mondaypaul77(m): 8:50am On Jul 04, 2014 |
You are on point but kudos to my mentor 'leke Alder'. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by robosky02(m): 8:59am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat? hay STOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP you are about to.... |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by PerfectFortune: 9:09am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat? Yes you are a big cheat and to confirm/understand simply put your fiancee in your position and imagine her doing what you are doing and please don't forget to let us know how you would feel. 5 Likes |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by softandsweet(f): 9:10am On Jul 04, 2014 |
For some reason, I feel my heart beating..... #Life's complications |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by coolzeal(m): 9:16am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Of course it depends on the situation. Keeping up with your ex after you're married, in and of itself, shouldn't be considered wrong. But a lot of times, it's best to move on with the life you have without your ex as your spouse will not be comfortable with it. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Nobody: 9:18am On Jul 04, 2014 |
chelseabmw: To me it's not a bad idea tho depends on the line of communication...Nice one |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Nobody: 9:24am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat?Nooo ure not a cheat o, the both of you are just doing fisi for each other. Ure a fowl 2 Likes |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Ishilove: 9:26am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat?Yes; a very big one 1 Like |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by sheymoni(m): 9:41am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Men who still have Sex with their ex are not cheating. They are only getting their retirement benefits 3 Likes |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Nobody: 9:54am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Why marry a man that has his ex as a contact and claims they are now just friends? The past must be behind you in spirit and in truth or no deal. 1 Like |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by jaybee(f): 10:11am On Jul 04, 2014 |
ohzee: What's the point of keeping in touch? Is it just to show that you have self control or what? It's not about whether you are faithful or not. it's about removing EVERY seed of doubt in your partner's mind. If you run into your ex, you can be polite and courteous, but to actively keep in touch with him or her is selfish and totally unnecessary in my humble opinion. @ OP, @ohzee I've kept active communication (for whatever reason) with four (4) of my ex's (not quite sure of there ex status) for the past fourteen (14) years and now i desperately want to marry at least one of them now. the process is ongoing. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Tunagee(m): 10:16am On Jul 04, 2014 |
It is better to avoid any ex to prevent temptation! lets not deceive ourselves |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Inosenduatall: 10:20am On Jul 04, 2014 |
kingthreat: Why is it that men are so scared of their wives' ex? It's like you don't really understand women. If you like be a thousand times better than her ex. Just leave her in a room with her ex and see if wonders will not begin to manifest. The Law of Okafor is real o, better wake up! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by DukeNija(m): 10:21am On Jul 04, 2014 |
phadat: happened to me recently, we were an item back in school before she got married to this guy abroad not long ago I got a call from her that she was bereaved I went to say my condolences only for her to start making moves towards me , yours truly I was almost falling for it before I remembered " thou shall not covet thy neighbours wife" and I turn tail and ran You did well. Should be proud of yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by teeyford(m): 10:22am On Jul 04, 2014 |
breathless: @OP. Why on earth did you have to go dub jacknjilllive?who ask u oo...amebo,it sure helped alotta people about to make d mistake. 1 Like |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Inosenduatall: 10:23am On Jul 04, 2014 |
gbaskiboy: The best is to cut off any ties that bind both of u together. It starts with simple 'hello' but at end it results to adultery. And u start going about with guilty conscience that last for months. The funny thing is, not everybody has that guilty conscience thing you talked about. Dem go even happy pass dey chop d forbidden kpomo dey go. That is, until they eventually get caught. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jul 04, 2014 |
oamronnie: Let me tell you how to get into trouble after marriage: Keep in touch with your ex girlfriend!Will keep this so close to my heart. Thanks. There's so much the word 'ex' represents and its almost always the past. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Inosenduatall: 10:27am On Jul 04, 2014 |
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Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by Inosenduatall: 10:27am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat? You know you are. But it's all good bro, he who is without sin should cast the first unused condom. |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by victorazy(m): 10:34am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Rushing to meet my ex now! |
Re: Keeping In Touch With The Ex After Marriage. Bad Idea? by myspnigeria: 10:42am On Jul 04, 2014 |
It's not a good idea at all. Leave the past in the past |
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